Firstly what do mean by "Lithuania hates us"? :) Their people hate us or their government hates us? I don't know about you but for me hatred and buzzwords in general are markers of ignorance of the particular human. Thus if you mean people I may only conclude from your words you consider them mostly ignorant, however if you mean government then I don't give a sh!t since politician are merely bunch of liers everywhere.
As for Lithuania... I'm Lithuanian descendant but proud to be Russian (nationality for me is a question of sef-identiification rather than blood) and personally know some mixed Lit-Rus people who are not a rara avis in the western Russia... they feel like at home. Russian nation is mostly friendly and tolerant. I like them and proud to be part of them.
Upd: Ukraine? 60% of Russians (here citizens) have relatives in Ukraine. Silly to think they don't like us. We're essentially the one whole. Does your left hand hate your right one?
Dekameron:
Ah sorry in some hungarian restaurans you will not get served if you speak in russian
That's their problem if so. I mind my own business and trying to do my best for people aorund regardless of their nation unless they're complete bastards. I don't think if you don't speak Russian you won't be served in any restaurants in Moscow and it's the thing to be proud of as well.
Dekameron:
Poland ? Russia is seen here as a barbaric craphole,
That's your personal opinion of rough and uneducated person who you in fact are. Nevertheless I don't want you to shut up your craphole (read "mouth"), because people like you are very useful for Russia, for the way we're seen in the world (including Poland).
One jewish doer was asked on how many promoters he'd needed for the propaganda of Zionism. He said "I don't need any... just give me 30-40 docked young men of aryan appearance yealling antisemitic slogans. The more stupid they [slogans] will be the better. Think it's the best advertising of our views."
So... you can carry on...
I've got one more thing which is probably good to mention at this point. I've noticed that in pol-net almost at any forum (even about flowers and gardening lol) one can easily find some gibberish about Ruses whereas in the ru-net there's significantly less number of jerks who throw mud to Poles. Strange... especially considering the fact many Poles think Russians are arrogant.
Or let's recall what was yesterday... as only insane jew-eater appeared, some accusing him in being nazi started to talk about hypothetical russkies kalmyks and spreading of venerical deceases among Russian women. Great... it was hillarious. :))
It's also funny how you have a gall to call me Polonophobe being a pure Russophobe yourself. :)) The best defence is an attack, or what?