Need help and assistance to ask polish girl out

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Jul 16, 10, 23:07 #1

Hello everybody,

well this is my first post in this forum and I have read few previous post by "Osirion" and was glad looking at the quite decent and neat replies by user.

Appreciate that

hence, I thought lets post my story and see!!!!

Same here I am Asian like "Osirion" hahaha,

I met this polish girl in the place where I work and saw here first time when I visited there.

She had a charm and politeness, which has grabbed my attention and her sweet smile (Usmiech).

Later, I found out that she doesn't know English very well and learning. Since then I started talking to her and I got the feeling for her smile and charm she has.
Later I promised her that I will help her out in learning english and I gave S/W to learn along with my email id. which she hasnt replied back to me yet [:(]

As my feeling grew for her, I become very shy in talking/communicating with her (I always had this problem of nervousness and feeling shy from girls I liked).

I have been noticing she is kind of giving attention to me saying hey, hello etc.

Some how I prepared my self to gave her compliment and said "ty masz wadhaan usmiech" (you got a pretty smile) with a big hesitation and confusion, I literally forgot what to say and how to pronounce it!!
then It took some gut and asked her word by word with expression and she said made the sentence for me without knowing the fact that I will complimenting her!

and
I replied along with expression

"ty masz wadhaan usmiech, I am giving you the compliment"
(First time ever I gave a compliment to any girl so far!! huuuuuuufff) was sweeting (thank god I am in UK, and was cool! hhahaa)

She smiled with an expression and a shyness. I was wow!!!!! :D

since then I am call her as "Usmiech" (hope she doesnt mind)

but I am worried whether she has any BF or elder to me, I dont want to spoil my relation ship as i adore her smile and make me relax.

I also read in few article that polish girl having tatoo and body piercing considered ........., not good in chraccter! that hurted me a bit as she seems to be nice person

I want to ask her out for coffee or tea.

I was wondering if some could help me on this,

how to confrm it she likes me or atleast have a feeling for me!

whether she has BF or is she elder, as she looks a bit elder to me though! (apart from asking her straight, As i am a straight forward person and been in trouble becoz of being str forwrd hell of a times)

how to ask her out ?

any suggestion I would appreciate that!

looking forward for some decent replies

thank you people for respecting my feelings

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Jul 17, 10, 00:21 #2

Well dude, maybe I don't know a lot about u and your history but I think that considering that she's been kind with you and you've offered her practises of english this could lead to an easy way to ask her out, I mean u could ask her to go to a coffee and somewhere else not just to help her in talking in english (in spite that this maybe should be the main motive), but also to spend a good time. As I said, even without knowing a lot about that, it's not a complicated act to asking her out considering that you both are working together and your relation seems to be nice. Try it man! I really think it worth

And what do u say of asking her out in polish? :D Could really prove her even more what do you fell for her, u can ask something and I or somebody of here can translate u that!

So I wish you good luck man!

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Edited by: skysoulmate Jul 17, 10, 03:26 #3

Uśmiech - that's the proper way to spell it - you can copy and paste if you want...

Well, it's great you're trying to be nice to her but your English seems pretty limited (please don't take it the wrong way) and apparently so is hers so it will be hard for you two to connect. Hard but not impossible.

You worry she's an elder? I assume you mean older than you? Elder means something else. Well, if she's older than you so what? You either like someone or you don't, why does that bother you so much?

Also you said: "I also read in few article that polish girl having tatoo and body piercing considered ........., not good in chraccter! that hurted me a bit as she seems to be nice person"

Wow, talk about being judgmental! So does that apply to Polish ladies only? What if it's a German or a Japanese woman? You need to throw away the paper you read prompto!!! If you judge a person's character based on her tattoos, piercings etc. or because of something because you read about them in a magazine then you need to reevaluate yourself as a person. Open-mindedness is important when it comes to truly caring for someone.

I say copy some sweet notes in Polish and leave it in her v-file, etc. Smile, be kind, be friendly and hopefully it will work out. Don't know any dating phrases in Polish because I never dated a Polish woman and last time I played with a Polish girl it was in "piaskownica" (sand box ;).

My overall advice would be to throw away and and all preconceived notions on "what you heard about this or that" - judge people on one thing only, your personal interaction, your personal experience with them. You would want that from others wouldn't you?

Maybe a simple "coffee - you and I?" would work? "Ty i ja na kawę?" I don't know...

