POLISH GIRL I REALLY LIKE, BUT she says we have no future

TrevekThreads: 33 Posts: 2,155 Joined: May 21, 08 ♂	May 31, 10, 12:33 #31
Miguel Colombia: Why do you deny it. YOu know it´s the truth. Do I deny it? I'm a member of a group who married a Polish woman (not the same one)

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May 31, 10, 12:35 #32

I think that you will find that everything seems to work on the internet because you can often forget very important circumstances such as how are you going to find work, if you move to poland for instance ?

I met a Polish girl that i am dating , whilst i was working in America. You can't expect someone to instantly say "i love you" you say you have talked for 2 months online , but realistically you have only known her 2 days.

Just play it cool and see how it pans out, from experience with women , the more you ask the questions they don't want to hear the more you **** them off and they leave you ! ha ha

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May 31, 10, 23:30 #33

SV999:

Well, it is very difficult........we got to know each other well before we met but she said when we met she would know "instantly" if she could fall in love with me. I believe that this instant love is not love at all & rarely lasts. She recently split from a very long term partner & says she is lost. She tells me she really really likes me but does not think this is enough. I think loves grows from within over time & it is more important to really like the person & enjoy spending time with them when you first meet, which we both did. I know i am not in love yet but also know that i have never felt like this about anyone before & she tells me the same. Very difficult to know what to do next!

I'll translate for you:

There wasnt the spark, she's not too interested.

Harsh but IMO true.

beckskiThreads: 19 Posts: 2,148 Joined: May 15, 07 MEMBER ♀	Jun 1, 10, 03:29 #34
SV999: We met in Poland & spent 2 happy days together. SV999: I really like her & find that immediate love very rarely happens. Is this a normal reaction? 2 days is probably not enough time for most people to fall into an actual love, regardless of of gender, ethnicity, etc. A sincere thanks PF, for putting up with me FIVE terrific years, muah!

SokratesThreads: 19 Posts: 4,464 Joined: Jan 19, 09 ♂ [Suspended]	Jun 1, 10, 15:58 #35
Trevek: Do I deny it? I'm a member of a group who married a Polish woman Best. Statement. Ever :)))

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	Jun 1, 10, 16:52 #36
I would like to ask the IMF how we are supposed to finance the Polki in this environment.At least we don't pay polkotax.

frdThreads: 8 Posts: 1,956 Joined: Feb 3, 09 ♂	Jun 1, 10, 16:54 #37
Trevek: member of a group so... how can one join such group?

abraham	Jun 2, 10, 19:49 #38
I was married to a polish girl for 12 years don't make a mistake of your life .stay away

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER ♀	Jun 2, 10, 19:50 #39
abraham: I was married to a polish girl for 12 years don't make a mistake of your life .stay away what? she had actually something to say in this marriage??

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07 ♂	Jun 2, 10, 19:53 #40
Polish women...spawn of the devil..!

shushThreads: 5 Posts: 552 Joined: Dec 20, 09 ♀	Jun 2, 10, 20:01 #41
abraham: I was married to a polish girl for 12 years don't make a mistake of your life .stay away There was too much salt in the soup? pgtx: what? she had actually something to say in this marriage?? Perhaps she did chose once by herself what to cook and that was the end...

Barr_2009Threads: 1 Posts: 280 Joined: Oct 11, 09 ♂	Jun 3, 10, 20:57 #42
I met a Polish girl in krakow at the weekend. She was awesome actually, and pretty. We got on really well and she thought so, but maybe just wants to be friends, unclear yet, but the trip to this beautiful city and her friends, have helped to change my opinion of Polish women, which was honestly a bit negative. But that trip has helped me see some good sides of the Poles. She was really awesome.

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07 ♂	Jun 4, 10, 00:11 #43
Barr_2009: She was really awesome. She can,t have been Polish then...must have been one of those Japanese girls...!

ShawnHThreads: 9 Posts: 3,056 Joined: Jul 2, 09 ♂	Jun 4, 10, 00:14 #44
Barr_2009: She was really awesome. They all are, until they break your heart.

