Polish girlfriends testing guys with "Are you Angry with me" texts

Mark29

Jan 24, 11, 02:14 #1

This is a very big one.

It is about the theory of IGNORING UNWANTED BEHAVIOUR in order to change it.

Many of my attractive polish girlfriends, over the last years,
after break their promises or plans they made before to meet, they all write the same thing:

"I hope you are not angry. Have a nice night, Kisses"

or "Are you angry with me?"

They never apologize. They just try to make it like I am angry with them....

Usually I used to reply

"It is very hard to make me angry, I am very calm person".

But I guess that is not teasing , nor attractive.

I want to spark much more attraction.

How would a strong man reply to that, to spark more attraction?

I tried ignoring them.

If I don't reply, they usually write the next day:

"Hey I should call you Mr. Angry or Mr. Huffish ?
I was hoping you are not so angry with me :P Enjoy today "

I know this is extreme mind-playing from their part,
but what is actual a good nonchalant action to do?

Or I should ignore more days? But if I ignore more days,
the connection between us is getting lost, especially at the beginning of a relationship.

What would you answer to that?

Huge thank you guys!

PlasticPoleThreads: 10 Posts: 5,433 Joined: May 28, 09 ♀	Jan 24, 11, 02:16 #2
My answer would be to find someone else who values my time.

JaneDoeThreads: 7 Posts: 237 Joined: Sep 26, 08 ♂	Jan 24, 11, 02:19 #3
PlasticPole: My answer would be to find someone else who values my time. Agree. Mark29: What would you answer to that? Childish behavior.

Mark29	Jan 24, 11, 02:29 #4
Yes, but somehow , all VERY ATTRACTIVE polish girlfriends that I had/have behaved in this way, and also to all my friends, the same. They are young, it's true, 18-21 years old, but I know that when you look strong and unaffected, and you play the game stronger, they often fall in love with you :) Thanks for your thoughts guys

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Jan 24, 11, 02:36 #5

Mark29:

Yes, but somehow , all VERY ATTRACTIVE polish girlfriends that I had/have behaved in this way, and also to all my friends, the same. They are young, it's true, 18-21 years old, but I know that when you look strong and unaffected, and you play the game stronger, they often fall in love with you :)

Thanks for your thoughts guys

It's the same complaint every guy who tries to date super gorgeous women has. The women have so many friends, they are booked solid and don't have a lot of spare time. You might call it the beautiful and the damned.

Fajne cycki

Jan 24, 11, 04:02 #6

Mark29:

I tried ignoring them.

If I don't reply, they usually write the next day:

"Hey I should call you Mr. Angry or Mr. Huffish ?
I was hoping you are not so angry with me :P Enjoy today "

I know this is extreme mind-playing from their part,
but what is actual a good nonchalant action to do?

Or I should ignore more days? But if I ignore more days,
the connection between us is getting lost, especially at the beginning of a relationship.

According to my Polish (female) professor in Poland, ignorance can create anger and only negative emotions. I think it will discourage a girl, Polish gilrs believe that guys are more emotionally stronger and confident to always make a move.

Mark29:

How would a strong man reply to that, to spark more attraction?

You flirt, use fictionary, playful imagination.. like for

Mark29:

"I hope you are not angry. Have a nice night, Kisses"

Thanks, I am going to have a fun night and will have your kisses in mind that you send me, I hope I don't make you too shy at giving me real ones."

girls like confident guys.

♂

Jan 24, 11, 07:46 #7

Usually if you want to show negativism you just answer with an sms shorter than that of the girl.For example:are you angry with me?-No,it is OK.
Generally sms are very much in favor of men and women avoid them if they want to tell sth serious they prefer the phone call which is disadvantageous for the man and advantageous for the woman.So as a man I always reply with sms because if you call after an sms of cancelling you will appear weak due to not doing the continuous sh1t testing she would do in your case.
So she has to remain always in doubt and give physical compensations for her outrageous behaviour.

Mark29	Jan 24, 11, 09:51 #8
southern your ideas are really good, you have good experience with polish girls I already ignored her for 2 straight days, how to reply now and not make her also ignore me for many days, as a revenge? Thank you guys

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	Jan 24, 11, 10:02 #9
Mark29: I already ignored her for 2 straight days, how to reply now Do not reply at all.She will reply to you in 2-3 days.If you want to challenge her just call her.But if you didn't write to her better do not write at all.

NomadatNetThreads: 6 Posts: 1,492 Joined: Mar 28, 09 ♂	Jan 24, 11, 10:17 #10
Fajne cycki: According to my Polish professor in Poland, ignorance can create anger and only negative emotions. This is why they are becoming professors, to get rid of ignorance.

♂

Edited by: southern Jan 24, 11, 10:33 #11

Slavic women use a lot of psychomanipulation which I would describe as hot cold.They turn you hot then cold then hot again to extreme temperatures till you melt.The point is to react more than they waited for.For example you turn uberhot and ubercold and this inspires their imagination as it causes intrigue.The western answer is to stay the same no matter what they do but this is perceived as western analgesia and analism.

HotCold	Jan 24, 11, 15:35 #12
southern, but if you turn superhot and supercold, you look like psychologically weak and instable,... men should be strong, right?

