sorry for maybe peoples misconceptions of my post, i am not tight with money and most certainly not trying to degrade females from eastern europe, i believe money is for spending i have no misconceptions about my mortality i live every day but also plan for tomoro incase i am fortunate enough to see tomoro, if you can understand that? but if i am fortunate enough to live a long live i would like to spend it with some one worth while. i think men and women can both appreciate that it is better to have mutual love in a relationship rather than having a relationship of convienience?
ShortHairThug: What I’m suggesting is that in order to have any meaningful relationship with a woman no matter what nationality she is you have to throw away your bias and negative stereotypes. The statement you have made suggested that all East European women are gold-diggers and tramps and that my friend is not going to get you a date anytime soon no matter what nationality she happens to be or how loaded you think you are but it does speak of your character a great deal, ever heard of a fvcking prenup? Since you already passed judgment and have such a low opinion of them then what I have actually suggested is that you start looking elsewhere, perhaps even to your own family so that your fortune stays in the family but I did not want to be so blunt.
maybe i have offended you which wasnt my intentions, iam fascinated by the culture of the women from eastern europe and want to know more about the women from these cultures. i have heard and witnessed a few things BUT MY MIND IS STILL VERY OPEN and i want to know what to expect from women from this different type of culture, if i ever have the privilage to date a women from eastern europe background.
Mrs Mom: Dont get me wrong but eastern european women DO want "to be house wives" simply by their nature and nurture, THIS is why they want men with MONEY and NOT because they want to be escords. personality only coutns if you have family relationship MORALS and they CANT stand a guy who thinks that he looks better then them.
thank you for your input you have given me something to think about, im not saying iam looking for a "house wife" or "slave" but i would like to know what to expect of the culture and as i pressumed morals and family relationships mean alot to Polish women, something that means a lot to me too, thanks!
southern: Because you overpay.And with mediteranean women you get the goodies after you pay while polish give them before in order to make you fall in their trap.Anyway I manage to survive.
what do you mean by this?
euphore: I should quit my job and studies and look for some rich dutch guy lol. I think the problem is the point of view, still different mentality. Even If we're talking about silly things like paying for a dinner in restaurant. It's changing with time, especially in young generation but most of polish women are just grew up with traditional image of a man - as householder. It's clear that money means a sense of security BUT It doesn't mean that they try to catch the richest man in the neighborhood. I have never met this kind of polish woman in my life. I want to be independent but I woudn't feel comfortable with feeling that I earn more than my partner. I suspect It's all because of way of raising and authority of my father. I'm thinking how does It look now in polish way of thinking? Would you (polish men) like to earn less than your wife/partner? And next thing, I agree that polish women are more "house wifes" type but we shouldn't generalize all women. I know a lot of exeptions:)
i hope you have success through your studies, i have met a few polish men through the type of buisness that i am heavily involved in (security) and alot of people from this country i live give people from poland a tough time because they say they are stealing their jobs, i dont agree with this at all. i think it shows how strong the character of the polish man is to move to another country, learn another language and being able to deal with people looking down upon them constantly all to get a better life for them and there family here and back! to me, that is special.
thank you for your input in helping me understand abit more of women from your culture :)
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