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Non-Polish women who fell in love/are in a relationship with a Polish man? Anyone?

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JoannaL  Threads: 2
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 Feb 26, 2013, 10:53pm     #

Are there any foreign ladies out there who just couldn't resist the charm of a Pole? Usually it's the other way around ;)


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 Feb 26, 2013, 11:19pm     #

i am not polish, married to a lovely polish man...
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Edited by: JoannaL  Feb 26, 2013, 11:53pm     #

So it really happens sometimes ;) How did you guys meet? I am assuming you're British (judging by your nick...) :)
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 Feb 27, 2013, 12:21am     #

We met in London,hubby fell in love with me straight away,I took sometimes to understand my feeling but yes,I love him.the day I told him I love him too...he asked me to marry him.then he moved in my place....and now we are a family.
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 Feb 27, 2013, 05:00am     #

Yeppers...

I sure fell to the charm of my Polish best friend when he decided to kick it up a notch and pursue 'us' further.
Old world manners and gentile manliness.
And the fact he is quite similar to me in upbringing, class, goals and hobbies without being a boring clone. Despite the country difference.
Of course discovering what a sexy nice guy was hiding beneath was icing for the cake! A cool, rather pessimistic exterior hides a veritable furnace of passion and romantic inclinations.

I'm a US citizen of mostly Czech (though my family both sides always said they spoke and were Bohemian) and Cherokee lineage with Scottsh& Euskara thrown in. No Polish in me at all as far as I know. ^_^

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tygrys  Threads: 2
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 Feb 27, 2013, 05:45am     #

Be careful with some of these Polish guys. They will act nice to you just to get to America, once they are here, they treat you like sh1t.They think they are always better than women. Women in Poland rarely do mechanical jobs or other work that is predomintely done by men, while in America women are more independant and can do a lot more than the Polish women. Also these Polish guys think only about themselves. And I am only stating examples from what others told me, that they will do anything to come to America and send money home, to show off what they have. I would not trust a Polsih guy, they tend to lie and cheat a lot. I'm not saying they are all that way, just from ewhat others have told me. They change once they come here, because life in Poland is so different and they become annoying and ornery.
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 Feb 27, 2013, 04:24pm     #

JoannaL:
So it really happens sometimes ;)


It happenes more then you think ;-)

tygrys:
Be careful with some of these Polish guys. They will act nice to you just to get to America, once they are here, they treat you like sh1t.They think they are always better than women. Women in Poland rarely do mechanical jobs or other work that is predomintely done by men, while in America women are more independant and can do a lot more than the Polish women. Also these Polish guys think only about themselves. And I am only stating examples from what others told me, that they will do anything to come to America and send money home, to show off what they have. I would not trust a Polsih guy, they tend to lie and cheat a lot. I'm not saying they are all that way, just from ewhat others have told me. They change once they come here, because life in Poland is so different and they become annoying and ornery.


Yawnnn! Cry me a river man xD
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 Feb 27, 2013, 04:40pm     #

tygrys:
Be careful with some of these Polish guys. They will act nice to you just to get to America, once they are here, they treat you like sh1t.They think they are always better than women. Women in Poland rarely do mechanical jobs or other work that is predomintely done by men, while in America women are more independant and can do a lot more than the Polish women. Also these Polish guys think only about themselves. And I am only stating examples from what others told me, that they will do anything to come to America and send money home, to show off what they have. I would not trust a Polsih guy, they tend to lie and cheat a lot. I'm not saying they are all that way, just from ewhat others have told me. They change once they come here, because life in Poland is so different and they become annoying and ornery.

Well, you are a gossiping sissy spreading heresy and generalizations. Who know absolutely nothing about women in Poland and their circumstances. On the top if it as a male you are slagging Polish men out of fear and jealousy most likely.
The fact you cannot get laid mus be very painful indeed. From your posts in other threads we can learn that you are self-hating Pole living in States and you don't quite belong there nor in Poland. I would have been feel sorry for you if not for your nasty streak and your simple mind.
In all you cut a quite pathetic figure here.
JoannaL:
So it really happens sometimes

