Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands?

me alone..... you say you not have a problems with foriegn people and you only like the white looking ones .so i think this is racist
anyway i m not packing my bags because my wife is british so i think you have to wait a little more this for ukguy

I might be a sado for living on my own and I have said things on this forum out of turn - we all have! we have to defend ourselves.

When my gran had cancer, my so called "friends" knew this, but it was never "how are you or how is your grandmother" it was "can you lend me £50 until next week, can I come around so you can fix my computer........ How selfish. So its better to be alone than like that. I am happy to wait and find some nice people thanks.

I have only had one girl who was Romanian. Nice but asked alot of me.....

What the hell is this mumbo jumbo? I am not polish and don't know many polish guys however i find it funny, specially coming from an arab.Do you know any woman in their right mind who would go out with one?its not like you guys are all Omar Shariff or Antonio Banderas on the 13th warrior...
1-First point you are probably right, a person always looks for something that is not the usual thing she sees in everyday life, maybe being a close country under communism makes woman have a more open mind towards foreign countries.
2-Yes polish men drink too much but also english, americans, germans, etc...its not like everyone drinks all the time, it depends on the individual.
3-About working matters, that is total ********* poles works twice as hard as many europeans and westerners, now you tell me.,who works more a pole guy working on the fields and factories in England or the stupid yetti who sits all day in front of the tv queing for doll money? just one thing mr. arab, in the south of spain they substituted arab workers for poles a few years ago, racism? i don't think so, only that poles worked harder while arabs did not.
4-Oh yeah less refined that the fat middle aged american who thinks spain is part of south america or the football holligan, yes indeed less refined, what a load of crap.
5-Oh yes less intelligent than the arabs that caused the riots last year in France.
6-Oh yes arabs shower all the time, that is why everytime i get a bus and one is sitting beside me i have to change seat because of the stench.
7-Yes they are willing to go to your harem....it has so much to offer that poland hasn't.
8-Yes mate, they all want to wear a towel on their head and get home to be beaten up by some bearded middle aged idiot.
9-Fair enough, its always better to know two languages, both my parents are foreing so i can tell you its a good advantage.
10-Oh yes,
"Hey Ewa i am going out with this pot bellied moron from Detroit named Mat who is 50 years old, and Margotzlata is going out with a camel named Hakim who beats her up all the time and has 10 wives you are jealous aren't you Ewa"
This is post is rubbish, this guy only wants an harem and write disrespectfully about poland and poles, its sick he doesn't want a girlfriend he wants a prostitute and bets his deeds on the money a person has got without any sort of respect for the girl. He speaks of polish woman as they were money grabbing bimbos.

I like you. When I take over the world your death shall be quick and painless







just kidding

easy answer: better lovers!!!!

I'm of 100% Polish descent. Although marrying a Pole was my family's preference, they weren't against it. I thought I'd always end up with a red-headed, Polish, Catholic. I got a red-head, Scotch-Irish-Canadian, Canadian Free Methodist.

A priest I worked with (not Polish, by the way) asked about the guy I was dating. He said, "Is he Catholic?" I told him no. He said, "That's okay, you can convert him." Then he asked if he was Polish. I told him no again. His response, "Now THAT'S a sin!"

Yes people tend to generalize.....

If you live abroad automaticly likelyhood of meeting and merring a forigner increases.
How many Poles living in Poland are married to non- polish?

I guess it's more interesting and from my experience Polish guys are a bit shy and afraid of making the first step

The list is Pure Bull....

Denmark is in need of good workers 'cause we have a very low rate of unemployed persons but also a lot of work that needs to be done. We have very high standards and the polish workers work even harder than danish workers! I have never experienced any of these workers to be poor or in urgent need of a shower.

Just my thoughts on this subject!

Well it al depends on the guy , not his nationality but on his personality , there will always be ******** , cheaters and liars in all nationalities . You can't keep your heart in a freezer and just have your eyes for Polaks only . Love happens , it has no skin color , no nationality , Love in it's finest is true so it doesn't matter if your special someone is polish or romanian or italian or lebanese , it's how you see them , how they make you feel , how they love you and how you love them . In the end it's your life and you must live it , if that special someone is the love of your life then all the rest is unimportant . Why worry about something that is irrelevent in the first place. It's all about what works and what works and what doesn't . And yes I know people are picky , people are ignorant , people are fearful, it's all part of being human . You Love who you love , so date who you want it's your choice .

You want a date with me Evelina?

polish women probably are with foreign men becasue they have substantial interaction with them, equally other europeans aere also with foreign men, this is the way the world flows, men like women women like men regardless of their nationality.. its a good sign to show we are coming closer as human beings...

I don't know why Polish girls don't like Polish men. Dh who is polish is sweet, thoughtful, romantic, extremely hard working so that I can stay home w/our baby and cook and clean for the three of us. I'm looking forward to having another baby or two and then moving to Poland with him. He's homesick The only person who ever said anything about Polish men smelling bad was my old room mate(and she hated all foreigners) Dh always smells so good and makes sure I look my best when we go out. He's so thoughtful he even suggests I throw out old clothes and buy new ones and enjoys helping me shop.