Good luck to you with your "ładna Polska dziewczyna" (pretty Polish girl) :)

PS. Posted this message using wi-fi over Juneau, Alaska while commuting on Alaska Airlines flight at FL370... ;)

Technology can be amazing sometimes... :)

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Edited by: usmiech Jul 17, 10, 09:24 #4

Thank you Vawery, for your support and Idea!!

Well, I am using google translator to understand the most of the polish words and

I will be for sure asking her out only in Polish!! hahaha

lets wait and see

skysoulmate:

your English seems pretty limited

Yes, SkySoulMate, when it comes to typing yes I do!

skysoulmate:

Maybe a simple

"coffee - you and I?" would work? "Ty i ja na kawę?" I don't know...

thats sweet skysoulmate!!
Well I am planning for that quite soon

skysoulmate:

Wow, talk about being judgmental! So does that apply to Polish ladies only? What if it's a German or a Japanese woman? You need to throw away the paper you read prompto!!! If you judge a person's character based on her tattoos, piercings etc. or because of something because you read about them in a magazine then you need to reevaluate yourself as a person. Open-mindedness is important when it comes to truly caring for someone.

No no, you will find people with a different nature and character all over the place, Well I just had a curiosity and just wanted to know that it no Hard feelings!

well thank you skysoulmate for the advice and will ask her out only in polish !!!

you have a good day

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Jul 21, 10, 23:27 #5

Hey, I am waiting for your suggestions!!!

Anyway's I am quite curious to tell what has happened today.

I felt really pity on her today, she lost her locker key and was very worried, but the matter of fact, she was smiling all the time, and I was adoring her smile at a time and was feeling bad too for her.

anyways I believe she must have had a good day and I believe it's just becoz of me, each time she saw me, she started smiling and busted into laugh not bcoz I am joker it just becoz, I asked her to smile with a gesture. she was looking very very very adorable and I was admiring her.

Later I left the workplace (I felt like to wait for her)but!!!!!

But I had a planned and it worked out too
I missed my bus so that I could catch her in next bus and guess what!!!

She was there waiting for the bus and the time she saw me, she started laughing loud and couldnt control the laugh and, me nither
itwas just amazing, memorable, time for me, u know I felt like I am in cloud 9 and I wished if i could stop the time so that we could laugh forever, togather!!!i

I was enenjoying it and all of sudden the crowd started flowing inn
and then guess what she stood infront of me (a inch or 2)

she was so close that I had too stand on my toes and I could have easily fell on her, she was so close as if she is mine :::) ehhehehehe

it was like ooh my god!!! I couldnt even look into her eyes, though we were so close

each time we looked at each other we just smiled at each other !!!!!

wooppsy i thanking god for such memorable time I had with her and Its first time ever happened to me and that also with a girl I liked !!!!

so people wish me a luck to ask her out very soon

till then keep smiling (USMIECH)
hehehe

SokratesThreads: 19 Posts: 4,464 Joined: Jan 19, 09 ♂ [Suspended]	Jul 22, 10, 13:17 #6
Beat her up.

AmathystThreads: 30 Posts: 3,968 Joined: Nov 10, 06 ♀	Jul 22, 10, 17:11 #7
Sokrates: Beat her up. Dont you think that's a bit harsh..maybe just a slap?

NorthMancPolakThreads: 6 Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 13, 10 ♂	Jul 22, 10, 18:57 #8
usmiech: Need help and assistance to ask polish girl out What is the point of the word "Polish" in this sentence? It's not as if Polish women are humanoid or something.

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER ♀	Jul 22, 10, 18:59 #9
NorthMancPolak: What is the point of the word "Polish" it's not even Polish, it's polish... ;/

NorthMancPolakThreads: 6 Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 13, 10 ♂	Jul 22, 10, 19:06 #10
pgtx: it's not even Polish, it's polish... ;/ Maybe he's looking for someone who is good at making furniture shiny :D lol

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Edited by: Sokrates Jul 22, 10, 19:07 #11

usmiech:

Hey, I am waiting for your suggestions!!!

Newsflash for you, women love confident men, be f*cking confident, go up to her and ask her out thats it.

"Hey would you like to grab a coffe after work?"

Dont be a girlfriend with a penis attempting friendship with a girl you want to f*ck is suicidal, it makes asking her out later much more difficult, also dont be a pvssy, its nice that you're in touch with your emotions and sh*t but blushing like a virgin and giggling doesnt get her into your bed anytime sooner.

