Polish girls attitudes towards sex.

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Edited by: skysoulmate May 16, 10, 02:18 #511

Paulina:

Skysoulmate, you're right, I know it wasn't pretty :) And I didn't write about this at first because it was a PM. But my impression was (and probably still is, if I'm to be completely honest) that Seanus is a little sleasy (I don't know how to put it in English) and seems to be a twofaced person. I don't know him well so it's just an impression. And after some while I decided to write about it. I think he disrespected me first and more over - his wife. So I didn't feel obliged to show respect to a such person.

Sleasy? I wouldn't know Paulina even though I find his 9/11 conspiracies sleasy. Oooh, that felt goooood... ;)

If you felt the way you did you could've told him that via PM or even on the forum but without revealing his PRIVATE messages to you. Still think he deserves a simple "sorry" from you.

Paulina:

There is nothing to be ashamed of for Seanus as far as those private messages are concerned, people write to me on PM or e-mails, both men and women. So I don't think there's a problem. If Seanus thinks different then he should write so.
Moderator can delete my post if what I've done violates the rules of this forum.

I don't think you violated any rules here. I'm simply talking about respect for others - private or prywatne (I think?) means just that. Whether a compliment, a rebuke, flirtatious comment or sexual innuendoes - a private message is private.

Paulina:

As I wrote before to Seanus - generalisation for generalisation :)

Exactly, my point is do what you expect from us men - don't lump us all in the same category.

Paulina:

I don't get it ;)
It's a spelling mistake - I guess I was in hurry ;)
Does "aksed" mean anything?

I'm sorry, it was an insider joke. Many blacks here in the US (I find the term african american insulting and refuse to use it) speak with their own dialect which frankly originated in the lack of education due to the abhorrent past of slavery. It's typical to leave out prepositions, to shorten words and occationally to reverse letters in the spoken language. One of the most common words in the Ebonics (official term for the dialect) vernacular is "aks" - to aks or ax someone a question rather than to ask someone a question.

I knew you mispelled it (I have slight dyslexia so I sympathise ;) but chose to poke fun at you, that's all. LOL.
Note!!! My "poking" at you is totally asexual. :)

Here for your pleasure (no, not in the sexual way Paulina! ;)

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Edited by: skysoulmate May 16, 10, 02:42 #512

Paulina:

skysoulmate:
...and if he does then so what? Don't you ever have a "dirty" thought about a guy you're having a conversation with? Does that make you a bad person? I don't think so.

Skysoulmate, if I were married it wouldn't be good, I think :)

Paulina, I'm sorry, I missed this quote earlier.

You're joking right? Not sure if you're being sarcastic but if you're serious then I totally disagree with you.

I'm a Lutheran and I guess pretty conservative in certain ways but in my view fanasies are absolutely normal and a healthy part of human sexuality. If you think getting married means you'll stop fantasizing about having sex with other people you're wrong. It happens and there's nothing wrong with it. I did it sometimes and so did my ex-wife, I know because she'd tell me and I'd tell her and often we'd play those FANTASIES out - just her and I. (dressing up can be fun;)

What's wrong is when fantasies become realities and people start cheating! No excuse for that. So keep your fantasies where they belong, between you and your loved one.

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May 16, 10, 02:51 #513

skysoulmate:

I'm a Lutheran and I guess pretty conservative in certain ways but in my view fanasies are absolutely normal and a healthy part of human sexuality.

:)

skysoulmate:

So keep your fantasies where they belong, between you and your loved one.

Unless you're both honest and open-minded. (It's risky though, there's always a chance someone might regret it.) I wouldn't even tell my loved one my fantasies. (Yes, they're *that* bad!)

;P

I bet some people are curious now. Well, too bad!

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER ♀	May 16, 10, 06:15 #514
MareGaea: Polish women however, come from Uranus. Saturn actually.... because of its pretty moons... OK... i'd read more here and follow up, but you all are just dirty flirts... period! ;)

BzibziohThreads: 6 Posts: 3,657 Joined: Oct 15, 08 ♀ [Suspended]	May 16, 10, 06:25 #515
skysoulmate: I was picking on her earlier proclivity on thread of seeing sexual innuendos in each and every comment a man can make Oh, ya, she’s a pure menace ;) I'm sure she’ll exact revenge for that remark later. :) skysoulmate: I prefer lights on Bzibzioh lol Too much information ;) skysoulmate: (what does your name mean anyways?) It means to confuse :)

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Edited by: skysoulmate May 16, 10, 07:06 #516

pgtx:

Saturn actually.... because of its pretty moons...

Pretty moons and meteorite rings.

pgtx - the third one from the top left corner - is that you?? Dang girl, you are pretty! lol
...oh, boy, I must be flirting?

Seriously, Saturn does have some beautiful moons.

Bzibzioh:

Oh, ya, she’s a pure menace

Of course not. On the contrary BUT I'd have been on her side had another poster, man or a woman, disclosed her private messages. I realize there were no secrets in what she chose to share with us all, it's just the principle of trust and respect I believe in. My post was not against Paulina at all but rather against the action she took. That's all.