Sorry I got someone special thanks anyways ;)

6 - Polish men don't shower as often

I have to say , that this is sadly TRUE. I'm dating a Polish guy who might not have all those bad characteristics listed above BUT he definitely doesn't shower as often and it really irritates me. I personally like to shower once or even twice a day, but I think he does it once or twice a week. Actually I don't know what to do about it, we've just started dating and it was the first thing I didn't like, I don't know what to do, specially because is the beginning of the relation and I don't feel comfortable neither suggesting nor standing it. Other thing I don't enjoy is his poor sense of fashion. I don't want a fashionable man, but he doesn't care much about his appearance (things like black pants, black shoes and WHITE SOCKS!!!!!!), also his entire wardrobe is from the early 90's!!!!!!. I could stand the clothing but the every day shower?????...... I don't know what to do. If anyone has any suggestions, please help me!!! I really like him, he is nice, he treats me well, pays for everything, he is not stupid, he is an intelligent man, he is got a profession back from Poland, he is a man with feelings and good sense of humour. I really can see a lot of potential and good things I really like from him; but the poor interest on his appearance turn me off, specially because it's one of the most important aspects from myself I always take care of . WHAT SHOULD I DO???? I don't want to let him go because of that but I can't stand it either and I don't feel like saying or suggesting anything that is just common sense on any human being and also it's just the beginning of the relationship. He was a Doctor in Poland that's why I just can't get it. I thought all Polish were like that because to me, doesn't make sense being a doctor and not take care of your appearance, but after I read what you said I don't know what to think. PLEASE HEEEEEEELP

In that case look for The Netherlands. Quite liberal but not as capitalistic as England or the States. And not as "stiff" as Germany. :-)

Buy him some nice smelly stuff, thats about the biggest hint you can give

Failing the above, tell him you have a shower fettish and love doing it in there - that should solve the problem :)

as for the clothes aspect - say "hey lets go shopping" and guide him towards the mens stores - and pic up things you think will suit him :)

personally i have several reason :-
1 - Life is more interesting with someone who has different experiences and background to your own.
2 - Polish men drink too much.
3 - Westerners work harder and earn more money than Polish men.
4 - Polish men are less refined.
5 - Polish men are less intelligent.
6 - Polish men don't shower as often
7 - Polish women want something more than Polish men and Poland can offer.
8 - Polish women realise that you only live once so why settle for second best.

9 - Their children will have the advantage of knowing two languages and having two nationalities.
10 - Their friends will be envious.


For what i know on Polish guys they are different from what u are describing... i was impressed by them. But i agree that someone from a different background and culture makes life more exciting and interesting, moreover its an advantage for children.

I thinkits just becuase we are bigger and better in bed than the Polish men :-))

I dont think nationality has anything to do with how often you shower. My partner showers twice a day normally.. he told me that when he was growing up they only had a tin bath in front of the fire and you were only allowed in it once a week cos of water shortages.. so guess hes making up for that now

Polish women prefer polish men.The ones who cannot easily get a polish boyfriend find a foreigner to marry them.This is the most common.Or the foreigner maybe rather good looking.
I do not regard polish men as dirty,less intelligent,less mannered or less hardworking.I regard them as real competition.

Works both ways, I've seen on this board a fair few Brit women looking for a Polish guy.

I haven't met a man who thinks it's a great idea going shopping on the third date. Most men hate shopping malls, and he certainly is not really into that. Also, I don't want to seem to bossy by suggesting a new wardrobe. He may think I 'm one of those who want to change him right away, and men don't like that. Shelley you and me are women that's why, going shopping might seem the solution, but from a man point's of view....(specially at the beginning of the relationship) . Also it's not the right time to start buying things for him like clothing.




Then again it's not the right time to buy a perfume , and actually that won't solve the problem, I don't want him to be covered by perfume, I want him to shower everyday!!!


How can I tell him guys? I really like him but.... remember we been out for only 2 or 3 times.

I dont think you can at this early stage without hurting his feelings and possibly putting him off you.. I would suggest taking a shower together before you sleep with him..

As far as the clothes thing goes, remember its whats underneath that counts. I do remember my bf having a pair of jeans that were horrible and I just used to look at them in disgust til he asked me what was wrong and I said that I was sorry but I didnt think they suited him and he looked much better in another pair. At first he was adamant that he liked them, but after one more wear I never saw them again. When I asked him why, he said that he appreciated my fashion advice. I then started buying him clothes that I liked or pointing out other guys who looked good in certain things, either on TV or friends or even in the street. However, be careful what you wish for as in my case he is now even more obsessed with clothes than me and is wardrobe is constantly expanding.

I meant some shower gell type stuff, not aftershave - but agreed it is a bit too soon to be buying him personal things like that - its a bit of a no brainer because he might just be one of those people who doesnt really care about his appearance - if you really like him as you say, stick with it and in time you can tell him he's a bit of a stinker :)



Hmm I know where you are coming from my b/f brought a pair of white jeans up one weekend - I offered to iron then and accidently got a rather large black mark on them, they havent seen the light of day again!

nice tactic.. if I didnt hate ironing I would try it. Theres always the charity shop when you live together.. you just say you have no idea what happened to that particular item of clothing :)

Dude, you must have a small dick complex to start a topic like this one.

Shelley and Sapphire !!!!

You two are terrible. You really made me laugh. How could you dare to do that to those lovely jeans. Next time I see him I'm gonna start to think about your tactics and if I start laughing for no reason (apparently) , it's gonna be all your fault!!!! (I'm gonna keep the iron in mind anyway)

Any other suggestions guys?


Grzegorz!! Cavalier is not here anymore!! Why you dont give me an advise. I want to know a man's point of view in regards my situation. You are a man so you can give me some advice.

survival of the fittest smartest leanest meanest whith the best geanome and polish men come last after least

1st we rule your women then we rule your country then we take over the world ha ha ha ha all white woman are going out whith brwon plack forign men the west has nothing to offer them exept an outdated bible sex drink and one night stands

we have a new world a new order more money bigger houses bigger faster cars curry dumplins tortillas ha ha ha ha did i get you thinking did i **** you of did i make you angry truth hurts tut tut tut.