fingermouse: Just simple things like making a cup of tea for her, which normally is no problem, suddenly this will become the worst thing in the world and I always do it wrong
no milk! a slice of lemon! 2 sugars! not too strong!!! how difficult is that?!?!
ha ha ;D
fingermouse: I am guessing its just her and sometimes she gets wound up by something and starts to take it out on me
sounds like most people when they are having a bad day. the key is to just put your hands on her shoulders, look her in the eyes and say 'babe i love you but you really wind me up sometimes' see if that works. Polish people appreciate directness so don't beat around the bush and walk on eggshells when she's in one of those moods cos she'll think it's ok. confront her, not in an aggressive way of course, but do. and don't patronise her, we hate that.
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