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THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on...

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Barr_2009Threads: 1 Posts: 280 Joined: Oct 11, 09 ♂	Dec 6, 10, 00:59 #151
yeah that too and I do try it, for sure :) :)

Mr GrunwaldThreads: 34 Posts: 2,358 Joined: Dec 16, 08 ♂	Dec 6, 10, 01:22 #152
Barr_2009: I'm still unsure if it's relevant, I'm haunted daily by my experiences, I wish I had a remedy Wroclaw: so are we Barr_2009: I need some drugs, change my mind trener zolwia: Try booze. It cures everything. Ehhhhhrm.... I have yet to discover the after effect of meeting Polish Girls? Or?! :o

WroclawThreads: 77 Posts: 7,404 Joined: Apr 1, 06 ♂ [Moderator]	Dec 6, 10, 01:41 #153
Mr Grunwald: Ehhhhhrm.... I have yet to discover the after effect of meeting Polish Girls? Or?! :o my comment was directed at barr. i meant we are fed up hearing about his experiences.

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Dec 6, 10, 15:32 #154

I think Polish guys have to put the foot down when it comes to money. From what I've heard, many Polish girls will have the shirt off your back and then drain you some more. A major caveat, keep the standards low. Why? For those that had to live through communism, they were used to having little. Open their minds too much to what money can buy and they are off and running. Outline the inherent value of saving money and setting it aside for a rainy day. Teach them the value of contingency planning. Otherwise, they will just swipe away with the bare minimum of gratitude. As my mum said, "you have to be cruel to be kind". Wise words those!

trener zolwiaThreads: 5 Posts: 2,786 Joined: Jun 8, 10 ♂	Dec 6, 10, 17:53 #155
Seanus: As my mum said, "you have to be cruel to be kind". Wise words those! "...in the right measure..." Seanus: keep the standards low. .... Open their minds too much to what money can buy and they are off and running. Right. Try to shield them from the US gross consumerism mindset.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Dec 6, 10, 18:10 #156
You lay your own traps if you do otherwise. You have to establish some groundrules. A large element of trust is involved too.

Barr_2009Threads: 1 Posts: 280 Joined: Oct 11, 09 ♂	Edited by: Barr_2009 Dec 7, 10, 00:34 #157
we only talk about what's not solved for us don't we, we humans, we search for answers

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May 31, 11, 20:29 #158

Dude, if she is such a bad person, why dont you leave her? I am getting sick of some ******* complaining about his marriage because he thought it will be sooooo great to marry a polish chick just for fun? Excuse me for being a ***** but marriage is not to find blonde chick with big boobies to have fun with but more to be with this person to the end of your life. Where you come from?
I am married to american also, and we never had such a problems like you have. Yes, it will be hard, because of 2 different people. But if someone wants to be with that person they have to working on marriage. I changed a lot so do my hubby. I never had problems with him about money and i never asked him to give me his money. I found a job few months after we got married so we didnt have to worry about it. He is a great man and he tries hard to be a good husband and i do love everything about him.

P.s about sex life i do love having sex with my husband.

PolskiMocThreads: 7 Posts: 488 Joined: Mar 15, 10 ♂ [Suspended]	May 31, 11, 21:28 #159
I think you are talking about most women of all different ethnicities.

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Edited by: Havok May 31, 11, 21:28 #160

@OP

What you've described here is 100% accurate for the majority of girls from any poor country marring the so called “well off American”.

Your hopes of finding someone nice to spend the rest of your life with and her hopes of hitting the jackpot by marring you, created a not so tasty mix of American pie, (way of life) and żurek, (of the Polish mentality) that you both had to consume.

She was disappointed because she couldn’t show off to her friends in Poland with your, err, her “wealth, power and well being”, and you were disappointed because she ripped your heart out and ruined your life.

It happens all the time.

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May 31, 11, 21:34 #161

Havok:

Your hopes of finding someone nice to spend the rest of your life with and her hopes of hitting the jackpot by marring you, created a not so tasty mix of American pie, (way of life) and żurek, (of the Polish mentality) that you both had to consume.

She was disappointed because she couldn’t show off to her friends in Poland with your, err, her “wealth, power and well being”, and you were disappointed because she ripped your heart out and ruined your life.

i don't think you know what you're talking about - you're married to an American...

HavokThreads: 14 Posts: 1,508 Joined: Mar 12, 10 MEMBER ♂	Edited by: Havok May 31, 11, 23:12 #162
pgtx: i don't think you know what you're talking about - you're married to an American... Are you one of those girls and know it better than anyone?

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Jun 16, 11, 00:21 #163

I don't know what you're on about, my polish gf is lovely (4yrs now) not even slightly materialistic, likes her shoes and buys them with her own money and even decides when she's bought enough and sets restrictions on how long she's banned from buying stuff. I just let her get on with it, she's sometimes a bit tightly wound but then she's always been motivated. Great sense of humour and we laugh all the time. At the beginning of the relationship I made a deal with her, "I only have one rule, at the weekend, I get to watch football" She was fine with that and even got into it and enjoys watching games with me. She can finally explain the offside rule and knows a goalie should never concede at his nearpost :D

I have to marry this girl!

JonnyMThreads: 16 Posts: 4,487 Joined: Mar 9, 11 ♂	Jun 16, 11, 00:27 #164
TheMan: my polish gf is lovely (4yrs now) Isn't that a bit young for you?

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Jun 16, 11, 00:28 #165
It's heaven and hell. When my wife really tries, she is immense! When she runs into problems, ouch!

TheManThreads: - Posts: 84 Joined: Jun 14, 11 ♂	Edited by: TheMan Jun 16, 11, 00:43 #166
JonnyM: Isn't that a bit young for you? Lol, nice one She's actually older than me.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Jun 16, 11, 00:45 #167
Ah, young love, a disease indeed ;)

mackenzieThreads: 1 Posts: 2 Joined: Jun 17, 11 ♀	Jun 17, 11, 08:57 #168
I did not read all of the post or reply's but I am American born half polish woman and would hate to be stereo typed because of my heritage. Who I am has nothing to do with where my genealogy lays, and I truly hope you find someone worth spending your life with .

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Jun 17, 11, 11:08 #169
Good point, mac :) Some just get unlucky but that can happen anywhere. Many Polish girls have many plusses but they are their own worst enemies at times. Many can be like governments in that if there isn't a problem, they create one.

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	Jun 17, 11, 11:21 #170
Yes,how do they manage to get into so much trouble?Lots has to do with wrong choices.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Jun 17, 11, 23:18 #171
Bumbling and more bumbling, a big problem here. Gibbering at the rate of knots only gets you so far.

blue29	Feb 16, 12, 02:41 #172
just scary lol very sexy very nice in bed rest they suck

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