What do I need to know as an American about a Polish man?

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Feb 7, 12, 03:45 #1

I have just began a relationship with a Polish man who is living in American now. He travels with his work to the UK frequently. He seems to be a Genuinely God fearing man and very affectionate. I have noticed some communication differences in our beleifs. I have attributed this to getting to know one another better. He has already indicated a long term relationship if not even marriage. He wants to give me the world! He seems too good compared to many american men. He is 51 and I have seen the stubborn already. I think it was more misunderstanding . If he feels I doubt him, he gets very quiet. I love this man; however, I have never had a man want to be so gracious! I am American born and bread and we both are divorcees. My children are older and he has one in boarding school because her mother passed during childbirth of their 2nd child. Neither lived. I live in the south and he lives in Fla. So travel is necessary. My income doesn't allow me to travel to him much; however, he says not to worry, he will take care of me.

I want to believe such a man exists and he seems so genuine......just kinda want to know what I'm getting into and the true expectations of a man raised Polish. His mother was Polish and his father American. I know customs are different and with his age it is refreashing to have the gentleman. I am 43 so there isn't much difference in our age.

Input please!

scottie1113Threads: 11 Posts: 873 Joined: Mar 13, 07 ♂	Feb 7, 12, 04:56 #2
His mother was polish and his father was American, yet you say he's Polish. Where was he born, and where has he lived most of his life, in Poland or in the US?

Mart

Mar 12, 12, 04:17 #3

All you need to know about Polish men:

1 You need to know how to cook Polish food. Why? How? Ask his mama. (if you want this fish alive, keep it in water).
2. If he's planning to live in your country for long time, then you don't have to be Polish to have sex with him, you can me any nationality, origin, race....(again, if you want this fish alive, keep it in water)

Bonus: always keep a six pack in your fridge.

good luck!

el_easy

Mar 12, 12, 13:33 #4

scottie1113:

I want to believe such a man exists and he seems so genuine......just kinda want to know what I'm getting into and the true expectations of a man raised Polish. His mother was Polish and his father American. I know customs are different and with his age it is refreashing to have the gentleman. I am 43 so there isn't much difference in our age.

Input please!

My advice make sure, he's divorced, otherwise, life is short go for it and enjoy your life!!

boher88Threads: - Posts: 3 Joined: Mar 12, 12 ♂	Mar 13, 12, 00:20 #5
Polish men like to drink, but they're also hardworking. You have to be careful, because Polish men are often nice at the beginning, after some time the can change extremely much. However, I think Polish men are generally handsome and they're surely worth to get know them very well :)

pawianThreads: 90 Posts: 5,415 Joined: May 30, 08 ♂	Mar 13, 12, 00:36 #6
Mart: Bonus: always keep a six pack in your fridge. I prefer house red, if you please.

VieslavaThreads: - Posts: 27 Joined: Mar 11, 12 ♀	Mar 13, 12, 02:24 #7
His mother was Polish and his father was American .... so I'm assuming he was born in the US. If he was born in US ..... why do write of him as if he was from another planet??? Is he that much different??? Woman to woman advice: do not marry anyone unless your HEART dances in your chest and your heart is connected to your BRAIN and dances for the right reasons.

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Apr 7, 12, 01:19 #8

That's a stereotype if ever I heard one! My mother is Polish and my father was born in Canada (although his parents were born in Poland); and even though I used to drink, moderatly, I don't drink at all now, not even socially. I don't smoke, eat red meat or pork, or watch TV. I also used to know other Polish men who also didn't drink or behave, "typically" Polish. It has more to do with the man's upbringing, social morals, enviroment and religion than his culture.

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