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Joined: Oct 24, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 02:50    #1
im amazed why so many polish are against polish mixing with other nationalities..yet they like to go on the sunbed and have brown skin, dark black hair..good and bad in every nationality
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Joined: Oct 18, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 12:32    #2
look at in your own country, see similar things.
a rich arab or a rich indian or a rich african will be negative if his daughter is with a poor arab or with a poor indian or poor african. this not a polish thing, a life thing in capitalism thing.

cultural, religious, nationality, etc etc. all these differences. artifically exist for the unhappy greed as unable to learn the true love. people strange. they pity/sad for this greed, but, unable to see themselves having misery lifes.
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Joined: Jun 26, 07 ♀ 		 Nov 1, 09, 12:41    #3
ash:
ash

Do you have sisters? How would your parents feel if she brought a black man home? (Dont forget Im English, I know a little bit more about Indian culture than you know about Polish culture!) - come on, Im waiting....

ash:
im amazed why so many polish are against polish mixing with other nationalities

Not just Polish, there are plenty of other Europeans on the forum that are not too keen on the idea and if you go on other forums, Arab ones, you'll find that they see Indians even lower than they do in Europe.

nomaderol:
cultural, religious, nationality, etc etc. all these differences. artifically exist for the unhappy greed as unable to learn the true love. people strange. they pity/sad for this greed, but, unable to see themselves having misery lifes.

To a certain degree...but how about the fact most african and asian countries are pretty much 100% hermoginous, yet we in Europe are call racist if we dont want to mix?
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Joined: Apr 11, 08 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 12:50    #4
There are always exceptions to everything and one can find anecdotal examples to prove this or that point, but in general the more a man and woman have in common, the bigger the chances for success. That inlcudes age, nationality, religion, views on family and children, educational level, financial status (otherwise someone will always say he/she married for money!), cultural preferences, interests, hobbies, pastimes, etc. One exception is occupation. Some do work together well in the same profession , but rivalry can lead to tension and problems.
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 12:58    #5
It is because the darkies see some weak ethics among us regarding women and they want to exploit.But here we are,balkan power.
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Joined: Oct 18, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 12:58    #6
ShelleyS:
To a certain degree...but how about the fact most african and asian countries are pretty much 100% hermoginous, yet we in Europe are call racist if we dont want to mix?

you meant homogeneous? even been in east. go to any country there. tens of different cultures live in same country. every country is very cosmopolitic with many different cultures, nations and religions. long historical movements in those countries had caused much heteregenousity there, hence, politics much more difficult in those areas than the europe. europe has started to learn this mixing in last centures as wealthiness moved from east to west. it is normal. think why london is 15 million, why paris is big population city, why istanbul here is 15 million, why newyork, tokyo, etc big populations. simple. people follow money. if money is collected in a room, people will find a way to enter this room. no choice. yesterday, this place. today, that place. tomorrow? who knows where. btw, attraction of europe is not much anymore as this global economy crisis hit europe more than east.
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 13:00    #7
nomaderol:
tokyo, etc big populations.

In Tokyo if you see more than 10 foreigners,you can drill my nose.
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southern:
In Tokyo if you see more than 10 foreigners,you can drill my nose.

depends on what you understand from "foreigner." they may look same. never been to there, but, i can think of many mongols, chinese, kazahks, uzbeks, afgans, etc etc already living in tokyo. for a japan, all these are foreigners.
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nomaderol:
kazahks, uzbeks, afgans, etc etc already living in tokyo

You mean the members of their embassies because I cannot imagine anyone of these nationalities being accepted to live there.
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Joined: Oct 18, 09 ♂ 		Edited by: nomaderol  Nov 1, 09, 13:10    #10
southern

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tokyo

foreign residents: 365,000 as of 2006

As of 2005, the most common foreign nationalities found in Tokyo are Chinese (123,661), Korean (106,697), Filipino (31,077), American (18,848), British (7,696), Brazilian (5,300) & French (3,000).[24]
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Joined: Oct 24, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 13:34    #11
hmmm you are right some what..i think its boundries but its also how hate starts..thanks for the reply
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ash:
hmmm you are right some what..i think its boundries but its also how hate starts..thanks for the reply

it's not about the boundries. think even warsaw. people of warsaw probably dont like those coming from rural areas of poland.
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		Edited by: southern  Nov 1, 09, 13:42    #13
In a capital city of 12 million they have 350000 foreigners,that is 3%.Maybe this is the proportion we should strive for in europe.
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Joined: Oct 18, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 13:52    #14
these must be only foreigners with noncitizenship. i can think of easily that million of people with different etnicity with citizenship living in tokyo. been to tehran. one of most biggest city in the world. 15 million. many may think it is homogeneous. but, 50% persian, 30% turk, 5% kurd, 5% arab, and many different etnicities. also different religions. if you look at the earth from far away, you see only blue. like that.
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ash:
hmmm you are right some what..i think its boundries but its also how hate starts..thanks for the reply

Im still waiting for your answer?
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nomaderol:
been to tehran. one of most biggest city in the world.