Of course it happens. Which moon of Saturn you are calling home?
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 Feb 27, 2013, 10:14pm     #

tygrys:
Be careful with some of these Polish guys. They will act nice to you just to get to America, once they are here, they treat you like sh1t
Don't I know it! He refuses money from me the tricky batsdurd and got a job in MI this year for a longer stay to clinch the deal finally. And when finishes his bachelors and returns for good, and starts to treat me like **** I get bonus of cute accent and reasonable weight so am ahead of my previous ****** US born lovers
But...Mwhahah... but what he doesn't know is that I am the predator ordering my mail order manwife to be my love slave!
tygrys:
They think they are always better than women
Isn't he? and "love slave" remember. It is a breeding experiment and my path to being a good Catholic! I can use his superior less variable genes to shall pop out little blonde blue eye 3rd Riech poster children that my own family lost ability to a generation earlier.While I can contribute physical prowess and heights over 6ft in both genders

tygrys:
Women in Poland rarely do mechanical jobs or other work that is predomintely done by men, while in America women are more independant and can do a lot more than the Polish women
Ah but he is unaware because his bizaare upbringing by an accountant mom and Entrepenuer dad who are both children of Intelligintsia. Plus....I am like every american Texan girl...wanna marry me somebody from a lesser European Noble family!(ask his momma she'll tell you)


tygrys:
And I am only stating examples from what others told me, that they will do anything to come to America and send money home, to show off what they have.

I'll have to ask "theOther" ,when he is on, for a direct quote. And he has to show off so he can be undisowned for coming in first place

tygrys:
I would not trust a Polish guy, they tend to lie and cheat a lot. I'm not saying they are all that way, just from what others have told me. They change once they come here, because life in Poland is so different and they become annoying and ornery.

Well he already disclosed he used to be an accomplished liar but has outgrown that.... WAIT! So that means he was never a liar..he was just tricking me! What a scoundrel!
And he tells me he has a terrible temper everyday. Why just the other day he told his sister 'UGH! please stop barging in my room!..well okay... I will help with your work shortly". And I think he raised his voice almost as loud as when he calls out to me. .. I WAIT..that was a lie too. Oh the disrespect of it all!

LOL! Yes I'm being a weisenheimer.. but good gawd man, listen to yourself
My guy is mellow, well mannered, academic that never drank, doesn't smoke, doesnt overindulge and is about 10 lbs lighter. I'm the bad tempered redhead, ex military, gun toting texan. If either of us needed warning it would be him.

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 Feb 27, 2013, 10:24pm     #

How old is he?
Rysavy  Threads: 19
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 Feb 27, 2013, 10:33pm     #

Didn't you catch my post above? Breeding age, of course ^_^

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 Feb 27, 2013, 10:51pm     #

Rysavy:
Didn't you catch my post above? Breeding age, of course ^_^


Quite a lot younger than you, then.
JoannaL  Threads: 2
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Edited by: JoannaL  Feb 27, 2013, 11:14pm     #

Ironside:
JoannaL:
So it really happens sometimes

Of course it happens. Which moon of Saturn you are calling home?


It was tongue-in-cheek, I meant it facetiously - hence ";-)" emoticon at the end of it. Please, take what I am saying with a grain of salt :) Wulkan got it right!
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 Feb 28, 2013, 01:19am     #

I can say for Asians that every 2nd Asian you meet here is married to Polish woman. It is very rare that you meet an Asian who has spent a few years here and not married to a Polish woman.
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 Feb 28, 2013, 01:40am     #

ufo973:
I can say for Asians that every 2nd Asian you meet here is married to Polish woman. It is very rare that you meet an Asian who has spent a few years here and not married to a Polish woman.

And what about the Brits and Americans here? Most of them came because they were married or dating a Pole...
Although the Brits didn't come for the EU passport... I imagine those that aren't married couldn't get a residency permit and were deported...?
Do you have some figures to back up your claims? BTW - 1 out of 2 guys is still 50% lol :D
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 Feb 28, 2013, 01:51am     #

ufo973:
I can say for Asians that every 2nd Asian you meet here is married to Polish woman. It is very rare that you meet an Asian who has spent a few years here and not married to a Polish woman.

You can say it, but my own lying eyes have seen teems and teems of Asians in Bielany, Wroc³aw, shopping and eating together, en masse. I assume they work for Motorola, and they're always well-dressed, and almost always paired up, if not sporting a an entire family.
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 Feb 28, 2013, 03:20am     #

The answer is simple...THEY ARE JEALOUS :)
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 Feb 28, 2013, 02:26pm     #

thetenminuteman:
Quite a lot younger than you, then.


