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milenkaThreads: 1
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 Mar 12, 09, 22:17    #1
Hi everyone!

Im a Polish girl who works in England for 4 years and at the same time studying at university. My boyfriend is from Turkey and he works in the logistic company in England. He doesn't have visa as he has a Work Permission in UK. He has been here for about 2 years. Unfortunatelly, because of the crisis crunch there's a big possibility that they'll take him back to Turkey and then he would have to go straight to the army. We love each other a lot and we don't want to risk. Therefore we decided to marry before the worst happens.

My question is, if we finally be married does it means that he can stay in UK with no need for visa? Can he travel to Poland without visa too? Can I travel to Turkey with no problems?
And one more very important question, when I get married do I have to renew my passport straight away as I will carry a new surname. The problem is that Im going to Costa Rica for a month at the beggining of May and of course I'll need my passport with me so I won't have a time to wait for a new one. Is it means that Costa Rica can't let me go in if I don't have a new passport?

niejestemcapitaThreads: 3
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 Mar 12, 09, 22:25    #2
milenka:
when I get married do I have to renew my passport straight away as I will carry a new surname.

noI dont think so just make sure u carry your marriage cert with u if u havent got around to getting your passport in your new name.
However you and he may have to send your passports away, and this can take some time,
I am sure there are websites u can check.
milenkaThreads: 1
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 Mar 13, 09, 00:33    #3
Thank you for your help :)
ragtime27Threads: 1
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Edited by: ragtime27  Mar 13, 09, 00:50    #4
If you get an approval from the home office first,since your partner is not an EU member,he can stay in UK.

For traveling to Poland,i believe he still need a visa(turkey is not part of EU).

You can travel to Turkey anytime without any problem,but i would think you need a visa(Turkey is not in EU).

Once you get married you still can use the same passport and you don't have to change the surname anyway.

One thing if you're going to Costa rica with your new husband in May,it may take time to sort out himself......check if you need a visa for Costa Rica.

Enjoy your holiday
milenkaThreads: 1
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 Mar 13, 09, 01:35    #5
Thank you ragtime27 for answering to all of my questions. I really appreciate it :)
By the way Im going to Costa Rica without my new husband (wow how it sounds!, Im so excited!), coz it's a part of university programme, a voluntary work.
Many thanx again.
King SobieskiThreads: 7
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 Mar 13, 09, 04:05    #6
the cynical part of me is saying zamykac
milenkaThreads: 1
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 Mar 13, 09, 04:44    #7
zamykac what? cynical Sobieski?
King SobieskiThreads: 7
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 Mar 13, 09, 08:16    #8
milenka:
zamykac what?

my mouth...mum always said if you cant say anything nice then dont say anything at all.
milenkaThreads: 1
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 Mar 13, 09, 13:15    #9
ur mum is absolutely right...but what was on ur mind when writing it? "anything Not nice"? what's bothering u Sobieski?
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Edited by: ShelleyS  Mar 13, 09, 13:22    #10
milenka:
milenka

A work colleague of mine many years ago married a Turkish guy and it took her years to get him to the UK and she was English - I'd get some "proper" advice.

milenka:
ur mum is absolutely right...but what was on ur mind when writing it? "anything Not nice"? what's bothering u Sobieski?

