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Polish catholic woman with Algerian Muslim man !!!!


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 Aug 24, 11, 14:08    #1
hi, this is part of my love story
i m Algerian Muslim living in UK i met my polish girlfriend nearly a year ago our relationship getting up & down because of this religion for me it wasn't a obstacle at all i m very open person i do respect all people as they are i do respect my girlfriend religion and her culture but i think she doesn't respect mine and she tried to change me but she couldn't because i m who i m i will never change and i never tried to change her . she was checking in internet about the relationship between catholic and Muslim and she fund just the negative answer i said to her the people going to write there complain i don't think the happy couple going to net to write there relationship because no time for it i don't know what to do now we tried to give up to many times but we back together again but she still thinking negative.

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 Aug 24, 11, 14:33    #2
You pray, she prays (maybe)

She eats meat, you eat halal (maybe)

You both believe in God

She clearly wants c*ck so why not leave it at that?
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 Aug 24, 11, 14:39    #3
You both believe in God

yes we both believe in god but we don't pray but i don't drink and not eating pork
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 Aug 24, 11, 14:40    #4
Both believe in God, one commonality. You don't pray? Why not? Some Poles don't drink either. Pork? That's not a big problem. A relationship isn't based on meat.
OWELL  Aug 24, 11, 14:44    #5
Both believe in God, one commonality. You don't pray? Why not? Some Poles don't drink either. Pork? That's not a big problem. A relationship isn't based on meat

lol!I think the relationship is based on MEAT:)
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Edited by: Seanus  Aug 24, 11, 14:46    #6
I was going to say but I let sb else say it :) Meat meets meat :)
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 Aug 24, 11, 14:46    #7
Both believe in God, one commonality. You don't pray? Why not? Some Poles don't drink either. Pork? That's not a big problem. A relationship isn't based on meat.

the problem she scared if i will change one day i will be against her religion she thought Muslims hit christian
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 Aug 24, 11, 14:48    #8
Forgive her ignorance. There are many sheltered people around who haven't yet opened their eyes. Algerian or Tunisian Muslims are a completely different kettle of fish from the Taliban and their draconian ways. She is living in a cuckoo world of ignorance. The Vatican is hardly the exemplar of morality!
OWELL  Aug 24, 11, 14:49    #9
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I was going to say but I let sb else say it :) Meat meets meat :)

lol!someone got the point:)
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 Aug 24, 11, 14:51    #10
she thought Muslims hit christian

Will you stone her if she talks with other men who are not her relatives?

By the way, I've always found it difficult to believe in a prophet who married pre pubescent girls and promoted warfare. Those are rather large stumbling blocks (for openers).
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 Aug 24, 11, 14:53    #11
Forgive her ignorance. There are many sheltered people around who haven't yet opened their eyes. Algerian or Tunisian Muslims are a completely different kettle of fish from the Taliban and their draconian ways. She is living in a cuckoo world of ignorance. The Vatican is hardly the exemplar of morality!

i just asking our god show her the good way inshallah because she is very nice person with a good heart
OWELL  Aug 24, 11, 14:57    #12
i just asking our god show her the good way inshallah because she is very nice person with a good heart

Always I am confused maybe you can educate me....what is the one real good thing in ISLAM?
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 Aug 24, 11, 14:59    #13
i just asking our god show her the good way

Oh, oh, now that's a big red flag. Maybe her God can show you the good way?

what is the one real good thing in ISLAM?

The bikini parties......
OWELL  Aug 24, 11, 15:00    #14
The bikini parties......

You mean that sexy black ones?called BURKA?
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 Aug 25, 11, 00:58    #15
You mean that sexy black ones?called BURKA?
[/quot[quote=OWELL]You mean that sexy black ones?called BURKA?

why you are so rude with ISLAM why ?
toker  Aug 25, 11, 01:36    #16
why you are so rude with ISLAM why ?

brainwashing Aldo, try not to take offence, they cannot help themselves.
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 Aug 25, 11, 02:47    #17
brainwashing Aldo, try not to take offence, they cannot help themselves.

why Islam respect other religion but they don't ?
OWELL  Aug 25, 11, 03:35    #18
why Islam respect other religion but they don't ?

