natasia: Polish men are more real than English men. They are more in touch with who they are. They are more open emotionally. They are stronger. They have a stronger and more confident (totally confident, usually) vision of what it is to be a man, and what to be a woman. This comes with the baggage of what might be construed as sexist tendencies by a liberal English girl, but a lot of that liberality is nonsense, and only ends in tears. Polish men are like Yorkshire men. They are Northerners rather than Southerners. Sorry to say that, and no offence meant, but there is quite a range of men in the UK, whereas there are only two or three types in Poland, and all of them the same in some ways. English men are generally either a bit mean, or a bit pathetic. Quite a lot of them aren't quite sure how they are allowed to be a man nowadays. Poles don't have any such issues. And they are great fun. But I must say that it isn't the fault of English men ... it is the fault of our dithering, eminently reasonable, totally permissive society ... we have gone a long way to emasculating our men. They tend generally to have a great time with Poles, and feel a lot better about themselves - English men are happier in a 'real man' environment, eg, with Poles. As for the best guy to be with ... your Pole probably won't wash up that much, most likely really never ever will wash and iron, but he will hug you all night and make you feel alive. And make you laugh. Not far off perfect.
Yawn..My fella is all man has a professional job works hard, can cook and clean and iron...Now that's what I call perfect!
As for English men becoming real when they're with Poles..have you ever worked in a pub? Get a group of men together and they go all alpha male regardless of what nationality they are!!
Men have not become emasculated, they have evolved, same as they're not whacking us over the head and dragging us into caves (that would be considered rape these days btw)...Soiety changes and so do we.
Now let me guess, you are dating a Polish man?
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