Pornographic Polish magazines

hi everyone,

my husband has some magazines that are really upsetting me. a few months ago our friend went home to poland. while she was there she visited with my husband's parents and brought a few things back from them. the gifts for my husband included a stack of magazines, three of which were 'GT'. i looked thru the magazines to find tons of pictures of naked women on cars. i was a little upset that my husband's mother would send her married son these magazines, but what could i say since my husband didn't buy them.

last week, a brand new 'CKM' appeared in our bedroom. this magazine is filled with pornography, and I find it quite offensive. i'm guessing he got it at the polish deli. i can't read any of it because i can't understand polish, but there is actually a photo of a naked woman having sex with a plant!

i'm very upset because my husband didn't seem like the pornography seeking type. he seemed like a good church going guy. i've made alot of sacrifices to be with someone from another culture (and to sponsor him here in the US) because i believed in my heart that he was a good person. i'm just very disappointed to discover that he seems to be different that i thought.

i guess my question is, what is up with these magazines? are these magazines normal in poland? in the US, typically a married man's mother would not send him a magazine with pictures of naked women in it! that would be considered totally inappropriate. and most church going married men would not buy porno and leave it on their bedroom dresser for their wife to find.

can anyone tell me more about these magazines? what they are about/ who the audience is in poland? what magazines might be comparable here in the US?

thanks for any help! i thought at first i could ignore them, but i'm finding myself really starting to resent the magazines and him.

I don't know about the rest, but that is disgusting.
It's not a cactus, I hope.

i've never understood why women make a such a big deal out of that...


and how do you know that? are you sure?


it's a bit naive, don't you think?


donkey, i think that you should talk to your plants about that today!

what were you expecting?



these are normal for all men who like women, not for those who like men.. lol




maybe he is trying to tell you something and your not smelling the coffee..
better get a big grip on it and find out from him instead of trying to dissect
it with us.. I am sure he can give you more communication.

which is how you fix things.

GT magazines are about cars, but you may find girls in it... It's not pornographic though.

You should talk to him :) The best thing you can do, i guess.


Depends if it's SM...

lmao.. agree.. and doesnt some types of cactus contain a numbing agent?
lol...

men are men and they like these things, if he leaves it in the bedroom instead of hiding it in the basement it obviously means these are JUST magazines to him, he's not a porn obsessed sex maniac. it kinda made me think that if he leaves them mags for you to find maybe he wants to spice up the atmosphere in the bedroom for you guys ;), some couples watch porn together! really dont get upset, he doesnt mean to hurt you. if you do feel like its bothering you though, have a chat with him, but dont be nasty or shout at him. he is just a man!

Well, some people consider nudity art. Be a dear and post some of the pictures up here, and we will let you know if it is art, or pornography. Were the cars good looking?

It may. But even numb, those cacti may still experience trauma.

I totally agree ;)

Cacti like it warm, but not wet.

Ergo, I am not cacti.

wow, not exactly the response i was expecting. some of you seem less than sympathetic. i do agree the best thing to do is to talk with him. if his reaction is anything like i've experienced here, i'll know he's the wrong person for me. thanks for the honesty, it has been eye opening.

And I hear they don't like it dark either.

I am traumatized just reading this. I have heard some way out their stories..
if that was a true story, that would be sick.. and mental.

Okay. How about this?

What a *******! How dare he?
And the family being complicit in the whole thing?
Terrible.

Or this:
Yeah! It's normal. Don't worry. He still loves you.

Or this:
It would be okay if it wasn't for the cars and cacti.

well, thanks for the alternate responses. i was actually looking for information about the specific magazines. Polson provided some useful information in that respect.

CKM is not pornography, It is erotic magazine, like Playboy.

You are really backward woman... Don't you know that in advanced European society you cannot successfully sell anything(!) without making adverts with some sexual context. Proportionally with stronger sexual context you sell more products. This is how business reach out high intellectual capabilities of majority. This is what we call progress and we are damn proud of it!

You need to understand that in the US some people make no distinction between porn and erotica. A few years back, in California (of all places) people were horrified by the naked statue of greek God Poseidon. Pure filth :)

Exactly, sex sells and it's an eternal truth. No getting round it

Cars too...

What sort of undressed super model is needed to sell a Skoda I wonder. Whereas any old hag could sell an Aston.

A nice Czech chick :)
Oh Czech chick, how funny !...... ;)

thats kinda what I thought too.. maybe he is hinting around.
church is a place to go for prayer..

I am actually surprised at your post.. because when you marry someone
you dont use the sponsering him as your leverage to stop him from being a man.
he is human. part of the human needs pleasure.. this helps create the bond..

... but if he's only trying to inspire her to lay spreadeagle on the bonnet of their Skoda, he's got weird ideas about their potential bedroom activities.

lol it doesnt mean thats what they would do.. anyway she should prob just
talk with him and asking does work !!

this is basically just like MAXIM plus a bit more nudes. porno? i odn't think so.. not even close. Europeans a re bit less puritanical about sex and stuff. sheesh.


yes.
right, they just get a hooker. rememeber jom baker and the likes?


girl, there is nothing wrong with these magiazines.. if he ain't good for you, you will have major issues finding a guy that will.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/CKM_%28adult_magazine%29

http://ckmagazyn.pl

okay guys, if these magazines are erotica rather than porno, they do not objective or show women as subjugated in relation to men. please tell me the name of the polish magazine for women that shows nude men in compromising positions so that i can order it for myself.

the fact that women are used as a commodity to sell anything is not something that i consider progress. as a woman, i'm pretty surprised at those of you who defend this, and i wonder how you would feel if it was your mother, daughter or sister who was in these photos.

FABIO? WOUL DYOU LIKE SOME BUTTER?

WHY IS HALF NUDE WOMAN A BIG DEAL? HAS YOUR HUSBAND SEEN YOU NAKED? I am guessing you need to take a clue instead of getting into a hissy fit over this.