Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men?

The girl is the victim.She waited for a divorce but the husband cheated her.Now he is back with his wife.These men are pigs.

Why not?

Now english women pay for their abandonment of catholicism 300 years ago.Catholic church takes its revenge through a carefully organized plan.

The plot thickens.

funnily enough ewa i have no problem accepting that not everyone views the world as i do... and just becasue i accept them it doesnt make them right... can you accept that... no, i thought not...

religion is responsible for more harm than good... if you cant see this then i suggest you take of your rose tinted glasses, step away from the dogma that is blinding you and see reality for what it really is... you could start by having a look at all the religious hatered espoused on this forum... and once youve done that, go and switch on the tv and watch the news...

She was a family friend so something was broken there if nothing else her dignity as a woman. And I do blame the all thing 50/50, but the fact is she will go on to someone else and I'm the one left to pick up the pieces and I have to remain strong for myself my children and my family as a unit. She knew it was wrong, she knew us as a family and she ate at our table and she would dscribe us as the perfect family. SO PERFECT SHE WANTED IT FOR HERSELF...



When she told her parents she had found this perfect guy and he was "going to look after her" she forgot to mention the "perfect guy" already had a family to look after and was probably only looking for an extra bite on the side because routine ha settled into his own marriage. Two cowards...

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Margarat

Why would any self respecting women need a guy to look after her?! It seems to me she would do anything to get a guy.
It is not the first time I hear those stories about polish girls and commited men. I think it is a matter of culture, beause they are raised to get married and they usually do it at a very young age so they can fly the nest... Iknow you're an atheist, ladybird but believe me "what goes around comes around" and she will learn her lesson. And so will he, a shame it is not trough you.

Really?

Bubba, show me one, just one, conflict started purely because of religion.

Do you mean a conflict started because of religion or in the name of religion. If it's the latter I can think of many

they were both wrong, her for getting involved with a married man and him for not keeping it in his trousers!



Do a search you will see that some are actually quite proud that they are sh*gging married men whos wives are back in Poland or who have come over here to discover that their childhood sweetheart has been banging the local bike :)

Of course the first one. Bubba claims that religion is responsible for more harm than good. That it is the source of many conflicts that have been harassing mankind for centuries. However he doesn't see that it never was actually about religion. That religion was used only to draw the line between "we" and "them", "friends" and "foes". At the bottom of all those alleged "religious" conflicts there was little from religion itself. It was always about the money and power. The crusades didn't took place because Europeans wanted to converse Muslims to their one and only rightful faith, but because Europe was overcrowded and the Holy ground looked as a very interesting (read wealthy) alternative. If religion wouldn't exist the wealthy people would have come up with a different pretext how to divide people. The history of the XXth century shows us perfectly that one doesn't need religion to start a conflict. Hitler divided people between Aryans and untermenschen. Communists divide them between the capitalist wealthy pigs, and poor working class/proletariat. Gorge W. Bush divided them between rightful citizens and terrorist.

Bubbawoo thinks that because he is a non-believer he would escape the trap of manipulation. Unfortunately he isn't aware how easily he could be manipulated. He has all the characteristics needed for it: assurance that he is undoubtly right, that his way is the only right way and that he is better than those weak believers “that don’t have what it takes within themselves”. The irony about this whole situation is that the line would be drawn between religious people and atheists, thus still making it in his eyes a “religious” conflict. :)


PS: No hard feelings Bubba. :)

How shallow can one be?

I wrote it as a joke.

