MY POLISH LOVE IS GOING HOME

well, I have been in love with him now for six months, I don't know if he feels the same (I think he does) but he is going home next month - I feel do depressed about it - each morning I wake up it dawns on me that he wont be here soon. We will keep in touch with each other and I am going to stay with him for Christmas etc, but I just cant stop crying. I have asked him his feelings but all he will say is that he must go back to Poland as he is so homesick. It's the right decision for him, but he is thinking about me all the time and that his decision has not been an easy one because of me. Do long distance relationships work - anyone had the same situation?????

Yes they do. The difference is that you are not physically with that person and that is something you have to adjust to. But you can have a lot of fun by e-mailing, texting, calling, writing, sending packages and keep that person next to you in your heart, and sometimes it's good to be seperated because through yearning for one another your love grows stronger.

Yes sometimes they do..

Absence makes the heart grow Fonder. :)

I find myself in a similar situation. My girlfriend has been back in Poland for 3 weeks now. Her not being there when I wake up is very hard to cope with! We talk on the phone a few times a week, but we don't communicate too well on the phone. sounds like sensible advice. I plan to move to Poland, so perhaps my situation is slightly different. Until that time I am in a long distance relationship and have to try to make the most of it.

my guy is back in poland now. its not easy to communicate in this long distance way. he hopes to be back in england within the next month-but not knowing excatly when causes anxiety. you can only say so much in a phone call and text-you end up over texting and repeating yourself. i dont think distance relationships fair well in the long run

never let your love go. go after him if you are supposed to be with him you guys will end up together. be strat forward. and follow your heart.

long distance will fail.
the longer apart, the less you will think about each other and so on.

Yes long distance relationships work. My brother has been in Iraq for 6 months now, and his wife is back home in Cali. He's in the Marines and this is his second time to Iraq..he went 7 months last year and 7 months this year. He should be back by the end of November. So they have been married for 2 years now and I think he e-mails her everyday and calls her once a week..since its so expensive to call back and forth. He never calls us lol..typical.

Well yeah actually its different if ur married. If ur just dating a guy then he might think about other girls close by..unless he is truely in love with you. Then there will be an attraction holding u 2 together.

my comment was geared towards singles.

Nope they sure don't.

I have started a long distance with Polish man who altho not in Poland, wants to go back there. I have a son too, it's very complicated - anyone ben in this position?