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matthias
  Mar 19, 08, 15:12  #361

snoke31 wrote:
i hope ppl can think and understand this there is abig differant between christainty and islam


great video, thanks for the post

 
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Patrycja19
  Mar 19, 08, 23:42  #362

[quote=snoke31] hope ppl can think and understand this there is abig differant between christainty and islam


Snoke31.. thank you so much for sharing this .. it was extremely informative
and really we should all be more informed about islam.

Something that our forefathers have been fighting against for centuries
isnt that right Matthias :)

I think if someone is going to get into a relationship. they should learn more
about it.. some of the things that you think are correct or this is what is
said by the books can be another form of manipulation.. and wafa sultan
touched base on that in the video with some of her compelling words that
is the truth.. and I think by her being a muslim she can openly discuss this
and let the truth be known.. we need more open discussions like this.. because
this can be changed if people listen..

 
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matthias
  Mar 19, 08, 23:49  #363

Patrycja19 wrote:
Something that our forefathers have been fighting against for centuries
isnt that right Matthias :)


exactly........ it's something that many gave up their lives for......

 
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Patrycja19
Edited by: Patrycja19  Mar 20, 08, 00:29  #364

matthias wrote:
exactly........ it's something that many gave up their lives for......


its never ended..

 
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matthias
Edited by: matthias  Mar 20, 08, 01:50  #365

http://www.apostatesofislam.com/

site that is run by former muslims explaining why they left the religion...

 
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ShelleyS
  Mar 20, 08, 07:45  #366

isthatu wrote:
No,but I rather suspect some of his congregation have a few tart words regarding Poles,dont you? And,just as a BTW,most of the "Polish" shops in my area are owned by Muslims,and they all seem to get along.....why stir the pot shelly?


I doubt that, maybe a few moaners but noone saying that "they shouldnt sell this or they shouldn't sell that, probably more about the business they might lose, but that's unlikely because its a jewish area...

Kinda strange that "polish" shops would be owned by pakis, in the part of m/c I live all the shops are staffed by Polish people, so I assume they are owned by Polish..

I wasn't stiring the pot, I was just saying that people of a certain religion dont have the right to protect about others selling certain goods in their shops, its a free country and as long as what you are selling is legal then whats the problem...and whilst Im on the point of "selling legal" items, maybe I'll complain to the Police about the paki shop selling hooky dvd's....

matthias wrote:
Yeah me too, if muslims expect the people of Britain to be tolerant they should learn how to be the same


Unfortunately due to our government, this will never happy, givem an inch and they'll take a yard and of course if you are selling pork in your shop, you must be insulting Islam! FFS!

 
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matthias
Edited by: matthias  Mar 20, 08, 10:14  #367

ShelleyS wrote:
Unfortunately due to our government, this will never happy, givem an inch and they'll take a yard and of course if you are selling pork in your shop, you must be insulting Islam!


I'm with you on this, it is Islam that is doing the insulting.... I'm just suprised there isn't more level headed people like you.... If your being insulted in your own country by a foreign culture, it just shows you that the muslims have it too good... If they don't like it they can go back to the middle east and not have to deal with pork if they are so insulted....

 
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sw33t20
  Mar 20, 08, 10:24  #368

im a muslim and butchers selling pork doesnt bother me..nor dus it bother me wen i go 2 the pub/bar (where i DONT drink alcohol) and sit with people that are drinking and eating meat/pork/beef/watever..

so its not really EVERY1 hu has an issue!!!

 
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AvJoeUK [Guest]
  Mar 20, 08, 10:29  #369

sw33t20 wrote:

im a muslim and butchers selling pork doesnt bother me..nor dus it bother me wen i go 2 the pub/bar (where i DONT drink alcohol) and sit with people that are drinking and eating meat/pork/beef/watever..

so its not really EVERY1 hu has an issue!!!


Thanks for being moderate Sw33t, I know you moderate muslims exist and are no trouble :)

 
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matthias
  Mar 20, 08, 10:29  #370

sw33t20 wrote:
im a muslim and butchers selling pork doesnt bother me..nor dus it bother me wen i go 2 the pub/bar (where i DONT drink alcohol) and sit with people that are drinking and eating meat/pork/beef/watever..

so its not really EVERY1 hu has an issue!!!