Sorry,we don't want to become like Tehran.
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Joined: Oct 24, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 13:57    #17
hmmm you are right some what..i think its boundries but its also how hate starts..thanks for the replyShelleyS
well my dear you will be suprised i have employed polish people and i have very good friends in poland..maybe i do know about polish cultore a little but im always learning..

and secondly arabs look down on majority of indian people who are from a poor background of they way some indians behave.

also to the question how indians,blacks,arabs feel if their sisters go with a white man european?..well their you are going into traditions and culture and if you know so much about the culture you would know that even if a indian girl went with another indian it would be the same as if she was with a white guy..because yhen they go into sex before marriage,religion,cast,and family..
ALSO I WOULD LIKE TO POINT OUT THEIR ARE ALOT OF NO GOOD PEOPLE OUT THERE AND THEY COULD BE INDIAN,BLACK,ARAB,WHITE.

AND MY CONCERN WAS MORE ABOUT WHY NOT ALL BUT SOME POLISH PEOPLE HATE BLACK,ASIAN,AND ARAB MORE HATE AS IN RACISM AND FACISM.

yes i also acknowledge that most other people in europe dont like this, but its because of the beliefs,religion and indian,arab people are easily targeted because of the way they dress etc..

ITS REALLY A SHAME WE THINK WE HAVE PROGRESSED AND LIVE IN THE 21ST CENTIURY BUT IN FACT HUMAN BEINGS ARE STILL BEHAVING LIKE WHEN THEY LIVED IN CAVES,WHEN BLONDE CAVEMEN WOULD FIGHT DARK HAIRED CAVEMEN..AND THERE HAS NEVER BEEN PEACE ON EARTH THEIR IS ALWAYS A WAR,A QUARELL A `DISPUTE..EVEN AS PETTY AS OVER A FOOTBALL MATCH SHAME SHAME
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southern:
Sorry,we don't want to become like Tehran.

No choice. if you have money, either you will be like tehran or you will be poor soon.
No choice.
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nomaderol:
if you have money, either you will be like tehran

Yes,as everyone knows Tehran is inhabited by filthy rich people.
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Joined: Oct 18, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 14:02    #20
who cares. money is money. if you dont have, you creep here.
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Money is where whites live as far as I have noticed.
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china is white? most of money there. and israel? white?
southern, take some rest. even if whites have much money, they are some whites. not all.
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Joined: Oct 24, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 14:07    #23
ShelleyS

I was more thinking of the hate/racism/facism when i originally wrote this question..yet it suprises me more because polish people fought against this in the war,also they were under communist rule for 20years..thirdly most polish work in other counties before returning to poland..and yet they hate the people they work for with?..in my city polish,and other eastern european the first people that employ them is asian/indian,the houses they rent are owned by asian/indian..so why the hate yet most british people white,black,asian do help the polish..so why the resentment and hate and it seems to be deeper..
and dont you polish have black hair and slight olive skin?
well suppose its the same as the way most polish hate the polish gypsies..

well well do other people have the right to live??or do you think like what hitler thought??

and please dont be offended im just after a dicussion and feed back to see what,how most people feel..honesty is appriciated
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Joined: Oct 18, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 14:12    #24
ash, simple. some have superior complexity. some have inferior complexity.
complexity anyway.
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Joined: Oct 24, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 14:15    #25
well harmony does exit you are right even the big problem in palestine,,years ago it was peaceful with muslims,christians,jews living together..its just power greed and money, well power/money...yes and if you look at england most cultures do work along side live along side one another...and yes you do get problems,issues but overall after the war england has been a multicultural society..indian,jamaican have been living there with families for 50 to 60years..and its great to know and see..
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Joined: Oct 18, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 14:18    #26
money brings people together. even thefts, killers, rapers, sadists, maniacs, alcoholics, etc etc. yes, people should be thankful to money.
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nomaderol
i am glad i have had great feed back from you..and its good to know sombody has understanding and a level of education..i have read all your feeds and i do agree with you on mosyt of it..its strange dont you think that we as humans think about progress and yet forget what made us civilised?and civilisation...are we any better now or does that cave man trible instinct still within us all?
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 14:22    #28
ash:
the polish gypsies.

They are not polish gypsies.They are gypsies living in Poland.The same way there are no greek gypsies.(apart from our citizens).

From what I have seen pakis and indians slaughter each other in the last 40 years although they have common features not to mention what happens in Africa when some Tuci means some Hutu.So enough with the peaceful muslims,etc.
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Polonius3
thankyou for your feed back,yes i agree you have a good point...
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Joined: Jul 2, 09 ♂ 		 Nov 1, 09, 14:24    #30
ash:
also they were under communist rule for 20years

1945 to 1989 = 44yrs.

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