Polish men are great

Hi all. I am a half Polish man who's in absolutely love with an Irish woman. We dated for about a month and the sexual attraction was definitely there(it still is, really). We still have sex and it seems like that's all she wants from the relationship. This is no different from my past. As a guy, I feel like I shouldn't complain about having casual sex. Any thoughts on Polish men in bed? Generally good or bad? I wonder if polish guys are generally to soft. The Irish definitely seem to have some sort of fire about them. Maybe the polish men can't handle that. All I know is that I can't offer this girl what she seeks in a relationship but I'm surely good enough to seduce. What's up with that?

I just need 1 message after this to send messages to people

Not all Irish women are looking for casual sex and Im sure some Polish men are - everyone is different.....

Does anyone think there is something about Irish women that attract polish guys? I have always been extremely attracted to Irish women

Hi girls.

Damn, you've started a long topic here about Polish guys.
I'm even too lazy to read it all :)

I'm Polish, have been in England for 3 years, and I have a realy big problem with English girls, and with girls from other nationalities.
It looks like they see us, Polish guys, as a villagers, or a morons. I have no idea why.

Like for example, when I've met a girl (not Polish), we were talking and knowing each other, I thought she hasn't noticed that I'm from another country. But the she asked me "So where you're from? I can hear a small accent in your voice.", and obviously, to be a good-honest guy, i said that I'm from Poland. After that, she stopped talking like she was talking to me before I answered. She looked like she said to herself "Yayks, he's one of them...better slow down a little", and then i couldn't get deeper with her.
And it was just one example. Most of the girls are like that, it just make me feel that I should lie to them, because when I said once, that the nationality shouldn't be a problem just to have a chat and a nice time, she stopped chatting, because I wasn't honest with a woman! :-/

I don't know what most of you girls think about us. Yes, not many of us can speak properly in English, but it doesn't mean we're all cu*ts and junkies.

If there is a girl, that think differently, live in Bedford, and looking for a guy to hang out (or even more :), plz contact me.
I'm so desperate about it, that I'm looking for help on internet :D

My myspace is .../wojciech_pawlik

The only way to learn proper English is to hang out with English ppl. Unfortunately most Polish ppl I know only hang out with other Polish ppl as well and don't really bother to mingle. This way you will never get a proper hang of English or whatever language. Of course you're not all junkies and stuff, but I think it would definitively be a good step if the Polish, at least in Dublin, would stop clinging together and mingle more with the locals. English is not my native language too, but I speak it pretty well and I got used to speaking it by hanging out with locals and other non-Dutch ppl. I understand, it's easier, but: no pain, no gain and if it comes easy, it usually is not worth much.

M-G

Hi M-G

Yes, it's true. And I truelly understand what you mean.

I have actually decided to do so, just speak in English and hang out with people who speak fluently in English (doesn't matter what nation). Most of my friends I've met here in UK are not Polish.

Only now, at the moment, I'm working with a Polish girl, I speak most of the time in Polish (unfortunately), and also on the breaks with other 2 Polish guys. But it's my first time after 2 and a half year.
I see now how my English is falling apart. It's sad. That is why I'm looking for an "english language speaking" relationship :) (sounds funny). But after those examples I've stated in my first post, I'm considering to look for a girlfriend within the Polish community. But on the other, every Polish girl in UK has a boyfriend. Or if she hasn't, probably she's not looking for :-?

Sorry for this EMO like posts :D I'm kinda talking about it, because I've been keeping it in myself for a long time.

Public man Relax, goodthings come to those who wait :) Im sure you'll find her somewhere.

Hey Public, I'm sure you mean well, you will get there and you will find a decent girlie who is non-Polish speaking. Heads up and hats off to you :) And don't ever listen to what Average Joe says :)

M-G (still does not trust Joe:) )

Joe wrote the same thing as you (not exactly, but kind of), so should I not listen to you as well? :P

<just kidding>

Relax, I know. But I still don't get why is so hard to get a laid in England :-?

One guy told once, that I have to be very honest. "Hey pretty one, you're hot and you know that. oh yea babe, I like your ass..."- that's what he meant. So she will automatically know that i want to have sex with her.
Maybe I should do so, look at girls like at sex-objects? :) But wait a sec....this is what you women don't want to be like. or do you? ;)

ITS A TRAP!

And Public unless you want a nice handful of STD's just stick to being yourself.

Not true.



Hmmmm...I wonder why???



And with advice like that, you are going to get a slap across the face...women regarless of nationality want to be treated like ladies...but hey if you want to go home with no new numbers in your phone and a possible black eye take your friends advice....

"And with advice like that, you are going to get a slap across the face...women regarless of nationality want to be treated like ladies...but hey if you want to go home with no new numbers in your phone and a possible black eye take your friends advice...."

I know, I was being sarcastic ;) But some girls are like that, just like some guys are romantic...

"Hmmmm...I wonder why???"

Hmmm...I wonder why you wonder why???...