No not everyone, however you must admit that many don't see it your way... If all muslims would be like you and learn to not force beliefs onto others than it would go a long way in repairing the negative image the religion has...

 
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sw33t20
  Mar 20, 08, 10:31  #371

true..i undastand that..but i think many of the younger generation see it my way..its just the oldies hu have an issue with things..either that or im pretty naive :)

 
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Patrycja19
  Mar 20, 08, 10:31  #372

ShelleyS wrote:
selling pork in your shop, you must be insulting Islam!


I dont know what a polish girl would do in a relationship with a muslim if she cant
cook the way she was taught.. and is forced to eat foods/cook foods she isnt
familiar with.. the whole culture is like doing a 360..

not saying thats important.. but Polish cook and eat pork.. so why on earth
are so many muslims even thinking of marrying a polish girl...

you brought up a very valid point.. :)

 
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matthias
Edited by: matthias  Mar 20, 08, 10:34  #373

sw33t20 wrote:
true..i undastand that..but i think many of the younger generation see it my way..its just the oldies hu have an issue with things.


No I dont thing your naive, in fact I think your right for the most part...... Now not to say that some in the younger generations aren't like the oldies but the majority seems like their not... Unfortunate thing is that the oldies are the ones who run the governments of the middle east...... however I think within a few decades this may change.....

 
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Patrycja19
  Mar 20, 08, 10:34  #374

sw33t20 wrote:
but i think many of the younger generation see it my way.


thats good.. so then your not traditional..

 
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sw33t20
  Mar 20, 08, 10:40  #375

matthias wrote:
I think your not naive, in fact I think your right........


y thank you.. :) im not usually ryt

Patrycja19 wrote:
so then your not traditional..


hmmm....i wudnt say i was traditional..but i do have limits which i wouldn't cross..but i think of myself as British and der r obviously thngs that other cultures allow which arfen't aloowed in mine and uv jus gta get on with it..n i totally agree with many of the comments iv read about not changing laws 2 suit muslims..laws shudn't need 2 b changed..we shud all b able 2 live 2getha respectful of each others cultures and religion..but like i sed the some people hu have moved here from elsewhere don't c it like this..

 
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matthias
  Mar 20, 08, 10:43  #376

sw33t20 wrote:
y thank you.. :) im not usually ryt


lol : ) .......... you are when it matters........

 
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Patrycja19
  Mar 20, 08, 10:58  #377

sw33t20 wrote:
we shud all b able 2 live 2getha respectful of each others cultures and religion..but like i sed the some people hu have moved here from elsewhere don't c it like this..


so are they out to change other countries views ?

can you give good examples to what is/can happen in a Polish/Muslim
relationship.. do you know of two relationships that worked without
regret? and sorry folks it would be more of a Catholic/Islam relationship
how can this work? the two clash like fire and water.

I can see a marriage happening if the man and woman become seperated
from their religious bond. and no regrets and later move on to some other
denomination if they choose. ( that would be a union) not the woman becoming
islamic or vs versa.. because I am sure there are laws for him as well that would
create problems.

 
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sw33t20
  Mar 20, 08, 11:30  #378

i dont thnk theyr out 2 change views..they jus complain about them..lol..

well its a bit complicated when it cums 2 marrying in2 other cultures and religions..from wat i remember (n it myt b wrong so will hve 2 do sum research) but men can marry women from other cultures (im not quite sure if they have 2 convert 2 islam 1st tho) but women cant marry ne1 hu isnt a muslim..so if she is in love with a guy hu isnt muslim den 2 b able2 marry him he has 2 convert 1st..

2 b fair i dont really know of marriages that work wen the 2 mix..im sure there are the sum but from my experience n people that i know it dusnt..BUT then agen i know a lady hu was marryd like twice 2 muslim men and is now happily marryd 2 a white guy..but he had2 convert 2 islam..i jus dont know how well he follows islam..dus that make sense???

 
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ShelleyS
Edited by: ShelleyS  Mar 20, 08, 11:48  #379

sw33t20 wrote:
true..i undastand that..but i think many of the younger generation see it my way..its just the oldies hu have an issue with things..either that or im pretty naive :)


What a load of bollox...the younger generation are extremists and after the London bombings there were more head gear wearers than I have ever seen in my life....It's like here I am, Im a muslim..the older generation that came over in the 70s integrated....to a certain degree.....

btw, you sound such a modern muslim....where did your wife come from...did you send for her from pakistan, because wouldnt it be just awful to marry someone that was Westernised!...soon be an end to chain imigration though, mark my words!

