Does anyone still believe in no sex before marriage?

Ken NoddyThreads: 3 Posts: 193 Joined: Apr 30, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:14 #1
Has this tradition died out altogether? Was it ever much of a tradition in the first place? Is the traditional concept of marriage a thing of the past also?

tornado2007Threads: 20 Posts: 3,497 Joined: Jul 11, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:15 #2
no because i am not religious, so i don't have a preference either way, i just believe you have sex when the time is right

Wyspianska	Aug 25, 07, 16:17 #3
Its not good idea to wait with sex till marriage. Just imagine that ure a virgin, then have first sex after taking marriage. Lets say ur husband is bad lover, what means u will have bad sex whole life (if u wont leave him) Sucks. Im not telling its good to fuc*king around haha. Everything has some borders.

Ken NoddyThreads: 3 Posts: 193 Joined: Apr 30, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:21 #4
Quoting: Wyspianska Lets say ur husband is bad lover, what means u will have bad sex whole life That is a good point, lol.

WroclawThreads: 77 Posts: 7,404 Joined: Apr 1, 06 ♂ [Moderator]	Aug 25, 07, 16:22 #5
Quoting: Ken Noddy Does anyone still believe in no sex before marriage? I don't think we ever did. If you study Genealogy you are likely to find a few children in your family born out of wedlock.

Ken NoddyThreads: 3 Posts: 193 Joined: Apr 30, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:24 #6
Quoting: Wyspianska marriage Personally, I just can't see myself ever getting married, I just don't like the idea of being tied down like that.

Wyspianska	Aug 25, 07, 16:25 #7
Quoting: Ken Noddy Personally, I just can't see myself ever getting married, I just don't like the idea of being tied down like that. Ha, i think the same! Actually im in open relationship :P Its a best exit

FISZThreads: 31 Posts: 2,607 Joined: Jun 14, 06 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:25 #8
It's not about being tied down. If you marry someone you truely love it won't be such an inconvenience.

FISZThreads: 31 Posts: 2,607 Joined: Jun 14, 06 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:26 #9
and there are too many dirty std carrying people out there to play the field nowadays

tornado2007Threads: 20 Posts: 3,497 Joined: Jul 11, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:29 #10
Quoting: Ken Noddy I just can't see myself ever getting married, i agree, what is marriage no a days??? it means nothing its just a piece of paper that 'officially' signifies your partnership. It is a religious ceremony, so i don't see the point unless you are religious. If you love somebody being married to them or not should not make any difference :)

Ken NoddyThreads: 3 Posts: 193 Joined: Apr 30, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:29 #11
Quoting: Wyspianska open relationship Does that mean you both are free to see others? Sounds good but I don't think I would be strong enough mentally to deal with that.

Wyspianska	Aug 25, 07, 16:29 #12
Quoting: FISZ It's not about being tied down. If you marry someone you truely love it won't be such an inconvenience. Well, its possible that im just different than u. Never love someone really much. Maybe one day i would like to have husband but hey, right now im 18 and having fun as long as i can

FISZThreads: 31 Posts: 2,607 Joined: Jun 14, 06 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:29 #13
Quoting: tornado2007 what is marriage no a days??? it means nothing its just a piece of paper that 'officially' signifies your partnership A "marriage" doesn't mean paper. Look up the word.

WroclawThreads: 77 Posts: 7,404 Joined: Apr 1, 06 ♂ [Moderator]	Aug 25, 07, 16:31 #14
Quoting: tornado2007 If you love somebody being married to them or not should not make any difference :) It might to your partner.

FISZThreads: 31 Posts: 2,607 Joined: Jun 14, 06 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:31 #15
Quoting: Wyspianska right now im 18 and having fun as long as i can Absolutely! Go enjoy your youth. Quoting: Wyspianska Well, its possible that im just different than u No!!!! :P

Wyspianska

Aug 25, 07, 16:32 #16

Quoting: Ken Noddy

Does that mean you both are free to see others?
Sounds good but I don't think I would be strong enough mentally to deal with that.

At first we were together as a couple. But he was too jealous. Asking me for every day which i spent without him ("how many boys u met on a concert?") so it pissed me off and i broke up. But we still meet each other and treat like partners. Just when i wanna go to the party alone im making it. And im never jealous.
He knows im meeting with many many boys. Come on, im a nice girl :)

♀

Edited by: PolskaDoll Aug 25, 07, 16:33 #17

Never believed in not having sex before marriage but also don't believe in sleeping around. Can't be bothered with one night stands etc but I don't see the problem in having sex with a boyfriend because it's important that you know everything about each other before you commit to marriage and you have to know if you are sexually compatible or not.

