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Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her


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Lobo  May 4, 07, 17:35    #121
Yes, I agree a bit of knowledge of Poland can be a good conversation starter. But don't dwell on it for too long as you might spoil the effect...
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Joined: Dec 23, 06 ♀ 		 May 4, 07, 17:39    #122
Quoting: Ken Noddy
Thats the thing, when I spoke to this girl today, she seemed totally unfazed by everything I said, totally confident and a bit cold. She didn't seem nervous at all and that is why I have the feeling that she is not keen on me.


Did she ever notice you before? The nervousness wouldn't come along until after she has met you and has decided she likes you. Sometimes that doesn't happen right away. As you said, women find it easier to talk to men they don't have feelings for but that changes when they do develop feelings.
southern  May 4, 07, 17:40    #123
It depends.if she comes from province Poland,like a small town she may like you know about Poland.If she comes from a big town she may find it a bit weird.Generally they like you know their country because other people do not take Poland seriously as a country.
I agree western men are suckers and have spoiled western women into feminism.To discover feminity sb has to travel to eastern Europe.
How does your girlfriend look?Typical polish,blond,175 cm or taller with gorgeous breast?
They are so many like this in Poland,I think many people are angry they were born in another country.
Lobo  May 4, 07, 17:41    #124
Ken, juat for my understanding of this. On a conventional good looks scale of 1 to 10 what number would you say she is?
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Joined: Dec 23, 06 ♀ 		 May 4, 07, 17:42    #125
I think they want to see a picture of her. :)
Lobo  May 4, 07, 17:43    #126
No, just a number...
southern  May 4, 07, 17:45    #127
By US,UK or polish standards?Because a 9 in UK is a 7 in Poland.
Lobo  May 4, 07, 17:48    #128
It is true that if a woman was born in a place where she looks ordinary she might not be that spoilt in spite of her good looks. However, since she got to Northern Ireland, you have to assume she has been out on the Saturday night and by now whe know precisely how the locals rate her... Women are extremely good at this. And she has either started playing with some of the locals or will soon start. This is the assumption you have to make. Nothing wrong here mate, just the game of life.
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Joined: Apr 30, 07 ♂ 		 May 4, 07, 17:48    #129
Quoting: Lobo
Ken, juat for my understanding of this. On a conventional good looks scale of 1 to 10 what number would you say she is?


Ummm, its a tricky one, probably about a six or seven, I mean, nobody else in work has commented on her so I guess she isn't stunning in a conventional way. She has dark/reddish hair which I prefer and has a very slim, toned body. She carries herself with such elegance.
Lobo  May 4, 07, 17:50    #130
If she is in her twenties and you rate her a 9, she will have company... a lot of company!
Lobo  May 4, 07, 17:51    #131
Ah, 6 or 7. There is still salvation for you. Make your move quick and you have a chance!
southern  May 4, 07, 17:52    #132
He says about 6-7.I think there are good chances.Maybe she does not even have a boyfriend.I never saw in Poland an average or below average looking girl have a polish boyfriend.
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Joined: Apr 30, 07 ♂ 		 May 4, 07, 17:52    #133
Quoting: Lobo
If she is in her twenties and you rate her a 9, she will have company... a lot of company!


I understand, as you said earlier she will probably be snapped up by a more experienced fella. It's good to prepare for the worst, while still hoping for the best.
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Joined: Apr 30, 07 ♂ 		 May 4, 07, 17:56    #134
Quoting: Lobo
Ah, 6 or 7. There is still salvation for you. Make your move quick and you have a chance!


I wouldn't rely on my rating too much, I'm not good at making those sort of judgments, obviously to me she is 10. I'm sort of guessing others views. I do know that a blonde would get more attention so you never know.
Lobo  May 4, 07, 17:57    #135
Yes, make your move. Just imagine her as an ugly co-worker and talk to her in an enthusiastic way. Invite her out. Use the aforementioned Trident technique as a start.
Then move on and be persistent, would that meet your approval female lobo?
Lobo  May 4, 07, 17:59    #136
Sorry SheWolf
southern  May 4, 07, 18:01    #137
Ken Noddy you value yourself very low.Men who get the women are not the best looking ones but the ones with confidence.You should think yourself of superior to her as to every woman.
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Joined: Apr 30, 07 ♂ 		 May 4, 07, 18:01    #138
Quoting: Lobo
Yes, make your move.


I'll give it a go. Thanks for boosting my confidence. I've got to sign off for now, will let you know how things go over the weekend.
Talk to you then.
Lobo  May 4, 07, 18:03    #139
Good luck
southern  May 4, 07, 18:05    #140
It is no surprise the jerks get all the hot women.(polish are not an exception).
Lobo  May 4, 07, 18:05    #141
Getting the girl, is of course only the first step... the real problem is maintaining the relationship, specially if she is also an alpha female. Then it is all very umpredictable as love is a very misterious thing tha can never arrive even when spend a long time having an intimate relationship together... bether not tell this to Ken yet...
Lobo  May 4, 07, 18:08    #142
After all, recently, a lot of girls like to sleep with their men friends... and that can break a novice's heart in half quicker than anything I know...
southern  May 4, 07, 18:09    #143
Maintaining the relationship needs skills beyond average.Most positive elements are lost as the time goes by and the magic of the first moments fades away.
southern  May 4, 07, 18:10    #144
Chicks are totally unreliable.We need multi translators and iron nerves.
Lobo  May 4, 07, 18:16    #145
They become more reliable as they get older into their late thirties... for logical game theory reasons...
southern  May 4, 07, 18:20    #146
Yes but then they become very emotional,they cry and blame all men.
Lobo  May 4, 07, 18:21    #147
Then it is a judgement that you make. Keep or go back to the deck...
Lobo  May 4, 07, 18:23    #148
In any case it is unwise to only play with one deck...
southern  May 4, 07, 18:24    #149
I found women in their thirties more reliable,better related to men(more educated to men presence) but a little less funny,very serious and more bitter.
Lobo  May 4, 07, 18:33    #150
Yes, I could not agree more. You are always playing the freshness of the younger women with their spontaneity versus the more knowledge and higher emotional stability of the older woman. There is no right or wrong answer to this question. My particular answer is to try to sample what you can and see if you can find a great girl that you can live with and have a nice life with… but it is not difficult. The arrival of a lot of countries to the EU like Poland, Latvia, etc with a lot of internal immigration to the UK, etc, just made things much more interesting but also more difficult as new standards were somehow created and eyes were opened. It is quite difficult now to close them.
I had a conversation with an old friend of mine in Germany a few months ago and she complained bitterly that all German man want to go out with Russian, Polish, etc women, and German women are not happy. Hey, it is not their fault if these new entrants are tall, elegant, dress to kill, and incredible polite and nice and (let’s face it) are not difficult to bed…

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