Quoting: z_darius
but most are treated worse than dogs
I'm talking about women who choose Islam on their own will. They choose their husbands on their own will either. I understand that this is different between when lady is born as muslim - she probably don't even think about differences between religions - and act as her mother told her - to obey her husband even when he treated her badly.
Don't know nothing about it accept some stories heard - that's why can't talk about it.
I'm talking about mature woman, who converted to Islam and married muslim man on her own will and by falling in love with him. If this man will beat her - that's mean that he is not obey Allah - cause this is contradicts with God's words about how wives should be treated. And that's mean that she can divorce this guy - based on the reason that he is not Muslim enough for her. This is the reason - and very important one. This means that this man doesn't believe and doesn't obey God.
I understand that being born in some cultures like kazakhs or other - this could be almost impossible - because of traditions. but traditions is something different.
I can't imagine Norwegian girl, converted to Islam and who 's living with a guy who drinks and treats her like a dog. - no man, she won't tolerate that.
We are talking here about traditions among people - not the way it shoud be. This is ignorance again - try to explain a muslim who beats his wife that doing so he automatically stops being a muslim - he will be very surprised at least. And he won't believe you - cause his dad and the dad of his dad were doing so.
I'm not talking about these kind!!! I'm not interested in this - maybe some ethnographs or whatever they call them - not me.
Quoting: AvJoeUK
Ill just stick to being a Kuffar
this is understandable and normal - everybody stick to that until they experience something that will turn their world upside down. Human being pshycology - simple and easy. You make moves only when death comes into play - old method used by numerous of warriors in the past to teach youngsters how to be a warrior. Only under pressure of circumstances which are deadly threatening one starts to learn. Here is the same thing with some exeption - one have to feel what is right in his life and what is wrong. Forget about the others - muslims, christians, buddists - take a look inside yourself. Call it Islam, call it whatever you want it, doesnt really matters.