What do Polish women look for in a relationship?

Okay you guys caught me
She was a polish girl that went to my church. The first time I laid eyes on her I knew that I wanted to be with her she was so funny and everyone liked to be around her. She was also very wity and extremly intelligent. It took me three months of going to church being around, Seen but not heard. I got to meet her friends and I gained there approval first. This helped me because she was a very busy person and hard to run into. they would invite me to get togethers, and I would always try to make her laugh and show of my wit . It didn't take long before I was giving her rides home, and her leaving stuff in my car. I would have to call her to tell her that she left something in my car. She would ask me to bring it to her or she would tell me to hold on to it until the next night. After a while I asked her out, and then we were hot and heavy for about three months. At this point I relized that this woman is working me to death and I had to flee to another state. the end.

Working you to death? How?

What do you mean by that?

Well I didn't want to make the post too long. But during the time that we were together she was getting me all kinds of side work. (Electrical Work) with her friends,family,and neighbors. Which was alright. But Whne someone ask me to do something I like to get it done so I don't have to worry about it any more. So I was working to get theses jobs finished and she was getting me work faster than I could get them finished. So I was working 40 hours on my regular job and then working another 30hours after work and on the weekends. So I never got to see her, and when I did I was too tired to do anything but sleep.
So we broke up.

oh, so sorry. sounds like you tried to impress her too much and it backed fired on you

Oh, Sparky you sound like a handy man who was used for his skills...only.. I hope not. That's so sad. I hope you'll find someone who will appreciate you for you alone first and the skills you have.

I used date a very handy man but I would never send him to my friends or family. He fixed many, many things in my place. We even installed a hardwood floor in my living room. It was a fun project.
Well, he is gone now, but the floor stays

Well I learned from it so it wasn't a total loss.
I learned when to say yes and when to say no.

Why.....?



Have you fond memories of laying the floor?.....)

that's what I was thinking. Good for you and best of luck.

I like doing projects with my lady. That can be rather fun and exciting. But the problem was that we were not spending any quality time together. All the work was causeing me to be lazy around her. I couldn't balance everything, and she couldn't understand why. She thought that I didn't want to be around her, and I think because I was too tired to spend time with her. I think she tought that I was sleeping around on her. Well I was sleeping around on her. but not the way she was thinking. I was literally sleeping.
But I can see how she might think that sence I would go home and fall asleep and then not answer the phone till the next day. I was a victim of circumstances.

Frank, I wanted my time with him.
My family can pay for for the big jobs, if they want to do remodeling...my friends can ask their boyfriends. I would "allow" some minor help...but not hours and hours of work.

Yes, I have fond memories of laying the floor. Even pictures to prove it. Ha!
(no dirty thoughts, please)

Your talking to someone who had a House Remodling company for two years.
I can do almost anything in a house.
No floors please

LOl your good

I like to laugh. It's the best medicine

According to me polish girls are more emotion/love oriented than asian guys, and it looks like polish girls are more commited in their relationships...

Agni is right, there is an idea called kamen fufu in Japanese where love is borne out of social necessity, thus not true love. Japanese men prefer playing pachinko and slogging away at their company offices. They are not that open as people and have problems expressing their inner emotions. Polish girls, a mixed bag, but more committed for sure.