Polish Stunner.........sticky situation

I think the Ego is stupid in itself. Its a defence mechanism that wastes your energy as it makes you think about what others think, when in actual fact whats important is acheiving your goal, not outside thoughts. The Ego glorifies itself on invisibilities. This is getting very profound, its better speaking in abc's. But then again the Ego is so complicated it cant be described in abc's.

Thanks Miranda, jumping off the fence is a good idea, but easier said than done! I suppose one moment of uncertainty and embarrassment is worth a crack at the right person.

BlueDeep,

You are starting to justify your actions. Just get on with it.

No, because I listen to my heart. If I don't feel curious, excited, intrigued, tensed and if I don't smile when I think of someone then I wouldn't bother.

Maybe it's possible I could fall in love with someone that I've known for quite some time.. Sometimes you start to notice things about someone else later on. Things you didn't see before. I could agree to that..

But really, I'm not going to fool myself and get involved with someone who doesn't give me the butterflies. I'm too soft for that, I've done that once and almost killed myself when all of my stupid mistakes collided at some point.

So let's not do that again. But that's personal. Like I've said, I don't pretend to know it all and you don't have to defend yourself or to convince anyone, because I know I've made some mistakes.

But yeah, I've been fooled a lot of times, and I never got any answers, so maybe that's why I'm so damn curious about how other people experience love.

It's just tricky bussiness, I agree on that.

Just ask her out to dinner and hope for the best

Member 223 thankyou for your individual clarification, just want to be certain about this because theres afew varying opinions, and im not ignorant enough to automatically assume that im right, although ive taken steps which indicate that only because i have a feeling.

BlueDeep, don't get me wrong. For the most part I would follow Annia's advice.

Arien you have the right idea, i think for anyone those feelings you described are a great way of deciding if a relationship is right or not. I was in a relationship when i was 18 that made me feel like you describe, totally head over heels, but without any sense or good judgement, depressed me when it ended for 3 years, but if i get someone better its a blessing in disguise because then i will know how to deal with it, and so will you.

223 im glad you think so, you've added another brick to the wall of courage,haha.

Im a woman of course I right

Blue women like men who know their own mind, stop ***** footing around and get asking If she says no, then its her loss if she says yes then its your gain

Annia you are speaking from the point of view of someone not in this situation, its hard! I usually dont *****foot around but this girl turns me into one! I will do something, but theres so many things to consider,......like timing! What if she has a boyfriend, im going to look great then, ill just end up saying, "well hes the luckiest man in the world!" And she'll look at me and think Irish men are rediculous!

You're dead right Im not in your position and if I were, I dont think I'd be asking randoms on a forum for their input, women are basically the same whatever their nationality and the only way you are going to find anything out is by asking the question - to her!

She's definitely right about that one.

Okay okay, i suppose asking randoms in a forum isnt the best way of getting advice, but since this forum is a polish forum, and ive never met a polish woman before and dont have a clue about them i thought it would be good to ask here to see if there are any cultural differences with regard to the situation im talking about! You see? And why are you giving me advice if you dont think i should be asking for it?

Does a woman from a South American Tribe have the same thoughts on the given situation as i do? I doubt it, different cultures= different ways of going about things, thats why im asking people from a Polish Forum, because they probably have a better idea than i do.

I like to do my bit for care in the community!

Please dont get angry at me because you havent got the balls to ask a woman out

Im not angry at you Annia, because its better not to get drawn into a silly argument with someone random,........like you, your petrol doesnt work on my fire. anyway, guys (apart from Annia) thanks for your comments, they were really helpful, and its nice to know theres some people who think the same way i do! Legends.

So you were angry after all

Anyway i didnt write on this forum to start a fight, Annia, im sure in the flesh you are a really nice girl/guy, i think this is the longest ive ever been on the internet, i didnt know you could make enemies on it, wow, but you're not really my enemy Annia, you're just someone with plenty of time on their hands.

No i wouldnt call that anger, more unappreciation of comments. I dont tend to anger easily.

Yeah she's sexy. But the mole on her butt kinda freaks me out.

Crap! I forgot it was a secret Annia.




My baaad.

Ania,
he might have been. I would be too, because he showed his soft side and got criticized for it. So many women complain about guys being too tough, and when they see one they take him apart. IMO Not logical.

But anyway Annia, where-ever you are in the world i wish you every success, you might wanna change that attitude,.....it might give you a better chance.

Miranda please explain, im not really up to date with short langauge "IMO" educate me

Oh, sorry:IMO= in my opinon
IMHO =in my humble opinion

IMNSHO - in my not so humble opinion...

I was being honest and I dont have an attitude, I think a man having a softer side is nice but I saw no evidence of that from this guy, hes just dumped his girlfriend on the off chance that some waitress who smiled at him might go out with him.



Thats okay, its for the best its out in the open But I wont mention how well endowed you are to the forum though

MMLSHCCOOMN = made me laugh so hard coke came out of my nose