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AtoshaThreads: 5
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Joined: Oct 19, 10  Pictures: 4 ♀ 		 Oct 26, 10, 22:16    #1
My new bf said that he had to wait for 1 1/2 years before his ex girlfriend allowed him to sleep with her and I nearly had a heart attack as the longest I have every waited was 6 months.

Will he think bad of me if I want to take things further within 3 months? god knows I am praying hard now to keep my hands to myself.
pgtxThreads: 49
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Atosha:
My new bf said that he had to wait for 1 1/2 years before his ex girlfriend allowed him to sleep with her and I nearly had a heart attack as the longest I have every waited was 6 months.

if you both want to do it, just do it... stop worrying about some stupid peoples ideas of well behaving...
aaa  Oct 26, 10, 23:11    #3
1,5 years... lol, omg :D Seems he was a virgin and was affraid.
A JThreads: 19
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Joined: May 21, 10 ♂ 		 Oct 26, 10, 23:21    #4
pgtx:
if you both want to do it, just do it... stop worrying about some stupid peoples ideas of well behaving...


I agree with this. I mean, what is supposed to be normal in a society where individuality is alive and kicking?

:)
AtoshaThreads: 5
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Joined: Oct 19, 10  Pictures: 4 ♀ 		 Oct 26, 10, 23:26    #5
I just don't understand why he told tell me that though? Was he hinting that I should slow down?

I'm not being funny but I was single for 4 years and the first guy that has took my fancy and I feel I can trust has told me this, wtf.
espanaThreads: 40
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Atosha:
How long should I make him wait for the goodies?

one day .
Kario9  Oct 26, 10, 23:38    #7
When both are ready, just do it. Don't play too hard to get...
warszawskiThreads: 60
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Joined: May 21, 10 ♂ 		 Oct 26, 10, 23:43    #8
Atosha:
My new bf said that he had to wait for 1 1/2 years before his ex girlfriend allowed him to sleep with her


Maybe that is why it is his ex girlfriend, he could have just been telling you that he is not prepared to wait that long again, so it could be time to party.
dtaylor5632Threads: 49
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Here's some music just to get you two going;) :D
A JThreads: 19
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dtaylor5632:
Here's some music just to get you two going;) :D


PIMP!

xD
SeanBMThreads: 41
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Joined: Mar 10, 08 ♂ 		 Oct 26, 10, 23:47    #11
Atosha:
How long should I make him wait for the goodies?

Until you are married.
dtaylor5632Threads: 49
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A J:
PIMP!

Don't try to turn this on me, I am not part of your business of selling sex via hottie Dutch girls! (though that does not mean that I wouldn't use your service.....No no bad David!!!) purrrrrrr Dutch girls lol!
SeanBM:
Until you are married.

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
You can't marry someone when you haven't "means tested" it yet ;)
A JThreads: 19
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dtaylor5632:
Don't try to turn this on me, I am not part of your business of selling sex via hottie Dutch girls! (though that does not mean that I wouldn't use your service.....No no bad David!!!) purrrrrrr Dutch girls lol!


She was for free, but you idiots turned down her offer. (Feel dumb now??)

;P

dtaylor5632:
You can't marry someone when you haven't "means tested" it yet ;)


Are you serious? Don't you believe in love at first sight and instant marriage?

xD
SeanBMThreads: 41
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Joined: Mar 10, 08 ♂ 		Edited by: SeanBM  Oct 27, 10, 00:02    #14
After up to three years of courting, he should propose to you and on your wedding night you can share yourselves in order to bear an heir.
A JThreads: 19
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Joined: May 21, 10 ♂ 		 Oct 27, 10, 00:06    #15
SeanBM:
After up to three years of courting, he should propose to you and on your wedding night you can share yourselves in order to bear an heir.


Which will be brought to you the next morning, by the stork, sponsored by Tyskie, of course.

:)
dtaylor5632Threads: 49
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A J:
(Feel dumb now??

Not really, she had crabs...I really think you must dip them in some kind of sheep disinfectant pool :D
A J:
Are you serious? Don't you believe in love at first sight and instant marriage?

Britney Spears ruined it for me :(
SeanBM:
After up to three years of courting, he should propose to you and on your wedding night you can share yourselves in order to bear an heir.

What if he can't get it up? No woman wants to find that out on their wedding night :/
BarneyThreads: 16
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Joined: May 26, 08  Pictures: 3 ♂ 		 Oct 27, 10, 00:12    #17
on your wedding night

Oh god dont do what I did.

I came out of the bathroom to see the new missus spread out on the bed moaning...you know what I want she said...... all the fucckin bed by the looks of it said I.