Men from None EU countries have a long standing reputation for marrying women (EU) to get into the UK...Why do you think you have to register with the Home Office?
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 Mar 13, 09, 15:38    #11
She is talking about a Turkish man here dont be mistaken !
They are not like others!And all of them are diffrent...
Are you sure about him ? Can you easily see this : if he wanted to use you for your passport and you said no to him.. Can he go back? Or can he not find any other 1000 girls in the Uk to marry just to get passport?Even if he said this to their face? Which part of Turkey he is from ?Is he a Kurd!!? Or a real Turk? Is he charming and really very handsome?Is he working in a big company ? Is he a manager or just working there?Does he have a good carier. Does he have a poor family ? How was his life condition before he moved to the Uk ? How many messages is he recieving a day from his fans?
Without answering all these questions it is absolutely wrong to comment? Are all , but all of your Polish female friends around you fancying him? What about your friends from other nations all around the universe? Are all polish man around you jeaolus because of him?Hope you get what i mean..I know this story...Would love to argue about all these with anyone who has ba.. to talk it here..
He has right to work in the Uk without a work permit once he got married and change his current status at home office. No worries.About the Costa Rica: dont worry everything will be fine, they dont have a border control there like you have it in the Uk .
And i am sure he is excited as well, it is not easy to give decisions like this. Because i believe that for real and decent man it is a great honor to get married and to give their name to their partner and be loyal all of their life. Is it same in Poland? Is it same with Polish couples?(Just wondering)Are your polish female friends around you loyal to their bfs or wifes?What happens if you cheat on your partner do you have a short period fun ? If you have a good and clean heart you cannot keep it and you cannot live with it.If your relation is fake and like many others you can keep it forever and marriage or relation starts boring you and you end up with loads of lies and ruining a happy and cler life!
Cheers
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 Mar 13, 09, 16:04    #12
aydnszn:
He has right to work in the Uk without a work permit once he got married

milenka:
milenka

Are you getting the picture now?
milenkaThreads: 1
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 Mar 13, 09, 16:09    #13
So basiclly what you saying guys, men from none EU countries doesn't have real feelings, they faking love only to get EU passport?
I knew that Sobieski has the same on his mind that's way I asked those questions. I just wish that people could put themselves in those none EU men positions and stop "segregate" people only by their origin, because it is much more then that in live. Nothing is simple and easy. Everyone hides their own history inside. It doesn't metter where you come from, what's your religion, but how the life (which can be cruel sometimes) shaped ur character and personality, who are you really after all.
I think like this, I was born by luck in Poland, what if I was born in none EU country, would it means that I was worst then people who come from EU countries (because in reality very often it's opposite as people from the "developed countries" are spoiled).
Anyway don't you think that all of us has the same dreams, needs and disires...Everyone wants a happy life with the people you love.
MrBubblesThreads: 13
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 Mar 13, 09, 16:14    #14
milenka:
Everyone wants a happy life with the people you love.

Quite right Milenka. Don't worry about what the others say - the Turks I've met are a good bunch. Good luck to both of you
Wroclaw Boy  Mar 13, 09, 16:21    #15
Ahh those greasy Turks, i wouldnt worry about him wanting you for your passport. Most of my mates said the same thing to me when i married my Polish wife this was before Poland was in the EU. Truth is at the time i didnt care a less as long as it was good for me, she never got a UK passport and were still married.

If it feels right go for it.

As for Turks and their right to live in the UK being marred to an EU national, i dont have a clue im afriad.
King SobieskiThreads: 7
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 Mar 14, 09, 13:11    #16
MrBubbles:
the Turks I've met are a good bunch

all comes down to personal experiences.
Mister HThreads: 11
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 Mar 18, 09, 00:17    #17
There doesn't seem to be much that can't be solved by two foreigners shacking-up together in the UK and getting married.

I wonder if people would be so keen to rush up the aisle if it didn't improve their immigration status.
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 Mar 18, 09, 12:28    #18
Mister H:
I wonder if people would be so keen to rush up the aisle if it didn't improve their immigration status.

No brainer that really Mr H.
Rafal_1981 Edited by: Rafal_1981  Mar 18, 09, 13:08    #19
Wroclaw Boy:
Ahh those greasy Turks, i wouldnt worry about him wanting you for your passport. Most of my mates said the same thing to me when i married my Polish wife this was before Poland was in the EU. Truth is at the time i didnt care a less as long as it was good for me, she never got a UK passport and were still married.

What do you want from Turks - they are top notch men ;-]

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scotjockThreads: 4
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 Mar 18, 09, 13:31    #20
If he really loves you, tell him you want to go to Cyprus for your honeymoon ;)
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 Mar 18, 09, 14:42    #21
scotjock:
If he really loves you, tell him you want to go to Cyprus for your honeymoon ;)

They can go to North Cyprus I am sure it will be very enjoyable.
Mister HThreads: 11
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 Mar 19, 09, 11:14    #22
ShelleyS:
No brainer that really Mr H.

