wedzidlo:
my husband has some magazines that are really upsetting me. a few months ago our friend went home to poland. while she was there she visited with my husband's parents and brought a few things back from them. the gifts for my husband included a stack of magazines, three of which were 'GT'. i looked thru the magazines to find tons of pictures of naked women on cars. i was a little upset that my husband's mother would send her married son these magazines, but what could i say since my husband didn't buy them.
gusy will be guys, they look at porn now and again, a few woman wrapped around or on cars is nothing compared to some of the material that can be found. Consider yourself lucky :)
wedzidlo:
but there is actually a photo of a naked woman having sex with a plant!
i can't believe you find this upsetting, i find it actually quite quite funny do the the fact of its totaly uniqueness :):):)
wedzidlo:
i'm very upset because my husband didn't seem like the pornography seeking type. he seemed like a good church going guy. i've made alot of sacrifices to be with someone from another culture (and to sponsor him here in the US) because i believed in my heart that he was a good person. i'm just very disappointed to discover that he seems to be different that i thought.
i can't believe you didn't think a man wouldn't look at pornographic images just because he was a 'good church going guy' look at some of the 'fathers of the church' they do worse and actually sexually assault children, the church is not that clean you know!!!
wedzidlo:
i guess my question is, what is up with these magazines? are these magazines normal in poland? in the US, typically a married man's mother would not send him a magazine with pictures of naked women in it! that would be considered totally inappropriate. and most church going married men would not buy porno and leave it on their bedroom dresser for their wife to find.
no matter what country your in, you will find pornographic magazines, its natural for a guy to want to look at the female form performing certain acts. Of course what that act is can vary as not all guys are into the same thing, but i won't go into detail about that.
wedzidlo:
can anyone tell me more about these magazines? what they are about/ who the audience is in poland? what magazines might be comparable here in the US?
thanks for any help! i thought at first i could ignore them, but i'm finding myself really starting to resent the magazines and him.
Firslty, there is nothing wrong with these magazines and there is nothing wrong with your husband buying them. A guy once in a while needs a little 'change up' and maybe this is his version. Would you rather him sleep with another woman or view a few dirty magazines??? I know which i'd choose if i were a married female.
There is nothing wrong with your husband, If there is then the same can be said for billions of other blokes around the world.
I hope i haven't offended you in anyway because i didn't mean to, i'm just openeing your eyes to the fact that 'pornography' is normal and a lot of guys look at it. There is nothing wrong with this. Sex is sex, un explainable and sometimes guys can't even tell their wives about their deepest desires and fantasies so seek them elsewhere either through the Internet or magazines such as the ones your husband is looking at.
thnx
T