She's not a "polish girl" she's a female, they're uncomplicated creatures, go up to her and ask her out, if you manage not to cum all over yourself or giggle like a crackwh0re she's prolly gonna agree, once she's on that coffee/dinner with you work your magic and see if it sparks.

Amathyst:

Dont you think that's a bit harsh..maybe just a slap?

Harsh love is good love!:D

Ps. Uśmiech if you manage to hook up with her update whether she was a good f*ck, you're selling her as if she's the 8th wonder.

BzibziohThreads: 6 Posts: 3,657 Joined: Oct 15, 08 ♀ [Suspended]	Jul 22, 10, 19:34 #12
You keep saying about her smile. How is yours? Do you have missing teeth, rotting teeth, fizzing teeth, teeth that are no longer teeth but disgusting black nubs, make it your #1 priority to get to a dentist and have that taken care of. The second you stop caring about the condition of your chicklets, you might as well forget about being within arm’s length of a naked woman ever again.

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Jul 23, 10, 08:31 #13

Sokrates:

Beat her up.

Naaa I am not a stupid :P

NorthMancPolak:

What is the point of the word "Polish" in this sentence? It's not as if Polish women are humanoid or something.

NorthMancPolak, please dont take me wrong. Just to describe and to give a better picture of Sit!

Sokrates:

She's not a "polish girl" she's a female, they're uncomplicated creatures, go up to her and ask her out, if you manage not to cum all over yourself or giggle like a crackwh0re she's prolly gonna agree, once she's on that coffee/dinner with you work your magic and see if it sparks.

true say, they are complicated and very difficult to understand.

Sokrates, dont worry I shall let u know quite soon.

Sokrates:

Uśmiech if you manage to hook up with her update whether she was a good f*ck, you're selling her as if she's the 8th wonder.

Sokrates, Please dont embarrass me by saying that
I not here to F*&% her , If that was the situation I would rather gone for sexy girls I have around me.

I just like her feminine nature, which grabbed my attention.

so dont take my feeling wrong, Sokrates

Bzibzioh:

You keep saying about her smile. How is yours? Do you have missing teeth,

hey u must be a magician, How come u know I have a missing tooth!!! hahahhahaha

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Jul 23, 10, 09:10 #14

Sokrates:

Dont be a girlfriend with a penis attempting friendship with a girl you want to f*ck is suicidal, it makes asking her out later much more difficult, also dont be a pvssy, its nice that you're in touch with your emotions and sh*t but blushing like a virgin and giggling doesnt get her into your bed anytime sooner.

So true, I had a friend like that, I was mortified when he asked me out on a "date"...The sooner usmiech asks her out the better, it's possible she's just being polite..at least then he'll know.

Sokrates:

She's not a "polish girl" she's a female, they're uncomplicated creatures, go up to her and ask her out, if you manage not to cum all over yourself or giggle like a crackwh0re she's prolly gonna agree, once she's on that coffee/dinner with you work your magic and see if it sparks.

Nice to hear that someone thinks that we're not complicated..better than the usual whining that we're hard to understand...as for her agreeing..I like your optimism...But I hate to break this to you, but, just because she's smiling and laughing doesnt mean she is attracted to this guy...I smile and have a laugh with our local window cleaner - he's about 60, toothless and looks like a murderer..he's just a nice sweet bloke..

Sorry to be so negative, but people tend to be over sensitive to signals when they like someone...Best for him to bite the bullet, ask her out..

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Jul 23, 10, 10:12 #15

Amathyst:

just because she's smiling and laughing doesnt mean she is attracted to this guy...I smile and have a laugh with our local window cleaner - he's about 60, toothless and looks like a murderer..he's just a nice sweet bloke..

hahahahaha, that was funny Amathyst

well same here, I do laugh and smile with elder people too !!

Amathyst:

Sorry to be so negative, but people tend to be over sensitive to signals when they like someone...Best for him to bite the bullet, ask her out..

that a eternal fact. but, when u are in "Air" signals become very sensitive and could eventually could break you later!

Amathyst:

ask her out.