I had to go back into the bathroom.
SeanBMThreads: 41
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Joined: Mar 10, 08 ♂ 		 Oct 27, 10, 00:15    #18
That cracked me up :)

And on that note Adiós.
A JThreads: 19
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dtaylor5632:
Not really, she had crabs...I really think you must dip them in some kind of sheep disinfectant pool :D


Nah, you're just telling yourself that so you don't have to feel dumb.

dtaylor5632:
Britney Spears ruined it for me :(


It's okay, you can cry now..

xD
BolleThreads: 3
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Atosha:
1 1/2 years

Atosha:
6 months.

Atosha:
3 months


Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you? Why are you thinking about time? Where are you getting this rubbish from, the victorian era? If you want to have sex and he wants to have sex, just fcuking DO IT! Jesus christ people, what is the big deal???
dtaylor5632Threads: 49
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Bolle:
Jesus christ people, what is the big deal???

How dare you! Sex is for the privileged only!
Marek11111Threads: 49
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Joined: Aug 6, 09  Pictures: 1 ♂ 		 Oct 27, 10, 00:33    #22
I had a policy that I got some after 3 dates if I had to wait longer I was looking for someone else in mean time, just do it , just f***ing.
AtoshaThreads: 5
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Bolle:
Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you? Why are you thinking about time?


To be honest I don't know, I just don't want him to think I am a skank comparied to the length of time he waited for his ex.

I really want him but I also want him to respect me too. Alot of men don't respect women or see them as someone they will marry if they sleep with them to quick.
Johnsson  Oct 27, 10, 01:11    #24
Atosha:
I really want him but I also want him to respect me too. Alot of men don't respect women or see them as someone they will marry if they sleep with them to quick.


But what about YOU??? Do you want to have sex with him or not? Are you 100 % sure you want to have sex with him? just answer that question and the rest is a piece of cake.
AtoshaThreads: 5
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Johnsson:
But what about YOU??? Do you want to have sex with him or not? Are you 100 % sure you want to have sex with him?


I want him bad but I don't know how to approach the situation. I know this sounds strange but his words did kind of put me of.
Johnsson  Oct 27, 10, 01:23    #26
Atosha:
I want him bad but I don't know how to approach the situation. I know this sounds strange but his words did kind of put me of.


Try to reach him in a more comfortable situation like when you guys are watching a film together or something like that. Just let it coming naturally.

Don't worry, if he really wants to do it. You will get the sign. Kissing, caressing. One thing leads to another and time will fly when you two have fun together.

Relax and trust each other :)
Marek11111Threads: 49
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Use liquid underwear remover.
alcohol
trener zolwiaThreads: 5
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Atosha:
My new bf said that he had to wait for 1 1/2 years before his ex girlfriend allowed him to sleep with her

Atosha:
I just don't want him to think I am a skank comparied to the length of time he waited for his ex.

How old are you two? Was maybe his ex also his first and they were both inexperienced? If so, it was not unusual for them to wait so long.

Atosha:
I was single for 4 years and the first guy that has took my fancy and I feel I can trust has told me this, wtf.

Understandable.

Atosha:
I just don't understand why he told tell me that though? Was he hinting that I should slow down?

Hard to tell without any context as to the conversation and how he told you this.

Atosha:
Will he think bad of me if I want to take things further within 3 months?

Atosha:
Alot of men don't respect women or see them as someone they will marry if they sleep with them to quick.

This is true. You are smart to be cautious if you think you want a future with this boy.

You seem like a nice and smart girl. Don't listen to the weirdos here. Only you can tell what he meant and how he feels and when the time will be right. Seems to me the two of you should first work on better communication then this will sort itself out.
Good luck. :)
A JThreads: 19
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Joined: May 21, 10 ♂ 		Edited by: A J  Oct 27, 10, 01:50    #29
Johnsson:
To be honest I don't know, I just don't want him to think I am a skank comparied to the length of time he waited for his ex.


Look, you can take it from me, as a guy, because that's not how our minds work.

Atosha:
I want him bad but I don't know how to approach the situation. I know this sounds strange but his words did kind of put me of.


If you really want him, and if he really likes you that much, you should invite him over, or invite yourself over, give him a beer, talk a little, relax, put on some music, cuddle, give him a kiss, move a little closer and give him *that* look. (You know what I mean, right?)

If that puts him off, then he's obviously gay.

:)

trener zolwia:
Don't listen to the weirdos here.


Says the Jehova witness who never had sex before marriage.

;P
Johnsson  Oct 27, 10, 02:02    #30
A J:
If that puts him off, then he's obviously gay.



A J:
Says the Jehova witness who never had sex before marriage.



hahahahahahhahah I love these comments! :D You rock buddy!

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