Aniol: Can anyone help me suss this out, my head says I should probably ignore him til he comes begging.....but my heart is furious and slightly broken...so be gentle with your comments please! Anioł - I have no idea who this guy is and why he acts the way he does. However, I agree with Ariel's reply below. Many guys don't like to burden their ladies with their problems, especially when the relationship is just beginning. We like to pretend that we're in charge of our lives.
To me he almost sounds like someone still getting over a past relationship? You know, a person really has to like him/herself before allowing others to like him/her... Maybe he's not there yet? Either way, good luck to you...
Are all Polish men Psychos? PS. I'm sure you're being facetious but for someone who 's heart is broken and who needs gentle comments - your own comments aren't that gentle you know...
Arien: Or he simply doesn't want to bother you with his problems, because how well does he know you? I mean, you've said it yourself, you only see him once in every couple of weeks at an evening class.. Aniol, maybe he likes you, and maybe he's interested, but it could be that he has his pride, and would like to solve his problems before he's confident enough to actually ask you.. If he's clearly interested, as you've put it, then I think it's very likely that he's keeping you at a safe distance for the time being.
JustysiaS: why thank you my dear, one year older today ;D Happy Birthday then... :)
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