Patrycja19 wrote:
thats good.. so then your not traditional..


Now thats funny Patty, because as much as they like to think that they are all modern and Westernised...they still dont / wont fit into Western life and I dont mean drinking...I mean "integration"...the ways of the old country are firmly embeded in their lives...and these ways have no place in our English society..

 
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sw33t20
  Mar 20, 08, 11:55  #380

ShelleyS wrote:
btw, you sound such a modern muslim....where did your wife come from...did you send for her from pakistan, because wouldnt it be just awful to marry someone that was Westernised!...


err....if u look under my name it sez i am FEMALE and y assume that i am marryd??? im not.. n my parents arent even from pakistan..or india 4 dat matter..!!! its wrong 2 assume!!!

ShelleyS wrote:
the ways of the old country are firmly embeded in their lives...


and wat old country myt u be talkin about??? coz iv neva lived newer else besides england!!!!

 
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Filios1
  Mar 20, 08, 12:05  #381

sw33t20 wrote:
err....if u look under my name it sez i am FEMALE and y assume that i am marryd??? im not.. n my parents arent even from pakistan..or india 4 dat matter..!!! its wrong 2 assume!!!


ShelleyS wrote:
the ways of the old country are firmly embeded in their lives...


and wat old country myt u be talkin about??? coz iv neva lived newer else besides england!!!!


Good lord, learn how to write in English!

 
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Wroclaw
  Mar 20, 08, 12:08  #382

Filios1 wrote:
Good lord, learn how to write in English!


Seconded

 
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snoke31
  Mar 20, 08, 12:15  #383

about relationship with muslim, why the secand side have to convert to islam,
if he love her, why he dont go for her reiligion, and why muslim women cant get marry with unmuslim? its sound unfair, amd the way to control world from islam

 
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Filios1
  Mar 20, 08, 12:22  #384

snoke31 wrote:
about relationship with muslim, why the secand side have to convert to islam,
if he love her, why he dont go for her reiligion, and why muslim women cant get marry with unmuslim?


Well said, well said.

 
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Patrycja19
  Mar 20, 08, 12:23  #385

Filios1 wrote:
Good lord, learn how to write in English!


lol I think this is texting type writing because alot of people have cell phones
and anyone seen that commercial with the grandmother talking text?

my daughter does this too. and I have to pull them out of the text mode
because even the youngest will come up to me and say.. um OMG mom lol

 
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Wroclaw
  Mar 20, 08, 12:23  #386

snoke31 wrote:
about relationship with muslim, why the secand side have to convert to islam,
if he love her, why he dont go for her reiligion, and why muslim women cant get marry with unmuslim? its sound unfair, amd the way to control world from islam


Because it is a faith for misogynists.

 
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matthias
  Mar 20, 08, 12:25  #387

Wroclaw wrote:
Because it is a faith for misogynists.


agreed, and yet somehow many are a bunch of dirty perverts...

 
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Patrycja19
  Mar 20, 08, 12:26  #388

snoke31 wrote:
about relationship with muslim, why the secand side have to convert to islam,
if he love her, why he dont go for her reiligion, and why muslim women cant get marry with unmuslim? its sound unfair, amd the way to control world from islam


I agree.. I think these culture laws are way out of control. its not even
about marriage anymore.. as we have witnessed on those videos.

 
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Wroclaw
  Mar 20, 08, 12:27  #389

Patrycja19 wrote:
lol I think this is texting type writing because alot of people have cell phones


No, it's because they don't wish to conform. Most phones have T9 predictive text, which is quicker than SMS text.

 
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Patrycja19
  Mar 20, 08, 12:50  #390

sw33t20 wrote:
coz iv neva lived newer else besides england!!!!


I think she is conformed,, just cant get away from the text issue.. :) lol

Wroclaw wrote:
No, it's because they don't wish to conform.


I dont disagree with your post tho.. or shelleys.. its to bad we cant put up
signs along the highways that read.. Un-conformators... stay the f out :)

 
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