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lyndseymoo
  Feb 6, 08, 21:31  #1

I'm a Scottish woman living with my Polish boyfriend... (yes I've now been to Poland!) the only thing I don't get is that my boyfriend seems to think that it's ok to get so drunk that he can't walk every weekend... He says it's the way Polish men are but i don't believe him... he's such a bastard to me when he's drunk but so lovely when he's not... what should I do? We live together just now and are trying to find a new flat together...

 
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polishgirltx [Guest]
  Feb 6, 08, 21:36  #2

lyndseymoo wrote:
my boyfriend seems to think that it's ok to get so drunk that he can't walk every weekend... He says it's the way Polish men are

not true... he just likes to drink...

welcome btw! have fun!

 
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Filios1
  Feb 6, 08, 21:38  #3

lyndseymoo wrote:
He says it's the way Polish men are


But it is the truth! Its in a Poles nature to drink heavily!

 
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Eurola GOLD MEMBER
  Feb 6, 08, 21:52  #4

Filios1 wrote:
But it is the truth! Its in a Poles nature to drink heavily!


Hey, hey, don't let me generalize what is in a Greek man's nature :)

 
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Filios1
  Feb 6, 08, 21:54  #5

Eurola wrote:
don't let me generalize what is in a Greek man's nature :)


I'm half Polish, Eurola. I consistently drank Wodka as a younger man with my father and my uncles etc.. I know how it is! Greeks aren't much different in that respect either : )

 
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RJ_cdn
  Feb 6, 08, 21:57  #6

Filios1 wrote:
But it is the truth! Its in a Poles nature to drink heavily!

BS

 
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krysia
  Feb 6, 08, 22:03  #7

lyndseymoo wrote:
what should I do?

1. You're going to have to put up with his drunkiness. You won't be able to do things with him when he's wasted so you'll be on your own.
2. Find another boyfriend.
3. Get some counselling if he's an alcoholic.

 
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RJ_cdn
  Feb 6, 08, 22:15  #8

lyndseymoo wrote:
he's such a bastard to me when he's drunk


krysia wrote:
2. Find another boyfriend.


 
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polishgirltx [Guest]
  Feb 6, 08, 22:26  #9

yep, look for another boyfriend...

 
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krysia
  Feb 6, 08, 22:37  #10

This relationship won't last unless you start drinking with him and don't know what hit you the next morning.
It's hard because you like the guy, then he goes into his own little alcoholic world, doesn't have control over himself what he does or says.
He's hurting you and if a guy does that, don't take any crap from him and get rid of him.

 
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Filios1
  Feb 6, 08, 22:43  #11

Not true, don't listen to the above responses. This guy can clean up and drink less. You don't have to break up with him. I'm sure he's a nice guy deep down. As long as he isn't hurting you physically, try getting him to stop.

 
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krysia
Edited by: krysia  Feb 6, 08, 22:45  #12

Filios1 wrote:
I'm sure he's a nice guy deep down. As long as he isn't hurting you physically, try getting him to stop.

I know some guys who don't drink and are worse than the guys who do!!
So yeah, if he's a nice guy try to help him understand that he's hurting you by drinking too much.

 
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RJ_cdn
  Feb 6, 08, 22:56  #13

The only thing we know is that he is a bastard to her. IMO it does not matter if it is a physical or mental abuse, both are equally bad. He might stop for a while, but sooner or later he (most likely) will be back to his old ways.

 
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polishcanuck
  Feb 6, 08, 23:25  #14

Once in a while i get outrageously drunk, but i never hurt my girlfriend! Maybe he has a drinking problem? Why don't you help him by sending him to alcoholics-anonymous.org
Give him a chance.

 
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Wyspianska
  Feb 7, 08, 02:09  #15

Filios1 wrote:
But it is the truth! Its in a Poles nature to drink heavily!

I can drink 4 beers and don't feel I'm drunk after. everything starts with my 5th one. heh :P

 
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Crypto
  Feb 7, 08, 04:55  #16

RJ_cdn wrote:
Filios1 wrote:
But it is the truth! Its in a Poles nature to drink heavily!

BS


I agree, thats total BS!

 
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scotjock
  Feb 7, 08, 05:43  #17

lyndseymoo wrote:
my boyfriend seems to think that it's ok to get so drunk that he can't walk every weekend...



For gawds sake lyndsey your Scottish !! I'm sure your Polish guy is no different to your previous Scottish boyfriends. The guy isn't doing anything that Scot's guys don't do at weekends, in terms of getting drunk.

As far as the b@stard bit goes, I won't comment since that is down to you to deal with.

 
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z_darius
  Feb 7, 08, 05:53  #18

Filios1 wrote:
I'm half Polish, Eurola. I consistently drank Wodka as a younger man with my father and my uncles etc..

see?
exactly what Eurola said :))

 
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hola
  Feb 7, 08, 06:15  #19

lyndseymoo wrote:
He says it's the way Polish men are


Its not true, its just the way HE is...

 
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krysia
  Feb 7, 08, 08:06  #20

Wyspianska wrote:
everything starts with my 5th one

What starts? Tell us more! hehe

 
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sapphire
  Feb 7, 08, 08:14  #21

Mine drinks quite a bit, but never seems to get drunk.. not sure which is worse really. You can take the Pole out of Poland, but you aint never gonna wean him off the wodka :)

 
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szkotja2007
  Feb 7, 08, 11:31  #22

lyndseymoo wrote:
what should I do?

Drop him like a bad habit !


( BTW - Quite a lot of Aberdonians on the forums nowadays )

 
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Seanus GOLD MEMBER
  Feb 7, 08, 16:39  #23

They have nothing else to do probably, Aberdeen is hardly a happening place (wink)

 
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Filios1
  Feb 7, 08, 16:40  #24

sapphire wrote:
You can take the Pole out of Poland, but you aint never gonna wean him off the wodka :)


Exactly what I've been trying to say. He won't change, why bother? If he has an obvious problem with it, get him some help. Otherwise, leave the poor Pole alone : )

 
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Seanus GOLD MEMBER
  Feb 7, 08, 16:48  #25

Gotta be careful with the voddie, it kills off the brain cells pretty quickly. We don't drink whisky to excess in the same way. Then again, vodka isn't a classic connosieur's drink in the way whisky is

 
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Filios1
  Feb 7, 08, 16:51  #26

Seanus wrote:
vodka isn't a classic connosieur's drink in the way whisky is


Who says it isn't, Seanus? : )

 
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krysia
  Feb 7, 08, 16:51  #27

Alcoholism is a disease. If you want to live with a sick person it's your decission.
Drinking occasionally is good for you, but too much of a good thing isn't.

 
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Filios1
  Feb 7, 08, 16:52  #28

krysia wrote:
Drinking occasionally is good for you, but too much of a good thing isn't.


Who's to judge how much is good, and how much is bad? Wodka is good for the soul : )

 
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krysia
  Feb 7, 08, 16:54  #29

It's your body, you can abuse it anyway you want..:)
Just don't hurt others by it

 
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isthatu
  Feb 7, 08, 17:00  #30

lyndseymoo wrote:
he's such a bastard to me when he's drunk but so lovely when he's not...

dump the useless swine,B4 you end up on trisha...a drunks a drunks a drunk

 
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