Sure, u gave me a bit of a confident, will for sure let you know!
thank u amathyst

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Edited by: Sokrates Jul 23, 10, 16:25 #16

usmiech:

I just like her feminine nature, which grabbed my attention.

so dont take my feeling wrong, Sokrates

You like her ass and want to f*ck her till you break the bed, dont act like a total pvssy nothing wrong with that! I hate giving out advice but here's one for you, women love confidence, you dont even have to be confident, all it takes is pretend you are and it'll carry you miles and miles.

Drop the fairy giggling touchy feely bullsh*t, women will tell you all kinds of tall tales but what they all love, without exception is a confident guy, you see a girl you like you go for the gold you dont dance around crossing eyes and smiling.

Amathyst:

But I hate to break this to you, but, just because she's smiling and laughing doesnt mean she is attracted to this guy...

Personally i think he's a 20 year old virgin who's just going to blow the f*ck out of the situation even if he does have a chance, any guy who goes into a giggling fit over tits he fancies is either a total pvssy or never had a girlfriend but hey lets be extremely optimistic here.

usmiech:

ue say, they are complicated and very difficult to understand.

They're women, you're trying to date them or write a psychological treaty about them? You have to understand how to please them and how to be attractive for them and thats it, you dont have to undestand them.

usmiech:

I not here to F*&% her , If that was the situation I would rather gone for sexy girls I have around me.

No you're out to hold hands and discuss literature, of course you're out to f*ck her!

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Jul 24, 10, 00:09 #17

I have the good newz and the bad newz!!

hokie kokie, the good newz

she was abset today and made her smile all evening while waiting for the bus. I made my friends to leave and I waited their with her and come to know about her background !

and now the bad newz,

I asked her would she like to go for tea tonite she said "no"

hahahahahah

may be its just that, she didnt understood, that i have asked her out as she is not very gud in understanding english, nither was in good mood. I have conveince her forget everything and carry a smile on her face!

I mite try again very soon, but
it was fun tonite talking to her and finally i come to know another Tragic newz

she is 4 years elder to me!!!

hahahahah

and common Sokrates

I am not back of what u think, As i told u earlier, If I was interested in that Should have easily got the younger chick and would have done that!
why do you think I will publishes my F87k tory ask for suggestion?

I am 25 and I am stilll virgin, I adore the beauty of women, well that does include everything but, ultimatly its not only the body Sokrates

its actually the soul u feel, it the feeling that aspires you, its the affection that makes you feel someone is still loves you no matter, how bad your or what u are !

its the comfort of the eyes that shows you where you really stand after defeat!
its her cuddle that kills all your pain,
its the warmth of love Sokrates,
not the hotness of the body!!!!

well, as I said Sokrates, I am not interested in sleeping with her, it just becoz I see someone with more of affectionate and feminine nature!!

dont miss understand my feeling !!!

i want love not through sex, but through feeling and affection

well that is also a part of the human cycle, but still at this point of time though!!

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Edited by: Sokrates Jul 24, 10, 00:34 #18

The scary bit about all you write is that you seriously sincerely believe it, i really hope this is some sort of a provocation, for your sake.

usmiech:

its the comfort of the eyes that shows you where you really stand after defeat!
its her cuddle that kills all your pain,
its the warmth of love Sokrates,
not the hotness of the body!!!!

Yeah its all fairies and sh*t but you still got shot down, not the first time i bet and not the last time either.

king polkakamonThreads: 1 Posts: 1,018 Joined: Dec 30, 09 ♂	Jul 24, 10, 00:35 #19
usmiech: I am 25 and I am stilll virgin Congratulations.

usmiechThreads: 1 Posts: 24 Joined: Jul 16, 10 ♂	Jul 24, 10, 06:18 #20
Sokrates: Yeah its all fairies and sh*t but you still got shot down, not the first time i bet and not the last time either thats ture, but what I want to emphasizes on is that, I dont want to be her friend, just for that sake!!!! well if the things turns out well, I will take your suggestion

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Jul 24, 10, 06:28 #21

Polish women (or all Eastern Europeans in general) love to be flattered thats why she acted shy I'm pretty sure it has to do with the culture (more male dominated). just flatter flatter flatter and you should be fine but make sure you don't say anything embarrasing to yourself or her make intelligent sophistocated comments there is nothing more than a Polish girl hates than a half wit trying too obvsiouly to come on to her. (lol I can't stand dumb guys that have the wit of a twelve year old thinking they can score by making their stupid small talk and half thought out comments)

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Jul 24, 10, 07:53 #22

Allison:

just flatter flatter flatter and you should be fine but make sure you don't say anything embarrasing to yourself or her make intelligent sophistocated comments there is nothing more than a Polish girl hates than a half wit trying too obvsiouly to come on to her.