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Edited by: Vawery Jun 7, 10, 23:56 #45

I guess that here the point is to know how to keep the flame of the love alive. Even if that girl has said you she's not sure enough you've to act the way it feels more comfortable for her in order to not upset her because it'll be difficult for both if you haven't got patience. This girl may feel stressed with all of this, and for that I think you should wait her in decisions she makes cuz in the end could be better for you and for her, because as you said, she's not in love at all, so waiting and with patience this love will progress (it's just my opinion) And as far as I know, there are not too reasons to feel bad or so so confuse: you have actually already met her and was good, so this should work for the moment, in other cases it's clear that doesn't work, but in that case, why not?

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Jun 8, 10, 19:50 #46

beckski:

2 days is probably not enough time for most people to fall into an actual love, regardless of of gender, ethnicity, etc.

Even 2 seconds can be enough. Even 20 years may not be enough.

Lets say. Bill Gates is single and knocked your door one night and said "i love you", how long would it take to kiss him? 2 seconds.

You marry him and if he starts to loose his wealth with marriage, how long would it take to kick him out? 20 years.

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Edited by: Vawery Jun 10, 10, 20:43 #47

nomaderol:

Even 2 seconds can be enough. Even 20 years may not be enough.

Lets say. Bill Gates is single and knocked your door one night and said "i love you", how long would it take to kiss him? 2 seconds.

You marry him and if he starts to loose his wealth with marriage, how long would it take to kick him out? 20 years.

And you could add: How long would it take to kick him out if he starts to loose his fortune? 2 seconds

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Miguel ColombiaThreads: 3 Posts: 711 Joined: Apr 20, 10 ♂	Jun 10, 10, 21:11 #48
If she saw your wallet and said you don´t have a future together, believe her.

SouthMancPolakThreads: 2 Posts: 202 Joined: Apr 10, 10 ♂	Jun 10, 10, 21:15 #49
Haven't you already answered the question yourself? So you like her... SV999: Polish girl I really like SV999: But she says we have no future. Time to move onto some next girl innit. Simples!

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Dec 1, 10, 19:23 #50

Hey Everyone I Am Fahad And Ive Been In Poland Since One Month I Need Some Help I Am Really Confused....
I Study At A University And There I Met This Girl Shes Very Beautifull And Calm I Was Really Attracted To Her And I began talking to her after one or two times we talked i was coming back home and i found that she also comes back from university from the same way so when we came near to my home i asked her for a tea or coffee and she agreed and we had a great time laughing and easy going chat and stuff............
And Then Next Day I Was Standing Outside My Home And She Came And When She Saw Me She Gave A Smile I Shook Hands With Her said her "hello how are you"
and asked her its too cold maybe you would like to have some tea/coffee but she replied to me that WHY AM I INVITING HER and she doesnt WANTS TO GIVE ME A WRONG IMPRESSION i was shocked to listen that i didnt understood what she meant and then she said she had some home work to do and she went giving a smile

hope some one can help me ut

WroclawThreads: 77 Posts: 7,404 Joined: Apr 1, 06 ♂ [Moderator]	Dec 1, 10, 19:31 #51
Fahad: Ive Been In Poland Since One Month I Need Some Help the first time she was being polite the second time she was busy... or maybe she got the wrong idea... or maybe you should have given it a bit more time... or maybe it's time to move on.

FahadThreads: - Posts: 3 Joined: Dec 1, 10 ♂	Dec 3, 10, 16:53 #52
Thanks Wroclaw for ur answer but she is really a strange girl she is always quite,alone never seen her with someone not even friends and what do u mean by time to move on?

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Dec 3, 10, 16:58 #53
I think she was just putting her cards on the table from the outset, thus protecting herself against a possible future hurt. There are plenty more fish in the sea but free up some time, they take a lot of work ;)

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Dec 3, 10, 18:11 #54

Fahad:

she replied to me that WHY AM I INVITING HER and she doesnt WANTS TO GIVE ME A WRONG IMPRESSION i was shocked to listen that i didnt understood what she meant and then she said she had some home work to do and she went giving a smile

polish women can often seem direct when the speak English, which is honestly refreshing at list she hasn't strung you along. move on and be happy. love will find you, not you it.

My wife was and is always direct when she speaks, which is great because you know exactly where you stand.

FahadThreads: - Posts: 3 Joined: Dec 1, 10 ♂	Dec 4, 10, 12:14 #55
yea maybe but i'm really falling for her

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