Wow nothing gets past you , eh? ^_^



Got a mind like a steel trap there suspended former member.... (or did you actually get so intrigued as to go through ALL my old posts to see where that was mentioned last year? Old news) ;p

I just don't go into the full details very often since as already mentioned previous, he thinks my being here is a waste of broadband but indulges with rolled eye. He prefers to keep personal details for friends and family, though he can be as trolly as me on occasion. (BTW if you think Polish avg age of student 6 courses from engineering BA-you'd be wrong)
And I don't mind being Demi to his Ashton even if it was the last thing in the world I would have thought of or imagined myself in.
(he'll wince at that analogy since he believes infidelity is as bad as burning puppies and abuse of substance leads to bad endings. I gotta agree.)
But I could not resist poking fun at tygrys post. So melodramatic! So I cheekily listed all the cons we have heard thrown from the Polish side(1 source)

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 Mar 1, 2013, 12:53am     #

JoannaL:
It was tongue-in-cheek, I meant it facetiously - hence ";-)" emoticon at the end of it. Please, take what I am saying with a grain of salt :)

I know but I felt an irresistible urge to use the word 'Saturn' in my post.
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 Mar 1, 2013, 06:18am     #

JoannaL:
Are there any foreign ladies out there who just couldn't resist the charm of a Pole? Usually it's the other way around ;)


I'm a Litvak and Polish Jew taken by a Balkaner Yid. Does that count for the other way around?
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 Mar 6, 2013, 10:46pm     #

Ironside:
JoannaL:
It was tongue-in-cheek, I meant it facetiously - hence ";-)" emoticon at the end of it. Please, take what I am saying with a grain of salt :)

I know but I felt an irresistible urge to use the word 'Saturn' in my post.


Oh, if that's what it was... totally understandable! :D
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 Mar 14, 2013, 11:15am     #

I am Bulgarian and I used to live in the UK for 4 years in a Polish neighbourhood. I had many Polish colleagues from university and work. They were ALL undescribably cute!

I don't know about English girls, but a Polish guy is EVERY Bulgarian woman's Prince Charming!

A woman must be insane not to like one - I could marry one today! :)
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 Apr 2, 2013, 09:01am     #

I am non-Polish and I am in love with a Polish guy :)
If all Polish guys are like him, then every girl should end up with a Pole because they're just amazing.
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 Apr 3, 2013, 07:42pm     #

Aphrodite:
I am non-Polish and I am in love with a Polish guy :)
If all Polish guys are like him, then every girl should end up with a Pole because they're just amazing.



i have same problem like this ...
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 Apr 4, 2013, 04:21am     #

If you dont mind me asking, do you speak polish?? How did you deal with adapting to his culture?
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 Apr 4, 2013, 10:21am     #

brittany2351:
If you dont mind me asking, do you speak polish?? How did you deal with adapting to his culture?


i speak English, .. but i am learning polish ... to adapting with his culture , we just need to understand each other ..
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 Apr 4, 2013, 10:30am     #

brittany2351:
do you speak polish?? How did you deal with adapting to his culture?


Learning Polish to be friendly with his family when needed, but he has excellent English with very soft accent (except when tired or uber-excited then definite slips with English "W" and combination vowels).

His culture? is why I came here...
and found little bits and at least better ways to try.. like I read papers, watch movies and videos. I find exhange buddies to Skype with from here.

In our case we also have common ground from having taken same higher education path, Catholicism, being game nerds, alergies, asthma, having similar values and upbringing. I already cook most the things he likes.. and cook similar dishes I can modify in spices used.
I would have a harder time adapting to being in Poland than him adapting in US. I'm spoiled by infrastructure and climate..I admit it.

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 Apr 5, 2013, 11:38am     #

I am an American married to a Polish man. We live here in Poland and have been here for 11 years. I speak Polish very well now which helps a ton!
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 Apr 5, 2013, 04:21pm     #

well im english live in poland and a polish girl fell for me and we are still together at the time she was giving me polish lessons i was giving her english lessons and one thing led to another, we are really happy together but there are some massive culture differences between me and her but we work it out or i just dont go to church simple really, we have been together for 18 months and i love her to bits
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 Apr 5, 2013, 04:36pm     #

CJ2a:
well im english live in poland and a polish girl fell for

Read the thread title.


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