I'm pregnant of a polish guy

My 27 year old Polish girlfriend fell pregant just after Xmas. It was not planned, but equally I was none too careful. Rather than be happy, she was devasted. I knew she had a child in Poland, but not that she was still married.

Simply she could not have child , as it would cause problems in her village, and she feared above all the husband would try to take custody of her son. She sees him only 2/3 times a year as she lives/works in England.

I would have loved to take on a child, even though I am 57 , and she is only 27.

Life is so unfair at times, and I sympathise with the Spanish girl.But at least she will have a child to bring up. I will end up with neither Polish girl, or child, as she had abortion .

None of the above situations are a winner...

Arr I do feel for you. Only thing I would say is life is too short, if you want something you have to go for it. I am sorry for your situation if its not too late tell her how you feel and what you want, you have nothing to loose by doing this. I find sometimes we hold back because we fear rejection but you will only be rejected once and if that's the case you can get closure and move on.

Any updates from these people? still around here?

I worry...