Islam respect other relegions? seriously tell me one islamic country that has clear democracy? tell me in islam how you treat women unless west makes you treat em right tell me why you call non islamis infedils?and above all
I AGREE ALL TERROSISTS ARE NOT MUSLIMS BUT WHY MOST ARE MUSLIMS?????So tell me one good thing in Islam? jus one I ask? why islam people want us to change in west why dont you? you come to our land and try to change pour lifestyle?? common man gimmi a break!
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 Aug 25, 11, 04:07    #19
Islam respect other relegions? seriously tell me one islamic country that has clear democracy? tell me in islam how you treat women unless west makes you treat em right tell me why you call non islamis infedils?and above all

the world scared of Islam and the media made all the world scared from our religion , do you know how many people convert to Islam do you know how many people no Muslim read KORAN and they found out the real Islam , the real Muslim never bit the women never kill someone never hate anyone i m agree some Muslim country do that is not because are Muslim because is there culture like you said no democracies no freedom that why ....it happened in east Europe when they were in communism and it still happening man hit his wife or treat her badly is that true OWELL so please you can blame the culture but no the religion or any religion
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 Aug 25, 11, 06:56    #20
I AGREE ALL TERROSISTS ARE NOT MUSLIMS BUT WHY MOST ARE MUSLIMS?????


Funny, I seem to remember living in Britain for decades, where all the terrorists were Catholics from Ireland.

Be fair. Either treat all religions as equally stupid, or leave them all alone. Don't single one out for your uneducated bile.
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 Aug 25, 11, 08:28    #21
There are more than 1.5 billion people who have this faith in the world. We should respect all religions and don't confuse extremists and religious people...Peace...
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 Aug 25, 11, 10:02    #22
Hi there, i'm the only girl taking part in this discussion so far but try to give a replay to Aldo's post.
First of all u need to understand that knowledge about Islam within the Polish sociaty is really on a basic level. There're many stereotypes mixed with fear and ignorance. People's opinion is usually based on TV programs, newspaper's articles and it's not necessarily best source of information. I'm not surprised that she's afraid of your religion coz after the September 11th it's rather comman thing for many people. Of course each case must be considered individually, I don't know u and her and how your everyday relation looks like but the truth is that every relationship requires compromise. But if two people come from such a different cultures it's even harder, coz none of u wants to leave its beliefs, and it's good. I know many couples like u, some of them are together successfully, others gave up. It's all about being enough mature to overcome obstacles and respect each other. I can just advise u to suggest her some books to read, the good one is The new voices of Islam. I'm glad she's searching for information about Islam, many Poles even don't try, and we've got numbers of "unhappy" women who are in love with Egyptian lovers. Just show her the basics of your faith, tell her about the different interpretations of Quran, because that's the main problem in islamic world. Usually people're afraid of unknown, and if something's unknown they treat it as something worse because it doesn't fit their standards.
take care,

L.
toker  Aug 25, 11, 10:29    #23
tell me one good thing in Islam? jus one I ask?

respect for others.
Not drinking alcohol.
charitable and helpful deeds.
not gossipping.
There ya go theres 4..;)
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 Aug 25, 11, 11:13    #24
respect for others.

i think it's common to all open-minded people, religion has nothing to do with it.


Not drinking alcohol.

individual case, but trust me after two weeks I spent with some muslims I'm sure that Poles do not deserve to be called vodka masters or whatever;)

charitable and helpful deeds.

it's the pillar of Islam, however sometimes goes in the wrong direction.

not gossipping.

none gossips better than muslim women:D
There ya go theres 4..;)


I would indicate:

struggle to keep their faith, Christians don't care and whose fault it is?

sexual tolerance and freedom after all;)
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 Aug 25, 11, 14:27    #25
First of all u need to understand that knowledge about Islam within the Polish sociaty is really on a basic level. There're many stereotypes mixed with fear and ignorance. People's opinion is usually based on TV programs, newspaper's articles and it's not necessarily best source of information. I'm not surprised that she's afraid of your religion coz after the September 11th it's rather comman thing for many people. Of course each case must be considered individually, I don't know u and her and how your everyday relation looks like but the truth is that every relationship requires compromise. But if two people come from such a different cultures it's even harder, coz none of u wants to leave its beliefs, and it's good. I know many couples like u, some of them are together successfully, others gave up. It's all about being enough mature to overcome obstacles and respect each other. I can just advise u to suggest her some books to read, the good one is The new voices of Islam. I'm glad she's searching for information about Islam, many Poles even don't try, and we've got numbers of "unhappy" women who are in love with Egyptian lovers. Just show her the basics of your faith, tell her about the different interpretations of Quran, because that's the main problem in islamic world. Usually people're afraid of unknown, and if something's unknown they treat it as something worse because it doesn't fit their standards.

thanks Layla for you advice you are the only one who suggested to me something i brought to her to many book about Islam and Koran from a polish Muslim women and in polish language to make understand about Islam and i gave her evidence Islam is not against any religion the Islam= peace no war .
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 Aug 25, 11, 15:41    #26
Aldo, you should just tell her that none of the aspects of your religion will necessarily impact on her.

