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Long distance love with a Polish girl from Facebook

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Jul 22, 10, 22:11 #1

I have been friends on Facebook with a polish girl for over a year now. No romance online or anything, just got on as friends and had very similar humour. I'm 36 Agnieszka is 37. She lives in Germany now as a horse trainer so has quite a good job and gets to travel around europe to different horse racing events. Anyway, she came over 2 weeks ago, we met and spent the weekend together and after a really fun time day and night ;-P I told her before she left that I think I love her and just needed to tell her before she went.

As soon as she got back she was telling me the same and we now feel that we are in love. She's coming over again next weekend and we will see how it goes. The problem is the distance. How do you keep a relationship going from overseas? Who should move where? When should one of us move? I know it's very early days but when you only get 40 hours with someone you love every 3-6 weeks then something drastic has to happen doesn't it? Neither of us have felt like this about anyone before and the distance is killing us :-(

She's back in 8 days :-D

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Jul 22, 10, 22:17 #2

Your heart must be strong. Strong like an otter.

No, seriously. Long-distance relationships suck. They survive on constant contact (chatting online always, texts, etc.) Have a goal to work towards (i.e. I will move to Germany in X amount of time after I finish Y. Or, she says "Once I train all my horses, I will come back to you.) Otherwise, start trying to hit some other tail.

Cool story, bro.

aphrodisiacThreads: 22 Posts: 3,998 Joined: Apr 15, 09 ♀	Jul 22, 10, 22:22 #3
Germany and the UK is not that far away, so hold your horses, develop the relationship first and then worry about it.

king polkakamonThreads: 1 Posts: 1,018 Joined: Dec 30, 09 ♂	Jul 22, 10, 22:29 #4
monstermuncher: She lives in Germany now as a horse trainer Germany and horse trainer?I guess you will be inadequate.

trevnessThreads: 1 Posts: 17 Joined: Jul 25, 10 ♂	Jul 25, 10, 17:34 #5
Hi .For the first year my friend and I kept in touch by internet and by phone now she lives in England and we are still in love with each other. so long distance love does work . Hope everything goes well for you .

beckskiThreads: 19 Posts: 2,148 Joined: May 15, 07 MEMBER ♀	Jul 25, 10, 19:16 #6
monstermuncher: Long distance love Ask Wildrover for his opinion. He has a Russian long-distance lover... A sincere thanks PF, for putting up with me FIVE terrific years, muah!

Lucyna67	Jul 25, 10, 20:26 #7
A lot of people fail at keeping a long distance realtionship for a long time. But there are factors which help to maintainin a long distance relationship and those couples already have a well developed relationship, they know eachother enough to trust one another.

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER ♀	Jul 25, 10, 20:27 #8
Lucyna67: But there are factors which help to maintainin a long distance relationship such as?

AmathystThreads: 30 Posts: 3,968 Joined: Nov 10, 06 ♀	Jul 25, 10, 20:31 #9
As you know we're a bunch of horsey loving people in the UK..lots of stables and riding schools here..So its just as likely she could move to the UK...

Lucyna67	Jul 25, 10, 20:47 #10
pgtx: such as? Trust for one thing. If he knows his girlfriend well and that she loves him, than he should be able to trust her. Being positive, honest, and trusting eachother that the actions you make are for good intentions and not to make things worse between two.

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER ♀	Jul 25, 10, 20:54 #11
Lucyna67: If he knows his girlfriend well how well people can know each other while living so far away with no eye-to-eye contact?

A JThreads: 19 Posts: 4,639 Joined: May 21, 10 ♂	Jul 25, 10, 21:02 #12
pgtx: how well people can know each other while living so far away with no eye-to-eye contact? What if your husband wears sunglasses all day? ;)

Lucyna67	Jul 25, 10, 21:37 #13
pgtx: how well people can know each other while living so far away with no eye-to-eye contact? as I said before, Lucyna67: A lot of people fail at keeping a long distance realtionship for a long time. A J: What if your husband wears sunglasses all day? Hide sunglasses smewhere he would never dare to look, then have some real time for eye to eye bonding. :-)

A JThreads: 19 Posts: 4,639 Joined: May 21, 10 ♂	Jul 25, 10, 21:44 #14
Lucyna67: Hide sunglasses smewhere he would never dare to look, then have some real time for eye to eye bonding. :-) Well, if eyes are the mirror of the soul, then I guess I should welcome her to hell if she wants to gaze into mine. ;P

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07 ♂	Jul 25, 10, 22:27 #15
beckski: Ask Wildrover for his opinion. He has a Russian long-distance lover... Its working just fine...we had a great hoilday in Kiev....now i am packing my stuff in boxes...and moving to Russia... we marry this year hopefully... its not easy....but if its really love..it can work just fine...

guzzlerThreads: 6 Posts: 165 Joined: Mar 28, 10 ♂	Jul 25, 10, 23:06 #16
wildrover: we marry this year hopefully... Congratulations wildrover, I wish you and your intended a happy life together.

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07 ♂	Jul 25, 10, 23:24 #17
Thanks very much.....our home next summer will be a house by the side of Lake Plescheevo...140 kms north west of Moscow..... Any Polishforum peeps passing that way will be welcome....as long as they bring some beans....

THE HITMANThreads: 1 Posts: 416 Joined: Jun 15, 10 ♂	Jul 25, 10, 23:46 #18
wildrover: Any Polishforum peeps passing that way will be welcome....as long as they bring some beans.... CHRIST!! you move quick. Hope you,re not giving up on PL totally. But if it,s love, then go for it, you only live once........ I think!! Good luck from me anyway. Maybe we,ll bump into eachother before you go ?

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07 ♂	Edited by: wildrover Jul 26, 10, 00:34 #19
THE HITMAN: Maybe we,ll bump into eachother before you go ? Well..i intend to have one humdinger of a party here before i go....This is not going to happen in any rush...the documents needed to marry and live in Moscow are legendary...but we are working on it... Love to have a beer or three with yer before i go east...!

monstermuncherThreads: 1 Posts: 1 Joined: Jul 22, 10 ♂	Aug 21, 10, 21:23 #20
Wow!! Thanks for all the comments. We are still together and she's coming to see me in 3 more sleeps :-D only for a day though :-(

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