Polish men are great

I LOVE Polish men!.... but I have to diagree with the comment about them not being players, the majority I met in Ireland all had girlfriends at home and the same majority were going out with different girls in Ireland or sleeping with them. That has nothing to do with their nationality though I just think the majority of men the world over are the same.... sorry lads!

Glad to help :) It's hard to see through the flames when you're in the heat of the fire, that's for sure. Hope it works out for you, let me know if you need any more advice or moral support ;)

hb44...I have to say that I agree with you there (to some extent)...most of the guys I've met here in the U.S. are the same, the only good thing about that is when you meet a great guy (Polish or otherwise) you appreciate it so much more!!! :)

you do appreciate it but its finding the good ones thats the problem!

I know! But if I found one, then I'm sure you can too...it always happens when you least expect it :)

Pamlarouge... seen on your profile that your movin to Lodz...let us know how it goes, still tryin to decide where would be a good place to go, hoping to move to Poland next year(goin to try find that good man thats out there LOL!!)

Lol! I'm sure you will find one :) I will definitely keep you updated-it won't happen until sometime between July and September...depends on if my guy can get a visa to come and work here for a few months next summer. If so then we will go to Poland together in September. Are you a student?

dh is polish and the best guy I've ever been with

P.... no not a student, teaching english in Korea and hope to teach in Poland. Have you been to Poland before?

sort of off topic here...so staying on topic what exactly make Polish men so great to all of you who think so??

(I've never been, but I will visit in February. I'm an English teacher too! I'd love to hear your story...in another thread or via PM of course :) I'll teach when I move to Poland next year.)

I think my Polish guy is great because he is attentive and caring, and he respects the fact that I am a strong person...I appreciate that he lets me be who I am, he doesn't demand that I change. He will happily admit that I'm an intelligent person, and he can easily admit when he's wrong or when I know more about something than he does. This is something I really respect about him. And he's always making sure that everyone is taking care of, he takes great pains not to be impolite or rude in any situation. He's also sensitive and very, very romantic, I never feel like I have to hold back with him.

Wow. That sounds so cheesy!!! But it's true :) and that's why I like Polish guys...well, this one at least :) I can't speak for the others!

in our culture we are taught to respect people parents family and enviornment... poland has excellent values, les hope we dont lose them in engliand

I agree too. Polish men are sweet, well educated, handsome to hell, hard workers. They are a dream come true.
I wish I could find a good Polish man one day.

My friends are kind of puzzled when I tell them that I have a preference to find a Polish man - those who don't know any....but interestingly I've spoken to women to KNOW some Polish men and they say "oh that makes total sense" and then second all the things mentioned above.
I find in general that unlike some cultures I hear the words "I like intelligent women" come out of the mouths of Polish men. :)

LOL well I'm glad it's not just mine then :) He tells me that a lot, and he often tells me how much he likes that I'm strong-he respects me for it. Have you ever been really happy with something in your life and you just wanted to share it with everybody? That's how I feel right now! :) I feel like I've found what I was looking for with my guy, and I think his "Polishness" is a big contributing factor to why he's so great. So, here's to hoping that everyone else in this thread finds someone special who loves and accepts them for who they are!

I like the respect and consideration I receive, and there's more honesty - no game playing. I also trust him 100% even though we only see each other every two weeks. Possibly because we speak so often, it would be difficult for him to have another girlfriend! I love that he has manners - opens doors, carries heavy things etc - and he says please and thank you without prompting. I don't feel obliged to do things for him, but he appreciates anything I do, like baking a cake, and he makes an effort for me.
The only thing that worries me is he's so perfect that someone else might take him off my hands!

I know exactly how you feel!!!!!!

after 5 years meeting/dating American guys...it is something weird/different to meet Polish guy... Everybody thinks that Polish guy are so great... but American can be sweet too... it's not about the nationality...
i don't think i want to date a Polish guy again...

it's not about the nationality yet you won't date a Pole?

yes.... :D

It's not about nationality for me either...but I don't date American guys :) I know how you feel polishgirl

Yeah I'd agree its not about nationality, but culture difference from my perspective. Different upbringing yield different value systems which yields different behavior patterns.

:) We seem to agree cross-thread, moonmustang. Great minds think alike! :)

I am all for Polish and Irish matches, I have both Irish and Polish heritage. Growing up in Chicago, one of the first questions we would always ask friends about is their heritage. I have blond hair and green eyes, have one brother who has lots of freckles and looks irish and like a Polish highlander (gorale) all mixed up into one...he is a tall 6 foot 4, one of my sisters has the Polish-gorale highlander curly, curly, curly crazy curly hair!!! that my father, aunt, and grandfather all had, and then I have a fair skinned, freckled faced red haired sister...looks as Irish as they come. None of us look alike!!!

I know - we seem to parallel opinions often :-)

Ok - this is about the best current thread to put this question....

So, I have a male (handsome & single) Polish IM pal that is helping learn the language. That is the basis on which we met - to exchange language practice. We have great intelligent conversations and mutual respect for each other.

Today he signed his closing message to me "Kisses:)" - is that something that's normal between friends as a parting sentiment or more? I know there is an international kiss in real life (peck on both cheeks) which is totally plutonic...

Not trying to sound ignorant here, but don't want to misinterpret.

My experience with Polish guys: they are all natural flirts and enjoy the interplay between men and women. They don't seem to take it as seriously as Americans or Brits, and will give you a box of chocs, or a kiss, or tell you "I love you" (as a young male friend of mine does) without necessarily wanting to be your boyfriend.

Now, when they want you as a girlfriend, they do all of the above, plus ask you out for coffee, or dinner, start talking about what they want in a relationship etc. In other words, there's no ambivalence when a Polish guy wants you.

Having had both of the above, I can say it's very pleasant :)

This is very true, in my experience.



It's so hard to say. I'd say it's flirtatious definitely, but whether or not he means it as a come on, hmmm...very hard to say.

Yes I'd agree. The other things he's said in the past couple conversations is that he thinks I'm beautiful and an amazing person. So nothing too overt.

Going by Lucynda's post, it may just be the Polish guy way :) I'm not too sure-like I've said before, I only know 2 Polish guys soooo...drawing a blank. Perhaps you could put a out a little ambiguous comment yourself and see what happens?

arek you are polish man? from warsaw?
if yes, my mail adress is dalinamariaandrei@yahoo.com and I am from Romania.