Allison thank you for the wise advice, I just cant flatter/lie or exaggerate. I just say the things which are visible and true
and trust me thing has gone very bad for at a times!!!!

since then I stopped speaking which could hurt and i think twice before I speak!

but truth is truth, even though I avoid it, thing will become visible in a span of time, it is just self realisation!!

;) still thank u for the advice and from now onwards I will keep that in my mind!!!

king polkakamonThreads: 1 Posts: 1,018 Joined: Dec 30, 09 ♂	Jul 24, 10, 10:22 #23
Behave like a cowboy but instead of pistole use your wallet.

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Jul 25, 10, 00:04 #24

hokie kokie

I have the gud newz and the bad newz

this time, first the bad newz

I asked her for outing tomorrow, she said she going out with her friends tomorrow,
not with me

and now the gud newz

we have fixed up for next week, sunday for lunch!!!1 hahahahahhaha

and today we were togather in th bus stop and she again stood next to m!!!

I felt like I am in clud 9, but there is some strange thing, I feel
she is not seems to be serious and she never asked about myself. She revealed herself almost, but was never bothered to ask about me?

and she asked me whether I like to go to swim but she likes it?

guys and gals any suggestion

SokratesThreads: 19 Posts: 4,464 Joined: Jan 19, 09 ♂ [Suspended]	Jul 25, 10, 00:18 #25
usmiech: I felt like I am in clud 9, but there is some strange thing, I feel Its called a boner.

aphrodisiacThreads: 22 Posts: 3,998 Joined: Apr 15, 09 ♀	Jul 25, 10, 01:06 #26
Sokrates: Yeah its all fairies and sh*t but you still got shot down, not the first time i bet and not the last time either. not everybody is as corrupt at the early age:)

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Jul 25, 10, 05:33 #27

Sokrates:

elt like I am in clud 9, but there is some strange thing, I feel
Its called a boner.

I am not talking about what ur referring to !!!

I said, i have strange feeling that she is not interested in me, it has nothing to do with ur crappy being boner or loner, u Sokrates !! hahahaah

u are starnge person

Well I have the bad newz only only,
I found out from her FB that she is in relationship with someother person and I am :(!!!!

I wanted to know what does "in relationship" in facebook means ?

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Jul 25, 10, 05:55 #28

usmiech:

its the comfort of the eyes that shows you where you really stand after defeat!
its her cuddle that kills all your pain

Jezz, man, that was deep

I didn't see that coming :)

usmiech:

I wanted to know what does "in relationship" in facebook means ?

Usually means that she's seeing someone and even living with someone. But since she agreed to the lunch with you, maybe it's not serious.

Just ask her during your lunch on Sunday. Good luck!

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Jul 25, 10, 06:54 #29

Bzibzioh:

Usually means that she's seeing someone and even living with someone. But since she agreed to the lunch with you, maybe it's not serious.

Just ask her during your lunch on Sunday. Good luck!

Thank you for the suggestion, well i presumme that she has accepted bcoz she treats melike a friend I believe!!!!
dont know lets
see

Bzibzioh:

I didn't see that coming :)

sorry I didnt get meaning of quote!!!!

any suggestion like how to make her day special on that day!!!

I am very bad at starting conversation in public places, about any general topic, but if it comes to any tech or car or bike or gizmoz I can spend whole day naywhere!!!

but girls genrally dont like it, I know that and thats the reason I have request to help me on this!!!!

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Jul 25, 10, 12:13 #30

usmiech:

I said, i have strange feeling that she is not interested in me

Thats not a strange feeling at all, provided this is not a provocation you're an utterly inexperienced guy, women love to play games and you're not gamey at all, also she's older and she apparently has someone though im starting to think its another provocative thread.

usmiech:

with ur crappy being boner

My boner is first class, you dont even admit to yours!

usmiech:

any suggestion like how to make her day special on that day

Douse her in gasoline and set her on fire.
Chase her around with your dick in your hand.
Spank her boob and see if it jiggles.
Tie a gerbil to a stick with a shoestring and beat her up with a gerbil flail.
Slip her a rape pill.
Come to the meeting wearing a pedobear costume.

There's so many ways to make her day special.

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