Hm, treat women like ladies, but don't do everything for them, or else they think you're a wuss. And before you know it, they will walk all over you. You need to treat them with respect, but don't even let them rule you. Otherwise it will never work. Women don't want a man who does everything they say and everything just to friggin' please them. Or ever wondered why that no-good, worthless piece of cr*p gets the hot chicks and you are *such a good friend*? Women and men cannot be friends, unless you're gay, absolutely not interested in her or a gargoyle; there is always some (sexual) tension. It's just nature, nobody can't help it.
And: Joe knows I was kidding, Public :)

M-G (heeft zojuist een hele prettige dame gedate)

Just so nobody gets confused, men can be great from these other countries too :)

A Afghanistan Albania Algeria Andorra Angola Antigua & Barbuda Argentina Armenia Australia Austria Azerbaijan
B Bahamas Bahrain Bangladesh Barbados Belarus Belgium Belize Benin Bhutan Bolivia Bosnia & Herzegovina Botswana Brazil Brunei Darussalam Bulgaria Burkina Faso Burma (Myanmar) Burundi
C Cambodia Cameroon Canada Cape Verde Central African Republic Chad Chile China Colombia Comoros Congo Congo, Democratic Republic of the Costa Rica Côte d'Ivoire Croatia Cuba Cyprus Czech Republic
D Denmark Djibouti Dominica Dominican Republic
E Ecuador East Timor Egypt El Salvador England Equatorial Guinea Eritrea Estonia Ethiopia
F Fiji Finland France
G Gabon Gambia, The Georgia Germany Ghana Great Britain Greece Grenada Guatemala Guinea Guinea-Bissau Guyana
H Haiti Honduras Hungary
I Iceland India Indonesia Iran Iraq Ireland Israel Italy
J Jamaica Japan Jordan
K Kazakhstan Kenya Kiribati Korea, North Korea, South Kuwait Kyrgyzstan
L Laos Latvia Lebanon Lesotho Liberia Libya Liechtenstein Lithuania Luxembourg
M Macedonia Madagascar Malawi Malaysia Maldives Mali Malta Marshall Islands Mauritania Mauritius Mexico Micronesia Moldova Monaco Mongolia Montenegro Morocco Mozambique Myanmar
N Namibia Nauru Nepal The Netherlands New Zealand Nicaragua Niger Nigeria Norway Northern Ireland
O Oman
P Pakistan Palau Palestinian State* Panama Papua New Guinea Paraguay Peru The Philippines Poland Portugal
Q Qatar
R Romania Russia Rwanda
S St. Kitts & Nevis St. Lucia St. Vincent & The Grenadines Samoa San Marino São Tomé & Príncipe Saudi Arabia Scotland Senegal Serbia Seychelles Sierra Leone Singapore Slovakia Slovenia Solomon Islands Somalia South Africa Spain Sri Lanka Sudan Suriname Swaziland Sweden Switzerland Syria
T Taiwan Tajikistan Tanzania Thailand Togo Tonga Trinidad & Tobago Tunisia Turkey Turkmenistan Tuvalu
U Uganda Ukraine United Arab Emirates United Kingdom United States Uruguay Uzbekistan
V Vanuatu Vatican City (Holy See) Venezuela Vietnam
W Western Sahara* Wales
Y Yemen
Z Zaire Zambia Zimbabwe

the point is its not nationallity its the individual :-))))))

Sorry I couldnt see the sarcastic side of it, it just looked rude!



Personally I couldnt care less if you get a slap across the face or get an easy lay..your life not mine...I was merely giving some advise from an English womans perspective...take it or leave it.

its not cos you are Polish its cos you come across as a desperate twat. Show some respect and maybe some poor girl will give you a chance.

You tell him how it is Foxy :)

I agree with the OP :P

I'm living in the US and moving to Europe (most likely Poland) in 2009. Does anyone know the best social/dating online sites to meet Polish men?

Polish men are great because they actually know how to treat a woman right :)

No there not

No where not?

i as replying to the OP :)

"Does anyone know the best social/dating online sites to meet Polish men?"

sympatia.onet.pl

Don't believe in dating sites.

And Moonmustang: I'm not Polish, but I still know how to treat a lady right :)

M-G (shut up, Shelley:) )

Well - to each his or her own :) Think it's way better than learing at someone after wearing beer goggles for too long at the bar :P

At least if they know how to use a computer they're one step closer to literacy (usually) LOL

And yes, I believe that men other than Polish men are capable to treating women right ;)

I wouldn't be so sure - have you you checked some of the posts on here?

Alright, very interesting thread so far, but to make a long story short, both Polish men and women are just men and women really..

@sapphire- How do you know how I act like when I'm meeting someone? This is internet. Never take everyone's word serious here.

There is one joke I found.

A Polish guy is talking to an English girl. It seems they're having a nice conversation, untill the girl asks:

English girl: sooo, I can hear a small accent in your voice, where are you from?

Polish guy: Well... I'm from Poland

English girl: Ooohh, you're one of them? Yayks, soooo it was nice to meet ya! Bye!

<Alternative ending>

English girl: sooo, I can hear a small accent in your voice, where are you from?

Polish guy: Well, I don't like to talk about it. Because I think it doesn't actually matter where are you from, the personality matters. I don't care where are you from, maybe you are an English maybe not, but if we're having a nice talk, why to bother about it?

English girl: Okay then! I just asked! See ya!

<He wasn't honest...>

Public, dont worry, there are some nice girls out there, who dont care about the nationality :) personally im polish and dating a blac girl from Zimbabwe :):)

M-G: Hi there

Girlie: Hiya

M-G: blah blah blah your name, blah blah, my name is M-G

Girlie: blah blah blah, nice to meet you, blah blah blah, my name is Aoife

M-G: blah blah blah work, blah blah, music, blah blah pubs

Girlie: blah blah blah, work, blah blah blah, IFCS, blah blah, good job

M-G: blah blah, interesting, blah blah, smart, blah blah, stock exchange, blah, devaluation

Girlie: blah blah, monetairy fluctuation, blah blah, my new shoes

M-G: blah blah look nice, blah blah, interest rates, blah blah

Girlie: blah blah, whereyafrom?

M-G: blah, Holland

Girlie: So you can't speak English then?

M-G: no, I'm just reproducing the sounds I hear all around me phonetically

Girlie: I'm sorry to hear that

M-G: I'm sorry too, but I don't understand a single word I just said to you

Girlie: eh?

M-G: Goodbye, nice to meet you and to have talked to you for 20 minutes.

Girlie: eh?


M-G (true story)