Faith (You both have that)

Prayer (5min apart from her, she can't consider that a bad thing)

Fasting (Every woman likes her man to watch his waistline anyway)

Charity (Catholics have tithe so not too big a stretch)

Hajj/Pilgrimage (You can take her on a trip to the Middle East at the same time)

Apart from these, she can't really say meat or alcohol is a reason to not be together so as long as you can both compromise on everything else you should be fine and dandy.
OWELL  Aug 25, 11, 15:50    #27

the world scared of Islam and the media made all the world scared from our religion , do you know how many people convert to Islam do you know how many people no Muslim read KORAN and they found out the real Islam , the real Muslim never bit the women never kill someone never hate anyone i m agree some Muslim country do that is not because are Muslim because is there culture like you said no democracies no freedom that why ....it happened in east Europe when they were in communism and it still happening man hit his wife or treat her badly is that true OWELL so please you can blame the culture but no the religion or any religion

Ok! most criminals in west are embracing islam SO? DOES THAT SHOW SOMETHING THAT iSLAM IS SO POPULAR IN PRISONS>?
respect for others.
Not drinking alcohol.
charitable and helpful deeds.
not gossipping.

alchohol drinking is bad? in west if consumed moderately is legal and cultutal!charitable? why is the western govts looking to see where the charitable organisations sending money? since they discovered are being funded for terrorism
I am not against Islam at all but I do have issues why islam followers call us infidels?I dont want to follow islam SO KILL ME?give me a break!
I like pork knuckles!(golunka) and pork chops so I am bad why?
If thats the case why they come to western land and try to impose there wishes?West lets them come for better life and accepts them as fellow citizens while they try to eradicate westerners?
OWELL  Aug 25, 11, 16:04    #28

Funny, I seem to remember living in Britain for decades, where all the terrorists were Catholics from Ireland.

Be fair. Either treat all religions as equally stupid, or leave them all alone. Don't single one out for your uneducated bile.

Thats why i mentioned MOST and not ALL (terrorists)
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 Aug 25, 11, 16:11    #29
Ok! most criminals in west are embracing islam SO? DOES THAT SHOW SOMETHING THAT iSLAM IS SO POPULAR IN PRISONS?


Reformed people with time on their hands... actually learning something other than their next big score?

alchohol drinking is bad?


Islam preaches accountability, how many times have you or your mate said after a night out.."Oh, I only did it cos I was drunk" Not an acceptable excuse

Charitable? why is the western govts looking to see where the charitable organisations sending money? since they discovered are being funded for terrorism


Same as crims sending their money to the Caymens, Swiss bank accounts or shell companies, criminals are criminals regardless of what they claim their monies is for.

I am not against Islam at all but I do have issues why islam followers call us infidels?I dont want to follow islam SO KILL ME?give me a break!


I'm fairly certain not every muslim calls you an infidel, just the ones that want to see you dead. At 1.5 billion, if it was the pervading sentiment I think they'd have got you by now.

I like pork knuckles!(golunka) and pork chops so I am bad why?


Actually, the Old Testament first mentions this, so unless you believe God was wrong when he said it the first time....

If thats the case why they come to western land and try to impose there wishes? West lets them come for better life and accepts them as fellow citizens while they try to eradicate westerners?


Personally, I've not met a muslim that wants to change the West to Islamic Law. I've seen on tv whenever a bunch of mentalists gather together and they pick one to interview.

You really need to get out more and who knows, you might accidentally learn something.

Meet a muslim person, don't go with any agenda and ask them to tell you was their religion means to them.... He is very unlikely to kill for that (even less so) :)
OWELL  Aug 25, 11, 16:20    #30
Personally, I've not met a muslim that wants to change the West to Islamic Law. I've seen on tv whenever a bunch of mentalists gather together and they pick one to interview.

You really need to get out more and who knows, you might accidentally learn something.

Meet a muslim person, don't go with any agenda and ask them to tell you was their religion means to them.... He is very unlikely to kill for that (even less so) :)

I am not against Islam at all!Above all I respect the feeling of muslims and there relegion but why am I being called a non beleiver?why am I bad(read the posts) cuz I drink alcohol or my spouse wears a skirt? why am I being told not to eat pork?Its my free will and its legal!not to mention i still consider marrying my cousin a incest...then again its my belief,I dont try to brainwash someone that they should do same or they are infedels?I am glad that france being the first nation to ban burka and hijabs in public places,cuz maybe the french realized what immigrants are doing to there country,I never mind if so many polish women are converting to islam,but why enforce there wishes and beleifs on me a non beleiver of islam?????????


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