Quoting: Ken Noddy

I just don't like the idea of being tied down like that.

It's not about being tied down. It's a commitment to each other that says you love each other (faults and otherwise) and that you will be there for each other, among many other things.

♂

Aug 25, 07, 16:34 #18

Quoting: FISZ

A "marriage" doesn't mean paper. Look up the word.

its a religious ceremony, i couldn't really care what it is, religion is the real problem in the world.

I'm happy for you to explain the exact meaning of marriage, although in todays society it dosen't really stand for much considering the amount of divorces or separated couples :)

Quoting: Wroclaw

It might to your partner.

you could be right there, however i won't be getting married just to please somebody

Ken NoddyThreads: 3 Posts: 193 Joined: Apr 30, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:35 #19
Quoting: Wyspianska And im never jealous That is a super quality you possess. I'd be a very jealous person, I'm not proud to admit that but it's hard for a leopard to change its spots.

Wyspianska	Aug 25, 07, 16:38 #20
Quoting: Ken Noddy That is a super quality you possess. I'd be a very jealous person, I'm not proud to admit that but it's hard for a leopard to change its spots. Hmm... just chill out. Think about many girls which u can meet. That one person isnt indispensable. Its even good and more interesting to meet with couple of ppl than with one

tornado2007Threads: 20 Posts: 3,497 Joined: Jul 11, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:39 #21
Quoting: Ken Noddy I'd be a very jealous person in these cases jealousy is linked with trust, people get jealous in these situations because they cannot trust their partner. That is what should form as part of a good relationship, trust, then with trust there is no jealousy :)

HuegThreads: 1 Posts: 428 Joined: Apr 16, 07 ♂	Edited by: Hueg Aug 25, 07, 16:41 #22
Marriage I've been told to tell you it's just beautiful what more do you need to know can't it just exist out there without having to be about something all the time and another thing you never listen I said thick sliced wholemeal bread and a tin of pineapple chunks not ten Marlboro Lights and a bottle of scotch Mrs Noddy

shewolfThreads: 5 Posts: 1,835 Joined: Dec 23, 06 ♀	Aug 25, 07, 16:41 #23
Quoting: Ken Noddy Has this tradition died out altogether? No, it hasn't died out. There are so many people out there who don't believe in sex before marriage. More than people realize. Nobody really discusses it. That's why it doesn't seem like it.

Wyspianska	Aug 25, 07, 16:43 #24
Quoting: shewolf There are so many people out there who don't believe in sex before marriage. To big risk! Arent they worry about their sexual life in future? Well, everyone has his own philosophy

tornado2007Threads: 20 Posts: 3,497 Joined: Jul 11, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:45 #25
Quoting: shewolf No, it hasn't died out. its just dying out :)

witekThreads: 2 Posts: 739 Joined: Apr 1, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:46 #26
Quoting: shewolf There are so many people out there who don't believe in sex before marriage. More than people realize. Nobody really discusses it. That's why it doesn't seem like it. sex before marriage is like test driving a car you are about to buy. if drives nice and smooth (good sex) then you are more likely to buy the car (marry).

shewolfThreads: 5 Posts: 1,835 Joined: Dec 23, 06 ♀	Edited by: shewolf Aug 25, 07, 16:46 #27
Quoting: Wyspianska Arent they worry about their sexual life in future? if they turn out to be no good, tie them up and have your way with them. :) Seriously, if you're not getting satisfied by someone, you're obviously not making your needs clear or you're not doing what you have to do to get yourself satisfied.

HuegThreads: 1 Posts: 428 Joined: Apr 16, 07 ♂	Aug 25, 07, 16:47 #28
Quoting: tornado2007 its just dying out :) And the new Brides and Grooms can't confirm or deny anything they're in Jamaica probably. This plot seems to be thickening nicely. Simmer time

♂

Aug 25, 07, 16:48 #29

Quoting: shewolf

f they turn out to be no good, tie them up and have your way with them. :) Seriously, if you're not getting satisfied by someone, you're obviously not making your needs clear or you're not doing what you have to do to get yourself satisfied.

sometimes its to do with communication, talk to your partner about what you and they want from their sex life, however if they are just not listening or are useless then maybe do what shewolf said :)

Wyspianska	Aug 25, 07, 16:49 #30
Quoting: witek sex before marriage is like test driving a car you are about to buy. if drives nice and smooth (good sex) then you are more likely to buy the car (marry). Hes got my point ^^

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