Bzibzioh:

;) I'm sure she’ll exact revenge for that remark later. :)

I'm sure she will. I'm digging a bunker in my backyard as we speak. ...and it's going to be very deeep! :)

Bzibzioh:

It means to confuse :)

Well, you could've used a simpler screen name such as woman, lady, dziewczyna, etc... I'd be just as confused... lol

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May 16, 10, 07:22 #517

skysoulmate:

it's just the principle of trust and respect I believe in.

I'm with you on that one. I had situation not long ago that someone on this forum I was PMing with got mad after a disagreement and was threatening to disclose my private info. Private should stay private.

skysoulmate:

Well, you could've used a simpler screen name, woman, lady, dziewczyna, etc

But I don't do simple. Ask my husband :)

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER ♀	May 16, 10, 07:27 #518
skysoulmate: Pretty moons and meteorite rings. i used to date an astronomer... damn, he didn't teach me much... Bzibzioh: Ask my husband :) hint after hint after hint... everybody needs to expose if they are married or not so things won't get nasty... ;)

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Edited by: skysoulmate May 16, 10, 07:35 #519

Bzibzioh:

I'm with you on that one. I had situation not long ago that someone on this forum I was PMing with got mad after a disagreement and was threatening to disclose my private info. Private should stay private.

Exactly, otherwise PM would be SPM, Somewhat or Semi-Private Message.

Bzibzioh:

But I don't do simple. Ask my husband :)

Of course you don't. The Y chromosome which you women do not have is also called the "simple" chromosome. So you're all complicated by nature. LOL

BzibziohThreads: 6 Posts: 3,657 Joined: Oct 15, 08 ♀ [Suspended]	Edited by: Bzibzioh May 16, 10, 07:37 #520
pgtx: i used to date an astronomer... damn, he didn't teach me much... But I'm sure he enjoyed showing you the stars ... :) skysoulmate: Of course you don't. The Y chromosome which you women do not have is also called the "simple" chromosome. So you're all complicated by nature. LOL You see, pgtx, he gets me :)

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Edited by: skysoulmate May 16, 10, 07:42 #521

pgtx:

i used to date an astronomer... damn, he didn't teach me much...

Hopefully you got to experience the supernovae? lol

Actually, I enjoy astronomy, that's what got me interested in aviation I suppose.

pgtx:

everybody needs to expose if they are married or not so things won't get nasty...

Hmm, maybe besides the male/female category we should also be able to chose other qualifiers: single, engaged, married, semi-married & looking, looking, desperate, confused, flirty but nothing else than flirty, etc., etc. :)

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Edited by: Moderator May 16, 10, 08:09 #522

Bzibzioh:

I'm not sure I like that category. But I'd bet serious money that a lot of guys do!

Bzibzioh, you'd be surprised how many women do too. Several years ago I was asked by a friend I'd know for many years if I'd ever shared a woman with another man? I asked what she meant and she said that she along with her husband wouldn't mind if I'd joined their "love circle!" I almost fell off my chair; this was a lady I'd known for years and never, not even once would I've ever imagined her being a swinger. She was pretty too. I told her I appreciated the "offer" but that some things are just too precious to be shared. Have had very hard time having conversations with her ever since (used to live close to each other) but I promised her I'd never share her secret with our mutual friends and I haven't and never will.

PS. I was joking about creating those categories here. Instead I'd prefer: likes Poland a lot, likes Poland somewhat, hates Poland, etc. :)

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May 16, 10, 12:10 #523

skysoulmate:

If you felt the way you did you could've told him that via PM or even on the forum but without revealing his PRIVATE messages to you. Still think he deserves a simple "sorry" from you.

OK, you're right. I let out the steam yesterday and I'm much less bit*hy today so I can apologise if he didn't like that I wrote about his private messages.

skysoulmate:

Exactly, my point is do what you expect from us men - don't lump us all in the same category.

Skysoulmate, it was my little revenge for what is written here about Polish women (and not only about Polish ones, actually). And look how men reacted :) All the indignation :)))

I wasn't writing from my own experience. That's just "common knowledge" that men's nature is poligamic. I think many women think this way ;)

skysoulmate:

Note!!! My "poking" at you is totally asexual. :)

Here for your pleasure (no, not in the sexual way Paulina! ;)

I can see I joined the club of members with weird obsessions - like Crow and his Slavic thing LOL Now I'm the One Who Sees Flirting Everywhere ;)

Bzibzioh:

Oh, ya, she’s a pure menace

;) I'm sure she’ll exact revenge for that remark later. :)

No, I can be a menace sometimes ;)

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Edited by: Seanus May 16, 10, 12:19 #524

Another instance of dissatisfaction manifesting itself here. I was told by Polish men to try certain things and they virtually guaranteed what the reaction would be from your standard woman. They were right! I've seen some Polish women try and catch me out and even turn things into my fault when it was blatantly theirs. There are so many disgruntled and conniving sods, I wouldn't trust them as far as I could throw them. I've had numerous episodes over the years where a Polish woman has turned against me but their own emotional turmoil and desperation has caused them to lash out. One went against her boyfriend and tried it on with me. When I showed her that I wasn't interested, she turned against me. I only refused her, nothing more.