I am sorry to hear this sad story and I understand that its much easier for you to blame it all on the girl, particularly since you and your husband are back together.. however, have you thought that it might have been him pursuing her and promising her that you guys were through etc... if she is younger, then she may be more naive about relationships than you make her out to be. It is your husband who has done wrong here.. yes, she must have little morals to start an affair with him when she is also friendly with you, but perhaps he was the pursuer and she the victim, although of course she could have resisted.. sorry, Im sure I wont win many friends for saying this, but I'm just trying to present a different angle. we all want to blame the other party as it is often easier than face the truth. anyway, having said this.. I wish you success and hope you will be happy and be able to regain the trust in your marriage, which isnt an easy thing to do

You're not really that naive at 25 and I don't think it is a matter of age but more a matter of caracther and personality and as the all topic started, culture. Eastern european women maybe because they lived repressed for so long do tend to get involved in "forbidden" relashionships. I also think Poland is the most arrogant Eastern country and therefore specially people abroad tend to reafirm their worthiness at any cost. Thanks for your wishes Saphire but I am not seating down feeling sorry for myself, If nothing else this made me stronger and has shown me I can cope very well on my own. We're staying together because it is worth it to try because we love each other but if it finishes I am very cool with it.

well good luck to you, you sound like a strong person and I hope it works out for you.. I assume that he still no longer in contact with the girl? I'm not sure I could forgive a man for cheating, which is kind of ironic given my own circumstances.

Cheating no matter how we play around it, brings heartache and it can have serious consequences. I have no doubt if he loved her they would be together as he's a very strong minded person, but when it came to choose he decided to stay where he felt he belonged. There is no contact whatsoever between them and I wouldn't take him back otherwise. I hope you're not in the same situation bcause someone is going to suffer deeply and is not worth it. Life is too short for this kind of ****!

Ladybird, you need to study Islam, where man and women are segregated in social times, and Muslim women in Islam are modestly dressed, and men and women are obliged to lower their gses. your husband saw this attractive polish girl, socialize with u, saw her beauty and could not resist her. Can you Imagine how Islam deal with this social problem.?

themodernreligion.com/w_main.htm

I'm curious now!!!! Don't tell me they would cut his thingy off!!!

Joking apart, in my modest ignorance, in islam i always thought this kind of behaviour would not be condemned in a man,because they are allowed to have more than one woman, so I would have to stay quiet in order for him to spread his love around and she would probably be on her second child by now. Could we all live in the same house?

Religion doesn't need to be involved in every single sociological discussion there is. Thank you.


It's a practice that used to be allowed because of social issues at that time. Just as the bible has (see: mormons). The thing is that these books were written thousands of years ago & do not reflect the state of current society. So if you were to interpret things literally, yes you can marry multiple women.

Luckely most rational muslims & christians know how to interpret the bible by understanding which statements are timeless & which aren meant in their own timeframe. Unfortunately some people don't which results in things such as this:

godhatesfags.com/main/index.html


And now ot: I don't think any woman prefers a married man. Why would she ever go through so much trouble? If they really love each other, it can be true & affectionate but there will always be something in the way.

Islam has no bearing on this discussion whatsoever..since neither party was Muslim... and Sparrow is right that there are not many women who would actively seek a married man, but sometimes these things happen and you cant neccessarily choose who you fall in love with, the only thing you can do is to choose not to act on your feelings...but this is often easier said than done. Its easy to judge others and to think we would act differently, but until you are in the situation you just dont know.

ah thanks.. chocolate chip or 'special' cookies would be great.

lol, I'm not a coffeeshop! ;-)

Why do I have this feeling we're touching a subject close to your heart Sapphire?

Will the unavailability of the married man increase the attraction for the woman?

The opposite religion or the true religion is the divine guidance by your creator (God). God knows whats best for man kind to live a happy life here and after dead. The divine revelation in Islam, deals with the past, present, future. If Ladybird cheated on her husband! do u think he'll forgive her or dump her? the answer most likely the latter!
but she did not dump him despite he cheated on her. here comes the polygamy in Islam.

You just did it again. Religion can be helpful for some of mankind, but kind words from a person to another person help more than endless theological blabber.. This is not a conversion-forum..

This kind of talkw won't help you to make friends and influence people...in this life...
and that is the only one you have for sure...