POLISH GUY AND BLACK GIRL!

i am a black girl from england, funny country but anyway, i have a polish boyfriend. he is the sweetest guy i have ever met. he is loving, kind, sexy, very handsome, good at cooking and everything. he is what i have been praying for. he has now met my mom and bros. i have met his sister and will be going to poland to meet his parents. i am excited. and yes, we have recieved lots of racism here in th UK. will i recieve it more in Poland? what do Polish parents expect a daughter-in-law to be. what do i bring? is there any traditional polish things i should know? help!!!!!!!!!

So you are engaged to be marry, Blingin? Congrats if you are. I'm not in Poland, but I know there is a thread running around this forum on Poland and racism....should be able to find an answer there. Even if you come across racism, if your love is strong, it can survive it. Good luck and welcome to the forum.

hey blingin

welcome to the forum - stick around awhile and all your questions will be answered...

but ready yourself... expect racism... unfortunately...

where does your bf's family live?

im not sure where? thy live in poland but im not sure what city. i will find out. thanx for replying.

i guess i should. thanx for that!

Impossible is nothing!

Keep that in mind girl. Love can make you weak but strong at the same time.

Keep it going

I am black and have been with lots of polish girls, they will love you if there son loves you. I never had any trouble with parents, maybe its the sort of person I am.

Happy for u and wish u luck.

no advantages in being a racist.

kiko

hello blingin, i hope you will read this anyway and if not, another person with the same question will read this - maybe.

well, i will try to keep it short...

i'm asian and have a polish gf since 2 years(we both live in germany) and i was many times in poland.

my experiences:

-poland has a lot/big racism problems, you can nearly compare it with russia.
not only the old people have problems with other nationalities, even the younger, well educated people and this is kind of scary!

well asininity are everywhere, but this is just my opinion about poland!


-about her mother...when i met her mother for the first time and tried to shake her hands/introduced myself, she jumped up the couch and stared at me with her big shocked eyes and avoided directly to get to know me.
she started to have a very aggresive "brawl" with my gf. i just stood around and was very perplexed, didn't know what to say and to do. -___-
it ends up very bad....
my gf cried and we had to leave her mother's apartment at night-time.
month later there was still no peace in her family and i couldn't live with that matter that my gf got problems because of me.
i tried to end our relationship, because i just wanted peace for everyone!

well like i said,my gf(in general her whole family) got problems because of me.
i was accussed by her mother for everything what comes in her mind and was slandered/insulted, because i'm asian. -___-

at the end, i'm still together with my gf, but not really welcome in her family.



for me, idiocy is a curse for the humanity.



(sorry for my english!)

Hello I think the racism is something ubiquitous, but at the end the love is the winner, so don´t worry, love, go with him to the mountains, travel a lot. I am mulatto, and I know the racism, but remeber ,you are beautiful, not matter what they say......

Just be yuorself :)

It depends who you meet, me and my (black) girlfriend didnt experience any rasism in Poland, we did in SPain though in place where there is loads of foreigners, so it just depends, but dont worry, as i said, be yourself and everything will be allright, and if they dont like you becasue you are black or something then thats thier problem ^.^

+1 on that, especially the older generation, and those raised in smaller towns and villages tend to be. The younger generation however tends to be more open toward interracial relationships. Due to the small number of Black people in poland, not to many older polish people have ever been in contact with Black or Asian peeps. I duno, just be yourself, if they see that you care about him and that he cares for you as well, they will accept you. If not, ohh well, dont worry. Its their loss.