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karaThreads: 1
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Joined: Oct 20, 11 ♂ 		 Oct 20, 11, 21:59    #1
hi
i am a kurdish man who married with polish women.we are together 8 years.we have 4 years old son.but we have a problem about ex relations. we were talking about past i asked questions to her about her life before me.she told me that she kissed a few boys in the club but only kiss(never tuching or sex...etc)she says she just wanted have boyfriend all life but because of she was a bit fat she couldnt have any boyfriend ever.she says whenever she was going out with friends she was feeling bad that she had nobody who loves her,who care about her.i am making big problem and jealous of her that she kissed a few boys before marry.i would like to aske you that is it really normal in poland to kiss boys before marry?i cant sleep or work because of this feeling and even i am thinking about divorce sometime.i love her but when i remember that she was kissing before me i dont even want to tuch her.please help me i need your advice.is kiss big problem or is it normal to kiss when you meet with people in the same day?she say she never made any mistake even before me.she didnt have sex or any sexual things and she wanted keep herself for special person who ll be her husband.
thanks for your advice and understanding
mafketisThreads: 17
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Joined: Mar 31, 08 ♂ 		Edited by: mafketis  Oct 20, 11, 22:03    #2
kara:
i would like to aske you that is it really normal in poland to kiss boys before marry?


It is completely normal in Poland. It is not normal to be so jealous of people she knew before you that you want a divorce.

A divorce would not be good for your son. Is your jealousy so strong that you want to hurt your son?

Get over being jealous. It will only hurt you and the people you love.
irishguy11Threads: 14
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Joined: Sep 3, 11 ♂ 		 Oct 20, 11, 22:04    #3
is this just another troll? You say you are kurdish, how did you meet Polish girl? If you fell like divorce because of your wife kissing a boy before she met you, you need to toughen up a bit. It seems that you are more sensitive than a girl. Did you ever kiss anyone before you married.

Why did you marry someone who is from a different culture, surly you must know that European women are not the same as kurd's
beckskiThreads: 19
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kara:
i cant sleep or work because of this feeling and even i am thinking about divorce sometime


You're being ridiculous! Have you confessed about how many women you slept with, before meeting her?

A sincere thanks PF, for putting up with me FIVE terrific years, muah!
pawianThreads: 90
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=irishguy11]is this just another troll?

That is obvious, isn`t it?

Sooner or later this troll will discuss the dirty promiscuity of Polish women.
mafketisThreads: 17
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Joined: Mar 31, 08 ♂ 		 Oct 20, 11, 22:08    #6
irishguy11:
is this just another troll?


Possibly. I chose to answer seriously, just in case. And he's in London, which is not really part of any country. There are both Poles and Kurds (and weigh?) there.
RevokeNiceThreads: 21
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HAHAHAHAHA! Funny sh@t.
karaThreads: 1
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Joined: Oct 20, 11 ♂ 		 Oct 20, 11, 22:37    #8
thanks for your comments :) but i am not asking you to judge me just advice.please be understanding.put yourself in this stuation and tell me what do you think pls .
cheers
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Joined: Jul 27, 11 ♂ 		 Oct 20, 11, 22:39    #9
kara:
she told me that she kissed a few boys in the club but only kiss(never tuching or sex...etc)she says she just wanted have boyfriend all life but because of she was a bit fat she couldnt have any boyfriend ever. she say she never made any mistake even before me.she didnt have sex or any sexual things and she wanted keep herself for special person who ll be her husband.


Lol, and you believed all this?? :)

This has got to be a troll.

beckski:
You're being ridiculous! Have you confessed about how many women you slept with, before meeting her?


This.

But remember, he's a Kurd - that sort of thing only works one way ;) He can do whatever HE likes, but SHE has to do what he says; it always works like that with these insecure types.
WroclawThreads: 77
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kara:
i love her but when i remember that she was kissing before me i dont even want to tuch her.please help me i need your advice


u need to understand that there is a difference in culture and this difference is not reason for divorce.

can u stand before God and say u were pure up to the point off marriage. i doubt it.

whatever happened in the past should stay there. don't ask your wife questions, if an answer might result in tears.
SeanusThreads: 22
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Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂ 		 Oct 20, 11, 23:35    #11
Submit it to an agony aunt column, I'm sure they'll get a chortle out of it :)
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kara:
i would like to aske you that is it really normal in poland to kiss boys before marry?


yes it is normal - oh man didn't you want to touch and kiss a girls as a teenager?
IronsideThreads: 59
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He is a man and he ask about kissing boys before marriage ?
WTF?

