POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER!

Wondering, if you'd have a good communication, and if you'd talk in your relationship about everything (it's VERY IMPORTANT) and not only you, he also, you wouldnt be asking those stuff here.

How many times has this happened ?

ask him if he would sleep with his sister? i wouldnt, i wanna be sick

look directly into his eyes, if he's not looking directly at you then there is a chance he is lying, if he is looking anywhere else but at you, he is lying.

Also watch his body language, if he looks like he's hiding something, arms crossed or making his body small then he is closing up, which means there is a good chance he is lying.

If his body is relaxed and open then it means he is not hiding anything, then there is a good chance he is telling the truth.

How long does it take him to answer, there is a good chance if he is lying it will take him a while to come up with an answer, on the other hand if he just comes out with an answer then there is a better chance he is telling the truth. This third point though is the most unreliable out of the three, they eyes and body language are most important to watch

i am wondering if this can be a serious post, or merely a ********??

ther you go....

dont you think that you are jelous that he gives his time to his SISTER, not to you? and you've been together 9 minths, its a long time... too long for those doubts

it happened for about 2 and a half weeks before i saw them sleeping in the same bed.

well I just hope that sister was realy hot and worth it.

exactly my point, if you were comfortable in your relationship you wouldn't need to post this here, you would either speak with him or trust him out right that he is not sleeping with this girl.

This is why i gave my advice to leave him, better of you being in control than not :)

well mine only has a brother.. so that might be worse!

it sounds to out there to be a lie, nobody has that kind of imagination :)

i know, its real alright. because its weird and rare, thats why you dont beleive it, but its true. honest.

why be homophobic?:)

no. sleeping with his sister, of course yes, thats just weird and disgusting. hes 20, she 17, sleep in their own beds

You've been reading too many comic books.

A controlling type of person will look you straight in the eye and say........No

not funny. this is real life.

yes thats one out of three markers, nobody who is lying unless trained etc can lie without leaving some sign.

haha, ok you can discredit me all you like, i can take it :) it works for me anyway so we'll leave it at that :)

im talking that he spends more time with her then with you now

its not nice being left out when she comes and as soon as she goes back to me. we are supposed to be as one, we come as a package.

a person who is talking to you lokk left-hes lying, right-telling the truth;
and that's proven...

set up a secret camera for next time she comes over?? Does the sister have a bf? why dont you ask her too why she stays in his bed? or call the parents and ask if this is normal for them?

listen sweetie with the greatest respect you have two real options:

1. You forget about feeling sick about asking him the questions and just ask them, if you don't you will always have doubt in your mind, this is not good and you cannot carry a relationship on with doubts such as these.

2. You can't pluck up to ask the question so you tell him that its over, if you leave him before you find out something you won't like it will be much less painful for you.

Sorry to put it too you like that but thats about the top and bottom of it. People can say all they want and talk about different scenario's but the real question is, do you want to continue the relationship in its current state??

How were they dressed ?

your cat is looking to the left so how do we know thats true?

exactly, do you know why this is???

but it is his SISTER... his family.... besides if you have a problem with that you should tell him that you would like to spend more time with them.... but if he doesnt include you in their plans, maybe its a sign, maybe he isnt involved in this relationship as much as you are.

thats what my friend sais to set up a camera, i might do that. she has a bf. i wanted to ask her, but he said dont beacuse shes just guna think im weird. i cant ask hi parents as they only speak polish and i only speak english.

let's not get down to petty details, people can put on or take of clothes, you can even have sex in clothes its not difficult :)

he looks right for the reason then, right?

but not as cool as without
i think so