Why does my boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business everytime we have words?

AtoshaThreads: 5 Posts: 63 Joined: Oct 19, 10 ♀	Feb 27, 11, 17:44 #31
I was brought up decent and once I give someone a gift that is what it is. I don't want anything back from him and I will learn from my mistake.

Wroclaw BoyThreads: 57 Posts: 5,478 Joined: Jul 3, 09 MEMBER ♂	Feb 27, 11, 17:47 #32
Atosha: I gave him a chance to man up so I bought him an Audi for his birthday Theres Audis and theres Audis. Atosha: She says I am not good enough for her son and it hurts me cause all I have done is love him. So shes Polish right? living in the UK with her Polish son Maciek? does his mum have issues with your colour do you think?

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Edited by: Atosha Feb 27, 11, 17:48 #33

wildrover:

Send him back to his mummy...

No need, he never left her in the first place

Theres Audis and theres Audis.
I wish I did get him that model but I actually got him the TT

Atosha: She says I am not good enough for her son and it hurts me cause all I have done is love him.
So shes Polish right? living in the UK with her Polish son Maciek?
Yes he came here first and then sent for her 3 years ago

does his mum have issues with your colour do you think?
No not at all, she is just jelous and thinks she is going to lose her son to me.
My only crime is to love him and give him a little taster of what our future could be like if we work hard together

emhaThreads: - Posts: 180 Joined: Nov 24, 10 ♂	Feb 27, 11, 19:10 #34
Atosha: I bought him an Audi Was that a matchbox ?:)

Mala Mamusia

Feb 27, 11, 23:36 #35

Atosha:

Everytime something happens he keeps saying my mum does this or my mum does that so I have to because I am his girlfriend and it really puts me off.

Atosha:

If it wasn't for him telling her all our business we would be living together and looking forward to a great future. But his mum says no he is to stay living with her until she says so[quote=Atosha]and now he has asked me if we are finished for good can he go with his mum

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Atosha, How can a girl EVER be mentally attracted to this type of a 27 year old baby? Most girls are not mentally/sexually attracted to this type of man because its NOT NORMAL.

I'm a 26 year old Girl and I WONT even go on a date with a guy who expects his mama to pay for his bills and take care of him including this romance life. This type of man is no different from a developmentally challenged (or how do I say retard in a nice way?) Therefore, HOW CAN YOU FIND SOMEONE LIKE THIS ATTRACTIVE?

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Feb 28, 11, 00:18 #36

Atosha:

He is 27 and I am reaching the end of my sweetness with him, what can I do, or say to him to save this relationship? my heart hurts so much because I love him so much, will he ever man up?

He's not going to change and neither will his mother. He proved it when you gave him a second chance and things didn't change. The only thing you're going to accomplish by staying with him is to have an even bigger broken heart than if you would have left sooner.

f stopThreads: 33 Posts: 2,861 Joined: Dec 9, 09 ♀	Feb 28, 11, 00:44 #37
A car??? You bought him an Audi as a present and you complain that he has no balls? Be carefull what you wish for girl, next guy's you want to please might aim much higher.

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Feb 28, 11, 00:56 #38

Atosha:

I feel like a fool because I gave him a chance to man up so I bought him an Audi for his birthday and I paid for us to go to the seychelles in july and now he has asked me if we are finished for good can he go with his mum on our holiday because he was looking forward to it and his mum says she would like to go.

Jesus. Where did you find this moron? Run away ASAP, girl, there's life waiting for you...

RonWestThreads: 3 Posts: 165 Joined: Jan 6, 10 ♂	Feb 28, 11, 01:07 #39
Time to find a new guy. This cat will be running to mommy telling her every little thing for the rest of her life. You'll have no privacy and you'll be miserable. Yes, he's a mommy's boy. No doubt about it. I wish you the best.

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Feb 28, 11, 02:06 #40

wildrover:

Ask him if he has sex with his mum...if he says no ,

What if he says yes? ;)

Mala Mamusia:

Therefore, HOW CAN YOU FIND SOMEONE LIKE THIS ATTRACTIVE?

Maybe he's cute.

Atosha:

and now he has asked me if we are finished for good can he go with his mum on our holiday because he was looking forward to it and his mum says she would like to go.

What? That's weird. eww. gross.

Atosha:

As for his mum she has developed and distaste for me. She says I am not good enough for her son and it hurts me cause all I have done is love him.

Maybe she wanted an Audi, too.

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Feb 28, 11, 08:26 #41

Thank you for all comments but like I said the relationship is now over.

Doesn't everyone deserve a chance in life? As some of you may not notice when you first meet someone they watch everything they say and do but once they get there foot under the table you start to see who they really are.

And as for the above comment :You was so desperate and horny that you'd f*ck anyone:
Please don't lower yourself, you may conduct yourself like that but I don't. And by the way I don't need anyone giving me anything I have my own thank you very much.

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07 ♂	Feb 28, 11, 10:58 #42
shewolf: What if he says yes? ;) Errr...well definatly run away....

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Feb 28, 11, 11:33 #43

It's about time you did some cost benefit analysis.

1. If he looks like **** and you are reasonably OK, or attractive, you should have dumped him ages ago.
2. If he is reasonably OK, or attractive, and you are not then it depends on how desperate your are.

If looks don't matter much to you than

1. You have the money he does not, and if he has no prospects for the future, you should have dumped him ages ago.

2. If he has some prospects for the future, then it depends on how long you are willing to wait.

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Edited by: Havok Feb 28, 11, 19:55 #44

I think you guys should make some popcorn tonight and watch Alfred Hitchcock's psycho.

if that fails go ahead and resort to a textbook psychology...

1)tell him that this type of behavior is unacceptable (and not normal)

2) establish unquestionable authority over him, confront his mom about this as well

Examples:
- Listen you douchebag, I’ll catch you one more time talking to your mommy about our personal business and you'll face consequences!
- Listen mommy, this is none of your focking business so back off.

3) apply the negative reinforcement in case of relapses

wash, rinse repeat

The bigger question is: Is this the type of relationship you wanna be in?

All in all, your boyfriend is a one weird pus$ycat and I hope he’s not Polish.

JaneDoeThreads: 7 Posts: 237 Joined: Sep 26, 08 ♂	Feb 28, 11, 19:59 #45
Havok: I hope he’s not Polish. Unfortunately he is.

emhaThreads: - Posts: 180 Joined: Nov 24, 10 ♂	Feb 28, 11, 20:32 #46
and now his mother has a nice car :)

shewolfThreads: 5 Posts: 1,835 Joined: Dec 23, 06 ♀	Edited by: shewolf Feb 28, 11, 23:53 #47
emha: and now his mother has a nice car :) or a chauffeur with a nice car.

joepilsudskiThreads: 44 Posts: 2,529 Joined: Apr 27, 07 ♂	Mar 1, 11, 01:23 #48
Why does my boyfriend keep telling his mum our private business every time we have words? Because he has a big yap, and can't keep it shut...And, could be mama is number 1.

123zThreads: 2 Posts: 38 Joined: May 2, 11 ♀	May 15, 11, 10:35 #49
Atosha: I feel like a fool because I gave him a chance to man up so I bought him an Audi for his birthday and I paid for us to go to the seychelles in jul You bought him an audi, goodgrief, i thought he should be the one to bought you some thing. Dont he have a job? ....And he is comparing you with his mom? your situation is not good, get out while you can, you deserve better.

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