DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN?

Women always approach guys n the wrong way.

What is that supposed to mean, what do u know anyway?

I think you did enough for now. If he likes you he will call you. Just wait a little and let us know what happened? Are you older than him? Good luck Leeann.

You should talk to him straight and arrange a date.If you gave him the phone number without him asking for it,he may not call you because he may think it is blackmail.

Blackmail! What do you mean by that? I gave him my number because he works in my local shop and I have liked him for a month even though he has been working there for a year. I moved into the area 8 months ago and now I am moving again so I decided to give him a a card and in there I wrote my number. I asked him to call to wish me a merry christmas but so far he has not called. Do you think I should wait untill Christmas Eve. I have not been back to the shop yet. I am 24 and he is 19 but he such a handsome polish guy. When he sees me in the shop, he smiles and winks at me but I am desperately waiting for his call. When he calls me I will arrange a date.

Thankyou Latina, us girls understand each other unlike Mr. Southern who doesnt have a clue. Blackmail, what rubbish!

Do you know if he is available? Maybe he has a girlfriend. Maybe you should have started a conversation with him first. Like getting to know him a little and he could get to know you. There isn't too much of an age difference. Get to know him first through conversation. I made the same mistake of wanting more than friendship from the start and I think that is a mistake.

Well we have spoken yes but because Im moving from the area where he works, I had to let him know somehow. No I dont know if he has a girlfriend but I guess I will find out. When should I expect his call cos I asked him 2 call to wish me merry christmas.

He will not call.You should have asked for his number and called him.(Mistake I give advice to women.They gave me nothing on purpose).

I know him, you dont and he will call. He is waiting because he doesnt want to appear too eager. U havent got a clue about women and how could I ask him for his number? Im not that confident and that would have been too desperate.

You should understand that men do not understand subtle messages.We want obvious statements.

I think it is obvious that I like him and he must know that by now. I'm not sure how he feels about me but putting my number in the card is an obvious statement, dont u think?

You should have exchanged numbers,not just taken his.This way it would not appear abnormal or desperate.
That he puts your number in the card means nothing.I have numbers in my wallet women gave me that I never used.
One girl called me 3 months after she had given me her number.I had forgotten her but her obvious interest to call revived my interest in her.

Pay attention southern. I put my number in the christmas card and gave it to him. I am now waiting for his call and I'm hoping he calls. U sound like you have had many bad experiences with women and this has made u bitter. I will update you when he calls me. If he doesnt call then I will know he didnt like me at all and I wont waste any more time on him. Life is too short. I made the first move and now it's his turn. I wish I was brave to ask for his number, but I'm not.

I'm sure you will bump into him at some point than make sure you get his #. Use your smarts to get his # without looking interested, just like a frienship type of getting the #. Something like I don't know talk about a tv show or something and say "I'll let you know how it turns out. Let's exchange #s" something to that effect. I'm rushing to an app. so that's why I'm just typing without really thinking.

Thanks hun. He already has my number so I'm just waiting for his call. I could go to the shop but I wont untill he calls. I'm sure he will call me by Sunday. We have spoken and I know quite a bit about him because we talked the last time I saw him. He told me about his family and he said he was going to Poland for Christmas and he is leaving on Sunday. I will let u know if he calls or not.

You might be lucky and get the call. But if he is interested he is more likely to phone after Christmas in my opinion. That's when he can make a date.

Whatever he chooses I wish you luck.

I'm not so sure that he will call you. If he didn't already know that you liked him then your number in his card will have come as something of a surprise to him and he may not really know what to do about it. I think that Latina is right that you should have tried to just swap numbers but in a "I'm moving from the area, so lets keep in touch" kind of way. Then you could have known what he thought of you.

I hope that I am wrong and that he does contact you...good luck.

Thankyou, I actually agree with you and am hoping that he will call me after Christmas because if he wasnt he would have called me by now, wished me merry Christmas and that would have been it. Also I wish I could have swapped numbers but I did not know how to approach him. Maybe it has come as a surprise, but he has two choices, to call or not to call. I will let you all know when I do, because I think I may have put him in an akward situation. If he doesnt call, what should be my next step.He will be in the shop on Saturday. Any advice.

i agree with you on that( goonie) ,,,why do people have to always think there is an agenda with older women being with younger men? this really bothers me,,,if the two are old enough to make there own decisions what should it matter to anyone? i mean really; who is it hurting? relationships between two people should be left alone, who cares,,,?and i mean adult relationships (for those of you who read into everything).......... i think people are either just to judgemental,,or just plain jealous,, all this makes no sense to me at all....leave well enough alone!!!!!!!!!!! geez........

Brain washed female....alert going muslim, knows not what she is getting into!

ha ha ha ....i am very much intact....i just found the truth,,,and Islam is truth,and is a beautiful way of life ,,for people who are totally sane and able to make wise and wondefrful choices my name is Iman

you're a nutter :o) ...... i see your kind every day and wonder how you survive?

Do you lot know its not good to marry other members of you family like cousins and aunties and such, theres more chance of you offspring being deformed and eventually your race will die out, go figure on that one !

I'm not Polish, but I think it's perfectly cool to answer your questions anyway..



I know I would..



Yes. But I don't care about what they say. That's what you get after a lifetime of humiliation. Nothing I've done was ever good enough, and even at the moments when it was plain to see for everyone that it was, it wasn't..

So this would be my advice to everyone: You shouldn't hide behind a mask and you should mind your own bussiness if it doesn't personally affect you in any way, unless your help can be useful or constructive. I would tell you to live your own life and be happy with everything you already have..

The best things in life are free, friendship and happiness being two of those things.



Maybe she would, actually I've heard her say numerous times that she wouldn't like it, but it's my life isn't it?



They would have to kill me to put an end to such a relationship. I think this would be anyone's answer when you really love someone. If you care more about what other people will say about you or your partner than you care about your partner, then you shouldn't get yourself involved in any relationship?

But, those are just my personal vieuws..