she has everthing but say i do nothing for her

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Mar 2, 10, 11:06 #1

she lives with me get 400 a month no bills to pay had polish tv put in house she also has a car to drive i pay the insurance and tax taken on holiday twice to spain i payed for she dumped me at christmas because i wouldnt buy her a engagment ring took all her stuff from house sent back to mum and dads came back to me just with one case all her stuff still in poland now sex is being used as a weapon .do you think am a doormat?

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 11:12 #2
With the money you pay I have four Polki.

VarsovianThreads: 91 Posts: 568 Joined: Nov 23, 06 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 11:37 #3
Err - you pay, she provides or doesn't. Are you ready for a meaningful relationship? You know, one including love?

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 13:45 #4
They don't appreciate anything generally so don't give them anything. They actually expect things but you have to work to get things in life. Do nothing, be a jerk and let her work on the relationship if she decides to come back. All the luxuries are to be cut out. Fancy meals, flowers and other bits&bobs. You've been had but hopefully you've learned sth. You have to be cruel to be kind!

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 13:49 #5
Seanus you are a real knight.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 13:49 #6
A real knight, what do you mean?

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 13:52 #7
I mean a real knight for men's cause.Or the prince in the white Mercedes women dream of.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 13:52 #8
How did you reach that conclusion?

MareGaeaThreads: 45 Posts: 5,527 Joined: Feb 6, 08 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 13:54 #9
Drugs. >^..^< M-G (nah)

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Edited by: SeanBM Mar 2, 10, 13:54 #10

I know I should stay away from these relationship threads but feck it any ways.

All you have told us is about the material wealth you give to her and that she uses sex as a weapon. Nothing about the spiritual side of your relationship.
So either you are living with a prostitute or you are treating her like one.
Either way dump her and move on if you are not happy with your relationship.

And as for the doormat comment, you got yourself in to this relationship by choice and it is your choice to continue it or not, so if you want to be a victim sure but you always have the choice, whether you can see it or not is another thing.

TrevekThreads: 33 Posts: 2,155 Joined: May 21, 08 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 13:58 #11
Seanus: A real knight, what do you mean? You know how to tame the dragons! In answer to the OP, obviously we have only your side of the story but based on that, YES! Start letting her pay for the car, then she'll moan.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 14:07 #12
Oh yeah, for sure :) I don't let people off with boorish conduct or unreciprocated good deeds. You say thank you and don't use the imperative without please. She is just an emotional dud looking to hack out by the seems of it.

MatowyThreads: 1 Posts: 519 Joined: Jul 4, 09 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 14:10 #13
master: do you think am a doormat? Please, you know the answer to this already. Why ask complete strangers to validate what you already know?

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 14:14 #14
Master the leash is on your neck.

skysoulmateThreads: 41 Posts: 3,039 Joined: Jan 10, 10 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 15:27 #15
Trevek: ...Start letting her pay for the car, then she'll moan. That's funny! :) Master, maybe you need a dominatrix in your life? LOL Seriously though, it sounds like you guys didn't communicate very well. Not sure if it's too late but talking things out will at least help you get some closure so you can move on. Good luck to you both.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 15:27 #16
You can teach her appreciation. Trust me, it works, albeit in small doses ;) You can't let such things slide. A relationship is about give&take, not only take.

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 16:09 #17
Yes,you could tell her no BJ's no car.

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Mar 2, 10, 16:16 #18

This guys thread history says a lot:

* she has everthing but say i do nothing for her
* i got a computer for christmas
* i got a computer for christmas
* my polish girlfriend says engagment ring too cheap
* Are Polish women too controlling?
* My Polish girlfriend checks my mobile phone all the time
* Are Polish girls forced to marry by their parents?
* Polish girlfriend going back to Poland if I dont buy engagment ring
* What do Polish girls think of English girls?
* How do Polish men treat their women ?

master, just dump your girlfriend already. Or would you prefer to link her here and have us do it for you?

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 16:18 #19
If he is a master his girlfriend is a GASPAZA.

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Mar 2, 10, 16:33 #20

master:

do you think am a doormat?

Is the Pope still Catholic?

Gentlemen,the western world is going through a phase where women have been told that they are "empowered" and that they can do anything they want to do with almost no consequences; and the courts bear that out.

