do polish guys have a different approach to dating than others guys?

Ya, I knew you would.

I was pissed because you were generalizing. You can't take it out on everyone beacuse of a few people. We're a large country and we have many different views on life. I'm over it though. I realize there are bitter people out there.

I think that bitterness is temporary.
If you have bad time you blame everyone. When I moved to England and started my second job ( first was about 7 month) I met quite unfriendly peoplei n my team . And I felt qite bad there- It is like 8 hours everyday to spend with people you don't like. I was moaning Briitish are awful, unfriendly. That is not true- it is just generalization when we feel bad. Since then I have met lots of nice, warm ,funny people here.

I think that in USA there are lots great men. It is so big country full of people from all over the world.

Koziol
I am in America. I was born here.

Are you generalizing the British? There are people with oral hygene problems all over the world. No need to call someone a racist Brit. Mellow out.
Maybe Shelly was in Alabama. Did you ask her?

Yeah, that's an outdated British stereotype.

Yeah I know
Im just goofing around with you guys sorry
I was bored yesterday

It feels good to let out your feelings. You don't have to be sorry. We're all friends here. RIGHT??

Yes, I like this site there are alot of interesting posts here and there also are some
that maybe I dont care for. But at least you have the freedom to say whats on your mind.
Some morons try to get others banned if they dont what they hear. I dont have a problem with anyboby on here just having fun like everybody else

When you have a hard day at work, or just anytime, you need to go somewhere and get it out of your system where you can say crap and nobody knows who you are.
This is the place to do it.
It's also addicting.

I most certainly was not, American is not a place I have any desire to ever visit, I live in England and have some of the most beautiful european counties on my doorstep.



thanks Fiz, but being from the North of England, we're thick skinned and dont really care about what people have to say.



You were obviously associating with the wrong people.



and last but my no means least, every person on this plant is a racist to a certain point, please dont tell me you have never made a comment that could be construde as racist

Yes, many of them don't have sex before marriage


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'When you have a hard day at work, or just anytime, you need to go somewhere and get it out of your system where you can say crap and nobody knows who you are.
This is the place to do it.
It's also addicting'

I so no this feeling Krysia plus you are always a great help with all my translations - i always sit at work and like getting a insight of what others are like around the work. I meani always fill as though i have problems and i no many other have worse problems then me and it helps me not to fill sorry for myself

I mean i am in love with a polish man which is always working although he says he likes me he shows me interest only when he fills like it so it ends up really hurtful considering i have gave alot to him if that makes sense

mmm, one just can't generalise really. My now ex Polish boyfriend had over 20 different text messages stored on his phone all from women he was sleeping around on, some of them while he was with me. Don't judge by nationality, judge the person!!

and some of them even have sex after marriage too! and not neccessarily with their wives.

whats with the dog thing? maybe you like Grzegorsz?

I am really very sorry Krysia about the way your ex-husband treated you. He sounds like he was a real s***head! And to do what he did.......unexcusable. I'd kick his a** right now because he makes other guys look bad. I have a similar story, I am also divorced, and my wife did some truly horrible things to me, and I too have met a wonderful woman now who happens to be Polish.

But this doesn't mean that I couldn't have met a wonderful American woman. This doesn't mean that all American women are bad. I understand you are still very hurt over what he did to you, and that is ok, and it is also ok for you to have a personal opinion that you don't want to try a relationship with another American man, but you shouldn't go around saying to everyone that all American men are bad because they simply aren't. I for one, would never do anything like I can only imagine what your bast*** of an ex did to you. And to make a statement like that only serves to generate anger and hate between people, in this instance it could serve to generate anger in this forum between American men and Polish women and something like that serves no useful purpose and is not good.

I'm sorry I went on a soapbox there for a bit, and I do really feel for you. I can't imagine someone who would go and get a vasectomy behind his wife's back. I assure you though that most men that get this done are for the reasons that Shelley stated above, they don't want anymore children and don't want the hassle of birth control products. And any man that would do this in secret to cheat on their spouse................well at least they won't be infecting this world with anymore of their kind.

Totally agreed! Maybe it's related to the overly capitalist lifestyle they lead....you know, the I WANT MORE I WANT MORE I WANT MORE bit. Like a 2 year old in the MINE phase.

I have to disagree with you. Yes while coming from a certain culture is definitely going to have some influence on how you were brought up and what values you have come to hold, but not everyone is going to follow the same path.

We aren't made by some predesigned cookie cutter.

I for one am an American man, and I keep no journal of sexual conquests. Of course I have had more than one sexual partner, but that was only after I got divorced. My wife was the first woman I had ever had sex with, and while I have had more partners I'm sure my number is very low compared to most other guys. I think people that are proud of how many people they have slept with, have lost touch with themselves, maybe even lost a bit of their soul, and I for one will never be like that.

I don;t mean they are all like that- just that it seems to be considered the "american way". I also read somewhere that countries who get overly imperialistic/capitalistic tend to have this kind of behavior glorified- not to say everyone engages in it. I know lots of nice american guys.

I totally agree with this. Everywhere you look it's all about sex. Movies, T.V., Music Videos..... It's the modern day pop culture that pushes it so much!

popular music....UHG!

Strictly platonic relationships to polish girls.Catch the message to be fine.

I remained faithful to all my girlfriends. All mixed americans. I finally found a great girl who treats me they way I treat her. I feel lucky. Yes, most american morals aren't anywhere close to how my parents brought me up. However, I also dated a few polish girls, and found they, and their girlfriends, were more interested in money than a great guy. The term 'gold-digger' comes to mind. i tried for years to find a great Polish woman, none existed ; it seemed.

My advice for the beginning of this subject, enjoy being with each other, if its more than you want, talk to him. I was shy for years and was screwed up in expressing myself around women.

Friend, it is not glorified, it is talked about and mostly nor approved. People seem to like smut, and talk show hosts, or lefty TVs , like to to talk about it, (it draws attention), but an average neighbor next door, does not live this way.