Then there was the episode where the 2 Polish girls were late to work, thus I couldn't get in (they had the keys for the bottom door). I rushed to get up the stairs but they were 20 mins late. I had no time to photocopy. I let the copier make copies and then went off to make a quick coffee. They blamed me for time wasting. No apology for being late and they had the gaul to accuse me of time wasting, LOL. You can't rush into teaching, it doesn't work! They are pathetic bits of sh*t under my shoe!!

No, I don't expect an apology at all. I think it proves what I thought and goes to show that certain Polish women are headcases and don't respect privacy. Anything for an attack and a low/cheap one at that. You should feel ashamed but, being a specific type of Pole (quite prevalent), you'll likely deny that you did anything wrong. I have a good impression of many here but acknowledging wrongdoing and being grateful don't enter your vocab so I expect nothing!

It is NOT my intention to tar all with the same brush. There are many gems here and I've met them. I just know your type and will tread with caution from now on.

OK, I've just read your post. Everyone can let out steam sometimes so that's cool if you were pent up. We all get cranky and like that from time to time and I don't wanna lock horns over the net. Frankly, it's petty. I didn't read your definition of a man ;) ;) ;) ;) but one conception of mine is that I will discuss it face-to-face with those I know, esp men. I'm a big lad and man up when I have to. You are a woman that I don't know so it makes no sense for me to let this linger/continue. Let's move on!

Some women are golddiggers and others aren't. The same everywhere. I expect defensiveness here, don't worry.

king polkakamonThreads: 1 Posts: 1,018 Joined: Dec 30, 09 ♂	May 16, 10, 12:26 #525
Paulina: I joined the club of members with weird obsessions The only one not obsessed is me my Majesty.

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Edited by: Moderator May 16, 10, 12:44 #526

Seanus:

OK, I've just read your post.

LOL

Better late than ever, I guess ;)

Seanus:

I will discuss it face-to-face with those I know, esp men. I'm a big lad and man up when I have to.

I just wonder, Seanus, whether you tell those Polish women face-to-face what you think about them. Because I don't think anyone likes to be talked about behind his/hers back (like many do that here on this forum, not only you). I don't think it's pretty either.
And some women maybe would change their ways if you were honest with them :)

can we call an end to this please. it's off topic.

king polkakamonThreads: 1 Posts: 1,018 Joined: Dec 30, 09 ♂	May 16, 10, 12:51 #527
Paulina if you suggest that polish women are faithful,I am ready to eat my scalp.I have to turn you to order.

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Edited by: skysoulmate May 16, 10, 13:00 #528

Paulina:

I can see I joined the club of members with weird obsessions - like Crow and his Slavic thing LOL Now I'm the One Who Sees Flirting Everywhere ;)

Well, it could be worst. We could put you in the "man-hater conspiracy" camp. ...but we know that's not who you are. So enjoy your club and wink at us every now and then. ;)

Paulina:

OK, you're right. I let out the steam yesterday and I'm much less bit*hy today so I can apologise if he didn't like that I wrote about his private messages.

Fair enough and I see that seanus accepted your appology. Admitting making a mistake speaks volumes about you and I like what I'm hearing.

Paulina:

Skysoulmate, it was my little revenge for what is written here about Polish women (and not only about Polish ones, actually). And look how men reacted :) All the indignation :)))

You're right, there are many pretty stupid comments here about the Polish women or women in general, ...or men, or America, etc., etc. Yeah, basically about everything. When I get ticked off I look for another thread or create my own. lol

Paulina:

I wasn't writing from my own experience. That's just "common knowledge" that men's nature is poligamic. I think many women think this way ;)

I agree with you that many women think this way about men but I disagree with the premise of this selective truth Paulina. You believe what you've been hearing in the past because you want to believe it.

Yes, many men do cheat - that's a fact. However, many women also cheat - that's another fact.

In the past the perception was that men cheated more often because they were "polygamic" however now when women don't have to worry about old taboos such as being a virgin when getting married, or becoming pregnant, or hiding their desires, etc., etc. we're finding that women are just as aggresive in their pursuit of sexuality as men are.

It's possible that men still stray more than women do but unless you and others drop old assumptions about the two sexes our societies will never change.

So again, judge people on their individual actions and not their gender, age, race or whatever divider you pick.

king polkakamonThreads: 1 Posts: 1,018 Joined: Dec 30, 09 ♂	May 16, 10, 13:21 #529
Paulina: And I didn't think I would make a good nun ;) Nor do I.Nuns have certain needs.These polish nuns must suffer a lot. Paulina: Some are faithful Yes,the ones you don't get.I know.

joepilsudskiThreads: 44 Posts: 2,529 Joined: Apr 27, 07 ♂	May 17, 10, 23:44 #530
Polish girls attitudes towards sex. What a question!...They enjoy if their needs are taken into consideration.

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