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	Jan 24, 11, 16:51 #13
HotCold: you look like psychologically weak and instable,... men should be strong, right? For some reason polish women prefer emotionally weak guys.This is unacceptable for Russkaye where you have to be a bear.Just kidding.Anyway some fear is advisable if you have to do with Russians but with polish you go with the flow.

STHRE	Jan 25, 11, 01:37 #14
You can't be serious... are you sure polish women prefer emotionally weak guys??

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	Jan 25, 11, 10:23 #15
Yes,they like weak machos.

Wroclaw BoyThreads: 57 Posts: 5,478 Joined: Jul 3, 09 MEMBER ♂	Edited by: Wroclaw Boy Jan 25, 11, 10:27 #16
STHRE: You can't be serious... are you sure polish women prefer emotionally weak guys?? Dont listen to Southern, hes obsessed with porn and lives in a fantasy world. Of course Polish women dont like emotionally weak men. southern: they like weak machos. whats a weak macho? you i suppose.

Forums Junkee	Jan 26, 11, 00:08 #17
Wroclaw Boy: Dont listen to Southern, hes obsessed with porn and lives in a fantasy world. he is also gay southern: For some reason polish women prefer emotionally weak guys. southern: If you want to challenge her just call her.But if you didn't write to her better do not write at all. as well as challenged (not challenging)

jonniThreads: 26 Posts: 4,181 Joined: Nov 27, 07 ♂	Jan 26, 11, 00:15 #18
Forums Junkee: he is also gay Nah, if he was gay he'd probably actually be getting some action other than with his own hand.

PF Junkee	Jan 26, 11, 00:35 #19
he's challenged

f stopThreads: 33 Posts: 2,861 Joined: Dec 9, 09 ♀	Edited by: f stop Jan 26, 11, 02:04 #20
why not just say, "I don't like when you break promises, the least you should do is apologize"? If you don't like playing games, don't play them.

♂

Jan 26, 11, 02:11 #21

southern:

Slavic women use a lot of psychomanipulation which I would describe as hot cold.They turn you hot then cold then hot again to extreme temperatures till you melt.The point is to react more than they waited for.For example you turn uberhot and ubercold and this inspires their imagination as it causes intrigue.The western answer is to stay the same no matter what they do but this is perceived as western analgesia and analism.

Good analyse. So, they are like Hellens? who were like hell to the others while they were living in the heaven?

♂

Jan 26, 11, 02:53 #22

Mark29:

Yes, but somehow , all VERY ATTRACTIVE polish girlfriends that I had/have behaved in this way, and also to all my friends, the same.

I would suggest the following:

1. Learn Polish and reply to them in Polish, this way there would be no room for error.
2. Realize if they are Polish, then english is the second language.
3. If so many of your beautiful young Polish girlfriends are not up to standard with English, get yourself a native English speaking girlfriend.

F***ing unbelievable bull people come out with.

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07 ♂	Edited by: plk123 Jan 26, 11, 11:10 #23
f stop: If you don't like playing games, don't play them. exactly.. a wanna be player trying to play.. too funny.. warszawski: F***ing unbelievable bull people come out with. tis the polish forums

Julia2	Jan 26, 11, 12:59 #24
the poor guy was just asking for advice you attack him only for him asking advice? what's the point of the forum then anyway, if not for discussion and colaboration? I noticed the same thing as SOUTHERN about polish girls SOUTHERN actually is a great smart guy

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07 ♂	Jan 26, 11, 13:41 #25
Julia2: the poor guy was just asking for advice you attack him only for him asking advice? he's asking how to play some stupid head games.. he isn't asking for real relationship advice..

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07 ♂	Jan 26, 11, 13:47 #26
Julia2: you attack him only for him asking advice? Oh yussss beat him , kick his ass , throw big potatoes at his knees.... That will teach him for coming on here....ha..!

Julia2	Jan 26, 11, 14:34 #27
it was actually a very normal question, the guy was just surprised at the high level of mindgames playing that polish girls do usually... and he didn't know how to answer in order to keep the attraction going

Mr GrunwaldThreads: 34 Posts: 2,358 Joined: Dec 16, 08 ♂	Edited by: Mr Grunwald Jan 26, 11, 15:06 #28
Julia2: you attack him only for him asking advice? Becaouse we have all been reading his posts the last few years... ;p and we KNOW what he will say and we KNOW what they mean and etc etc wildrover: Oh yussss beat him , kick his ass , throw big potatoes at his knees.... That will teach him for coming on here....ha..! Laughed by butts off! HAAH xD

Pinching PeteThreads: 1 Posts: 1,111 Joined: Feb 23, 08 ♂	Edited by: Pinching Pete Jan 26, 11, 19:47 #29
Like the old saying goes, "Treat who..res like queens and queens like who.res.." This is a good strategy because women always like the unexpected.

Julia2	Jan 27, 11, 04:01 #30
Pinching Pete: Treat who..res like queens and queens like who.res.." This is a good strategy because women always like the unexpected. than you obviously love to see them angry, does it turn you on? by the way, if you treat a who.re like a queen than she will take you for granted. hahaha!

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