Polish Girls vs Russian Girls

No, I'm not trying to play you... I just thought it would be nice to know your opinion. Honesty, sincerity, self-respect and other values -- it's hard to grasp them all when you have a 5-minute contact with the other person.

actually pretty easy. the trick is that you don't have to play any tricks. these things just show, whether you want it or not... to those who are attentive enough to see them - meaning to the right ones .

Fair enough. Thanks for your thoughtful answers - you must be a psychology or sociology student.

actually quite the opposite , may I ask what you do professionally?

Oh, I see... so you are a mathematician then...

I'm a professional heartbreaker who prefers Polish women to Russian women . Seriously though, I'm in IT so from time to time have time to be online.

professional heartbreaker... so why exactly did you choose to hurt Polish women and not Russian?

Well, I met a couple of Russian girls and they are nice but it was hard for me to have an intellectual conversation like I can have with Polish girls .

now that I think about it, I'm wondering why do you spend time breaking people's hearts? did someone break yours so badly that you're still taking revenge for it?

I think you didn't notice a wink after I wrote about "breaking hearts", did you?

Well, there were a couple or even a few ladies who broke my heart, but I'm in no position to revenge for that. One of them - the last one I met - simply chose to stay with her "old" boyfriend after having spent several weeks with me! I fell in love with her and was silly enough to think she would stay with me forever . But all in all I'm happy she didn't choose me; I was too young and didn't know that for quite a few very young girls a long-term relationship was not the way to go. I didn't have a lot of girlfriends; I've always tried to focus on the quality, not the quantity. Today, though, I can say it was worth it.

What about you? Do you have a boyfriend? Have you had many? (Please don't treat it as "monkey questions" though .

Technically the wink was after "Russian girls", so I can't be sure which part of it was a joke .

I would say learn your lesson and don't let people break your heart so easily, which would probably mean not falling in love with the wrong people and learning what it takes to build a good relationship. It may sound like something difficult to do, but in reality it's a great journey.

Yes, I have a boyfriend and I had one before him. I've tried to make sure I don't make the same mistakes twice, but every person is different so you can never know the formula... therefore all the work has to be done on ourselves, it's so exciting! .

Which are the best at cooking and in bed?
Do you have to chain them to the kitchen sink or can you trust them to stay put?

I like your tongue.

Well, it's easy to say "learn your lesson"; it's harder to do when you meet a gorgeous Polish woman who surprisingly is sort of interested in you too (at least in my dreams . It's like love at first sight (from my point of view, of course).

You're right - you never know the formula; however, it's not that exiting when you are left alone again :}.

what kind of caveman wrote this message? (women, beware, don't talk with this guy!)

Rfx - don't let yourself be easily seduced (hard to do if you're looking at women as sex objects, react to them automatically and can "know" if you like them or not just by looking at them though).
It doesn't look to me as 'love at first sight' but infatuation based on sexual attraction (was she really that gorgeous...?) - how could you have thought that a relationship based on that will be long-term and fulfilling?
You are left alone again? Means that you never learnt your lesson, maybe you never thought that there is more for you to learn, or that your assumptions might not have been right... It is easy, the only hard part is to realize that YOU must change your attitude... or expectations.

You are so nice to give me this piece of advice. Technically, I'm not alone, but my heart still misses something...

Your boyfriend must be a lucky guy (is he Polish too?).

my boyfriend is a lucky guy? but you don't even know how I look... but he's definitely a great guy (as far as I got to know him).

Lol! I love your being sarcastic, you got me there .
Since you chose a very nice avatar I assume you have a sense of beauty and style and that's enough for me (initially at least). Besides, as we are all getting older and older, sense of humor and ability to have a nice conversation is meaningful. If your boyfriend doesn't think he's a lucky guy, there must be something wrong or I'm missing something (as I usually do .

He definitely thinks he's a lucky guy as well as I know that I am a lucky girl . But you - should learn NOT to miss things! . Maybe it's a rude way to say this, but I hope you don't expect your genitals to satisfy your heart.

As long as my avatar goes... don't make too many assumptions, although I definitely have a sense of beauty and style . It's sad that you think that our youth can be shallow and empty... .

"Lucky the guy who can think his genitals".... Since he's happy it means you know how to make him happy, which constituates a good girlfriend or wife. I won't ask again about any tricks you may be using to make him happy as I don't want to be called "monkey" again...

Youth can be shallow and empty indeed. When you turn 64, you'll know what it means.

// I'd like to know what it means too

did you mean "healthy the guy..."?

It's not that I "know how to make him happy" - he's not my son or I'm not his slave. We are happy because we can understand each other and want the same things. Neither of us is using any tricks to do that, we are just ourselves which is so amazing that you would never want anything else!

When the guy is healthy too, he's even more lucky.... :}.

So does it mean you are similar to each other or completely different, supplementary? I think both partners should share a lot in common in order to be able to stay in a long relationship. My old girlfriend liked it that I was quiet (and she was not), but in the end she said she preferred crazy guys like herself...

of course we are similar. and in the 'different' parts we are learning from each other.

You don't mean body parts, do you? (kidding).
Anyway, if there was only one guy (me) on a desert island, would you go out with me? Why not?

Take care and good luck to you.

Thanks. I new I must have said something stupid.. I'll learn some day I hope.
bartek

If I may chime in here... Don't confuse the difference between human sexuality and human intellect. Beauty is truely in the eye of the beholder (I think Rfx just wants to beheld ). I have met both Polish and Russian women, I honestly found the women from both nationalities to be physically attractive. Now the thing that sets poeple apart from each other is thier indivualism. Polish women seem to have a litle more personality than Russian women, but it may have just been the ones I met. My vote is... Polish women are the best!

Jesus Christ, sexuality is sexuality but sexual behavior is a LEARNED behavior, could there possibly be your mind involved in it then? (but again, if you learned it in an unthinking passive way, you get the illusion that it's "your nature", but once again, consciousness is a requirement)

Sexual behaviour has been learned/inborn by nature. Just give me a girl and I will know what to do with her even though my parents had never talked about me about sex .

did you by any chance try to make these two - learned and inborn - equal?

did your parents teach you the grammar rules of english or polish before you learnt how to speak it? next time please try to think a little deeper before you write something. I think I've explained it a couple times by now, have you read it? if you have problems understanding, ask me questions instead of repeating the same phrase over and over like a broken record. but then again, if you choose not to use your brain because of your laziness, keep being a caveman but don't talk to me.

I think it's a tought subject and it's hard to determine who's right or not. Men and women are different and they tend to think and act in a different way. It results in misunderstanding or misinterpretation.