Black British Jamaican woman loves Polish friend but how do I tell him?

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Oct 19, 10, 19:24 #1

I started a new job 4 weeks ago and the first person I saw was Maciej, he had the nicest smile and I could tell he had a good heart.
Everyday he would walk past me (up to 8 times a day) to get water and my co-worker that I
sit next to me said that Maciej must like someone in the office cause he has never seen him look that happy since he stared work there 3 years ago.

Anyway two weeks ago on a Friday my co-worker that I sit next to said that Maciej really likes me and would I take his number if he gave it me, I said no and thought nothing more of it. The following Tuesday Maciej came up to my desk and gave me his mobile number, I was stunned as I never thought that Maciej would like me. Anyway I texted and rang him that night and the day after he asked me if I would go on a date with him so I said yes. We arranged to see each other on Saturday night and we was going to drive down to Blackpool and see the lights.

He came to my house to pick me up and he looked amazing, I asked him in as I just wanted to finish watching something on TV and in the end we stayed in and watched a dvd and I made him some food. He was a gentleman and never tried to touch me, we only cuddled whilst watching the dvd.

He asked me if I would go with him to his friends wedding next Saturday and if I would join him and his family for Christmas.

Ok so I have fallen in love with him already but I don't know if I should tell him or keep quite. We are both single so I don't think us getting together would be a problem, but I am very serious about him and keep dreaming about us getting married, what should I do?

warszawskiThreads: 60 Posts: 2,389 Joined: May 21, 10 ♂	Oct 19, 10, 19:35 #2
Atosha: if I would join him and his family for Christmas. In Poland ?

AtoshaThreads: 5 Posts: 63 Joined: Oct 19, 10 ♀	Oct 19, 10, 19:40 #3
His family are coming here to England for Christmas

DarrenMThreads: 2 Posts: 126 Joined: Dec 21, 07 ♂	Oct 19, 10, 19:50 #4
Atosha: and if I would join him and his family for Christmas. Hope you have an appetite my girl!!!!

FarurejThreads: - Posts: 6 Joined: Jul 25, 10 ♂	Oct 20, 10, 15:00 #5
Wait, you already have such serious plans? But you don't know him too well... And what food did you make him?

peter_olsztynThreads: 8 Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 18, 07 ♂	Edited by: peter_olsztyn Oct 20, 10, 17:17 #6
Atosha: but how do I tell him? You can say no to chodz tu tygrysie :) Ask him if he really want to live in the UK for good or consider another country to develop your love. There are no jobs in Poland and we aren't patient with non speaking Polish people as the English are.

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Oct 20, 10, 19:09 #7

I cooked him sweet chilli chicken wings from scratch.

He has a 5 year plan to make as much money as possible then move to a hot country.

I know it may look like things are moving real quick but I can feel in my heart that he is the one.

He is coming over on friday night again as he said he had a really nice time and he would like to spend some more quality time with me.

I sometimes think I am going to cry if another female comes along and shows interest in him and I don't manage to tell him how I feel. Surely he must know I like him as I would never let him come to my house otherwise.

FarurejThreads: - Posts: 6 Joined: Jul 25, 10 ♂	Oct 20, 10, 20:56 #8
Hey he has a similar plan to mine, I want to be a sailor for 5 years to save money, while living in some european countries when not at sea. I would advise you to express you thoughts to him while you can, I think men don't like when women aren't responsive... Good luck!

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Oct 20, 10, 22:00 #9

Farurej:

I would advise you to express you thoughts to him while you can

Your right. When he comes over on Friday I will tell him how I feel, if he tells me that we are only ever going to be friends I will have to accept it and try and just put my feelings to the side.

Ok he has just rung me to say he wants to tell me something but he wants to wait until Friday. I think I will let him speak first as I don't want to make a fool out of myself if he says that he has feelings for another woman or something.

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Oct 25, 10, 22:14 #10

Ok Maciej came over on Friday and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I am so happy he means the world to me, and his mum has asked me to come over this Sunday for dinner. So hopefully I don't need to post anymore except to tell everyone when he asks me to marry him next year, tee hee.

I love polish men, they are naturally sexy and work really hard to secure a happy future for the family. And any man that loves his mother is going to treat any women with the respect he has for his mum.

ChristyThreads: 6 Posts: 17 Joined: Mar 27, 07 ♀	Oct 26, 10, 01:59 #11
Aww Im very happy for you :)

A JThreads: 19 Posts: 4,639 Joined: May 21, 10 ♂	Oct 26, 10, 02:13 #12
Atosha: He was a gentleman and never tried to touch me, we only cuddled whilst watching the dvd. Boring! ;P

AtoshaThreads: 5 Posts: 63 Joined: Oct 19, 10 ♀	Oct 26, 10, 07:55 #13
A J: Boring! He may be boring to you but a lot of us women don't like it when a man tires to get his leg over on the first date as you never see them again.

Karl1983Threads: 6 Posts: 59 Joined: Feb 28, 10 ♂	Oct 26, 10, 08:38 #14
Atosha: sweet chilli chicken wings There's a surprise

AtoshaThreads: 5 Posts: 63 Joined: Oct 19, 10 ♀	Oct 26, 10, 18:52 #15
Karl1983: There's a surprise What do you mean? I love cooking and washing his clothes for him, it's the least I can do as he treats me very well.

denise12Threads: 1 Posts: 4 Joined: Dec 29, 11 ♀	Dec 29, 11, 23:22 #16
oh i know this was long ago. I hope all is well.....

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