Stop acting like some mangina, stiffen your backbone, think clearly and allow your balls to swing freely. The fact is; women need men much more than men need women. Have fun reading life after men, after women: While it contains humor the truth is profound.
http://bobstruth.blogspot.com/2010/01/life-after-women.html

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Edited by: Amanda91 Mar 2, 10, 16:45 #21

master:

she lives with me get 400 a month no bills to pay had polish tv put in house she also has a car to drive i pay the insurance and tax taken on holiday twice to spain i payed for she dumped me at christmas because i wouldnt buy her a engagment ring took all her stuff from house sent back to mum and dads came back to me just with one case all her stuff still in poland now sex is being used as a weapon .do you think am a doormat?

C'mon be honest with us, tell us that this is some made up story.
It's hard to believe that someone would really bring it up on a public forum. Why would you do it? No one here will really help you. Quite the opposite, there are so many jerks around here who will start making jokes out of it and I don't believe that this is the kind of "help" a person in your situation (if it's true) expects.

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Mar 2, 10, 18:40 #22

master:

she lives with me get 400 a month no bills to pay had polish tv put in house she also has a car to drive i pay the insurance and tax taken on holiday twice to spain i payed for she dumped me at christmas because i wouldnt buy her a engagment ring took all her stuff from house sent back to mum and dads came back to me just with one case all her stuff still in poland now sex is being used as a weapon .do you think am a doormat?

Why not buy her the engagement ring, that'll be so much easier for her to transport back to Poland when she tires of you...

szkotja2007Threads: 38 Posts: 2,544 Joined: Dec 29, 06 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 19:12 #23
master: master You need to call Butch Coolidge......

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 19:18 #24
He is so dump he will call Marcellus instead.

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Edited by: JustysiaS Mar 2, 10, 19:31 #25

Ah so you didn't buy her that engagement ring in the end, i remember your old thread! You still indulging in this controlling, draining relationship? Is there something wrong with you, seriously? The girl is milking you dry and you still can't accept that this is really not going anywhere... Like others said you are in this sh*t because of your own choice and methinks you should cut off this leech as soon as and let her sponge off someone else cos DAMN she seems good at it! You want to marry IT? Will you let her bully you into proposing to her? For the sake of what, a few shags? Surely in this day and age sex is easy enough to get for a willing, and by the sounds of it quite well off guy as yourself, so why support this wench? It looks like a hooker every now and again would work out cheaper for you. She only uses sex as a weapon because you let her, and she only treats you like a doormat BECAUSE YOU LET HER do i need to shout? Stop being a fanny and get rid, this is not love.

szarlotkaThreads: 14 Posts: 3,349 Joined: Feb 20, 07 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 19:58 #26
It's high time you woke up one day and decided that you WILL do something for her. Drive up to the Scottish Highlands on the promise of a romantic break and when you get to the back o' beyond open up the passenger door, push her out and drive off. Then move house. The money you have saved on a sparkly ring can be wisely invested elsewhere.

espanaThreads: 40 Posts: 2,233 Joined: Feb 28, 07 ♂	Edited by: espana Mar 2, 10, 20:26 #27
master: now sex is being used as a weapon . dump her and visit more the red light area , it will cost you the same as her

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 21:06 #28
espana: and visit more the red light area He might be in for a shock when he finds her there.

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Edited by: space_rebel Mar 2, 10, 22:10 #29

JustysiaS:

Ah so you didn't buy her that engagement ring in the end, i remember your old thread! You still indulging in this controlling, draining relationship? Is there something wrong with you, seriously? The girl is milking you dry and you still can't accept that this is really not going anywhere... Like others said you are in this sh*t because of your own choice and methinks you should cut off this leech as soon as and let her sponge off someone else cos DAMN she seems good at it! You want to marry IT? Will you let her bully you into proposing to her? For the sake of what, a few shags? Surely in this day and age sex is easy enough to get for a willing, and by the sounds of it quite well off guy as yourself, so why support this wench? It looks like a hooker every now and again would work out cheaper for you. She only uses sex as a weapon because you let her, and she only treats you like a doormat BECAUSE YOU LET HER do i need to shout? Stop being a fanny and get rid, this is not love.

They still haven't asked you for the dr. Phil show? :P

master:

he lives with me get 400 a month no bills to pay had polish tv put in house she also has a car to drive i pay the insurance and tax taken on holiday twice to spain i payed for she dumped me at christmas because i wouldnt buy her a engagment ring took all her stuff from house sent back to mum and dads came back to me just with one case all her stuff still in poland now sex is being used as a weapon .do you think am a doormat?

There's one word for you to say to her: aufwiderschnitzel! Until-never-seeing-you-again! :D

TymoteuszThreads: 7 Posts: 694 Joined: Jul 25, 09 ♂	Mar 2, 10, 22:49 #30
Sell her to Gypsies.

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