Yes, you're right, but I thought I would say it anyway and wasn't sure what smiley people used for 'slightly sarcastic' ;-)
eloyThreads: 1
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Edited by: eloy  Mar 24, 09, 15:44    #23
I don't know about uk part but for poland he can't visit poland without visa but he can get visa easyer and free (longest for 3 months) if you want to stay in poland more than 3 months so he need staying permission and for it you going to offices and they checking if it's real marriage etc... if he gets this staying permission so he have right to work in poland stay in poland firstly for 1 year then they giving for 3 years i guess... and with this permission he can stay in schengen countries for 3 months


And for visiting Turkey; yes you need visa but you can get it on air port i think i was about 20 euros for 1 months some countries can take visa up to 3 months in Turkey (I don't know why but poland not included this countries) also if you want to stay longer in turkey..
then nightmare starts here hehe :) You have to go to police for foreigners and apply and pay about 200 euros (for 1 year)
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 Mar 24, 09, 20:11    #24
Lady asked for advice, and many got worried and started playing little Jesus
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 Mar 24, 09, 20:15    #25
foxtrot1213:
Lady asked for advice, and many got worried and started playing little Jesus

you're right :-)
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 Apr 13, 09, 01:15    #26
hi,me and my fiance (next week we getting married in england.. and Im İn london secont time and my visa is just 6 month.. when I saw one message it was terrible and I know that message wrote from turkish guy.. I dont know why people just must married for passport minimum 5 years.. but importand thinks you boyfriend must have minimum 4 month visa and if you want to marry we can explain what you want t know..İmportand thinks they want to see alot of thinks..and all COA applications 295pound, solicitors minimum 250 pound and theother all think we nearly paid 1000pound for all and they are must sent COA for married.. dont forget for polish married free letters and birth certificate minimum 2 mounth but you can apply for home office without thish letter when you want your that letters receipt coppy add after sent and sent them by confirmed letter statu.. and keep safely..that is really important..after answer you getting marry so easy but when you have a COA from home office you must fined register office and you going to pay each person 35 pound for paper works.. and you must wait 16 days on the wall that letter.. and and which one you pay keep and take a lot of pictures (rent contrakt bills start to do it same adress and paying together that is importand of them) if you have any question write my mail.. because I know you can start to think bad.. how is going this.. turkish people love friend or partner or wife/husbant.. and I belive he love you..any questions ask me if I can help I can so happy.. friday to monday ı have honeymoon dont ask anything :D
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 Apr 14, 09, 11:52    #27
milenka:
Im a Polish girl who works in England for 4 years and at the same time studying at university. My boyfriend is from Turkey and he works in the logistic company in England

In the words of Pan Popiołek from seriał dom
Koniec Świata
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 Jul 31, 09, 00:03    #28
Mister H
I am of same thinking, my advice is : RUN
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 Jul 31, 09, 00:39    #29
milenka:
So basiclly what you saying guys, men from none EU countries doesn't have real feelings, they faking love only to get EU passport?
I knew that Sobieski has the same on his mind that's way I asked those questions. I just wish that people could put themselves in those none EU men positions and stop "segregate" people only by their origin, because it is much more then that in live. Nothing is simple and easy. Everyone hides their own history inside. It doesn't metter where you come from, what's your religion, but how the life (which can be cruel sometimes) shaped ur character and personality, who are you really after all.
I think like this, I was born by luck in Poland, what if I was born in none EU country, would it means that I was worst then people who come from EU countries (because in reality very often it's opposite as people from the "developed countries" are spoiled).
Anyway don't you think that all of us has the same dreams, needs and disires...Everyone wants a happy life with the people you love.

A very relevant and beautiful post, Milenka. It's more relevant to this board than you even realise at the moment.
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Edited by: southern  Jul 31, 09, 00:51    #30
These polish women have eaten the dumb grass as we say in Greece?


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