PF time for change....
SeanusThreads: 22
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I agree. His neurons misfired badly
modafinilThreads: -
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You must remember this: a kiss is just a kiss. The fundamental things apply as time goes by.
If you divorce, you'll regret it. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but soon and for the rest of your life.
carrie65Threads: 2
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Joined: Sep 15, 11 ♀ 		 Oct 21, 11, 02:09    #16
Kissing the opposite sex before marriage is perfectly normal for all but the most sexually strict and most secluded societies. In the catholic religion kissing is not taboo or frowned upon. You are very lucky that you have found a lady who had the moral values and strength of character to remain a virgin until she was married, can't be an easy option in a fairly sexually liberal society such as Poland. Stop worrying about a few kisses that happened a long time ago, lots of women, of all religions have sex before marriage, you have a wife who has saved herself for the man she loves, you need to prove that you are worthy of her love and the gift she has given you!!!!!
WulkanThreads: 1
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Joined: Dec 28, 07 ♂ 		 Oct 21, 11, 02:25    #17
I can not belive how many ppl fell for this troll, this forum is really going down...

kara:
is it wrong to kiss boys before marry?


kissing before marry is not normal at all but with all your confidence you can tell her how many goats you have banged before marring her cause like in kurdistan it is normal in poland.
Knee Grow  Oct 21, 11, 02:52    #18
kara:
.she told me that she kissed a few boys in the club but only kiss(

Seriously man was that kiss on the cheek? forhead? neck with a hicki mark? whatsoever so what anyway? how many have you kissed forget got laid with dude its europe not middleast,you dont come to to western land with a burka for your would be wife and throw stones if she kissed someone before you got married to her for some apparent reasons?
aldoThreads: 2
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Joined: Aug 24, 11 ♂ 		 Oct 21, 11, 03:03    #19
kara:
i cant sleep or work because of this feeling and even i am thinking about divorce sometime.

please don't even think about a divorce she were honest with you and it's normal in Poland so please forgive her and carry on your lovely life i m in relationship with a polish girl and she told me everything about her past and i accepted , we are human being we do mistakes in our life and we must be forgiven.
wish you all the best my friend
peace and love
MeatheadThreads: 3
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Seanus:
Submit it to an agony aunt column,


This is the agony aunt column
michaelduncreekThreads: -
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Joined: Oct 18, 11 ♂ 		 Oct 21, 11, 07:15    #21
Polish women like to ****. Kissing comes next.
southernThreads: 116
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michaelduncreek:
Polish women like to ****. Kissing comes next.


It is true they never kiss on the first date.
samchrisThreads: 1
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Joined: Aug 11, 11 ♂ 		 Oct 21, 11, 11:53    #23
She kissed him also to some other parts of his body...is this good reason for getting divorced?Probably you got your passport and you are searching for stupid reasons to move out and have fun in other countries!!!
Before her did you kiss other girls?For sure yes...and not only kiss but also F**k them!!!
NatasaThreads: 7
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Joined: Jun 6, 10  Pictures: 2  Gold Member MEMBER ♀ 		Edited by: Natasa  Oct 21, 11, 11:57    #24
Of course it is The Reason for divorce. SHe was touched. She is filthy now. Unclean better. Filthy she would be if she touched him for his big, pulsing manhood while she was kissing him.

stop the earth i want to get off
Sidliste_ChodovThreads: 2
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Joined: Jul 27, 11 ♂ 		Edited by: Sidliste_Chodov  Oct 21, 11, 12:59    #25
southern:
It is true they never kiss on the first date.


But that's because you only go with Polish prostitutes.

Every Polish woman I've dated has kissed on a first date. Come to think of it, so has every woman I've ever dated - except a Jewish one.

Natasa:
big


Are you sure about this one? lol :D
NatasaThreads: 7
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Joined: Jun 6, 10  Pictures: 2  Gold Member MEMBER ♀ 		 Oct 21, 11, 13:06    #26
Sidliste_Chodov:
It is true they never kiss on the first date.

............. Polish prostitutes.

Every Polish woman I've dated has kissed on a first date


Typical, those damn prostitutes set high standards one ordinary women can't reach. Now they don't kiss on the first date, what is next, no videotaping on second?

stop the earth i want to get off
Sidliste_ChodovThreads: 2
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Natasa:
videotaping


Probably my biggest fantasy lol :D
NatasaThreads: 7
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Joined: Jun 6, 10  Pictures: 2  Gold Member MEMBER ♀ 		 Oct 21, 11, 13:15    #28
It was mine too :))))(just joking, just joking, big mistake, big mistake, hahaha)

stop the earth i want to get off
southernThreads: 116
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		 Oct 21, 11, 13:19    #29
I have done several videotapes with Polki some spicy but some very hardcore.
Sidliste_ChodovThreads: 2
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Joined: Jul 27, 11 ♂ 		Edited by: Sidliste_Chodov  Oct 21, 11, 13:19    #30
Natasa:
It was mine too :))))(just joking, just joking, big mistake, big mistake, hahaha)


hahahaha!!! :D

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