"How many sexual partners I had" - what does this question imply?

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Apr 10, 08, 22:31 #31

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So my vacation fling who was from poland asked me how many sexual partners I have had since him?

What does this mean? What is he trying to find out?

In all liklihood he is reflecting upon the relative ease with which he was able to depants you. After all, as your own testimony indicates, the tryst was a mere "vacation fling," so he realizes that, based on his experience, you do not appear to be a particularly difficult nut to crack, metaphorically speaking.

And so, by asking you that question, he is looking for validation of your promiscuity on one hand, or, alternatively, should the quantity be zero (or an acceptably minimal amount, from his perspective) he will be consoled by the "fact" that he was not hoodwinked and "used" on his vacation.

Any discharges or irregular sensations experienced by this gentleman subsequent to the vacation are of course supplemental issues, however, they are beyond the scope of this thread.

Take care, and God bless.

PolishNutjobThreads: 1 Posts: 101 Joined: Mar 9, 08 ♂	Mar 1, 10, 16:33 #32
time: Like why would someone want to know that after? Like why would someone not like just give him like the correct, honest answer and like confront the consequences of one's behavior?

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Mar 1, 10, 17:17 #33

PolishNutjob:

In all liklihood he is reflecting upon the relative ease with which he was able to depants you. After all, as your own testimony indicates, the tryst was a mere "vacation fling," so he realizes that, based on his experience, you do not appear to be a particularly difficult nut to crack, metaphorically speaking.

Some people enjoy sex. Oftentimes, this involves two consenting adults that enjoy ******* for the sake of *******, no relationship needed.

It is a strange question, just stop talking to him.

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Oct 10, 11, 16:32 #34

So my vacation fling who was from poland asked me how many sexual partners I have had since him?

What does this mean? What is he trying to find out?

It's no-one's business. Especially as everyone has their own opinion on what is acceptable, male or female.

Some guys may think a women is a slapper if she's been with lots of men, others may think it's great because they should have more experience through having done so. Likewise, some women may think it's great if you've had lots of partners (because it makes you look attractive), but others may think you're a cheat who sleeps around and won't commit.

The problem is that some may think you've "been around" if you've only have five partners, while others may think that you're a loser who can't pull (male) or hard to get into bed (female). Because you have no chance of guessing the number which offends a particular person, it's better not to ask.

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