Would Polish girls mind that I am a Chinese guy?

AusAsianThreads: 1 Posts: 2 Joined: Jan 31, 09 ♂	Jan 31, 09, 20:52 #1
I am not too sure about the general attitude of polish girls towards an australian-malaysian chinese guy like me. I have been talking online to a polish girl, but I don't know how she will react if I tell her my background? I want to tell her, but I don't know if I should.

Lodz_The_BoatThreads: 58 Posts: 2,314 Joined: Sep 7, 08 ♂	Feb 1, 09, 00:07 #2
What is your view regarding Polish girls? Do you think they are the perfect creation of God or smthin? :)... Good luck with your investigation anyways.

CheeryThreads: 27 Posts: 216 Joined: Nov 17, 08 ♂	Feb 1, 09, 00:32 #3
I know I wouldn't mind if you were a Chinese girl...

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Feb 1, 09, 05:02 #4

well,lodz,i always think girls from your country are perfect.:)))
and cheery gives ausasian a good answer,that he won't mind if you were a chinese girl,vice versa,that Polish girl will not mind if she knows that you are asian,or exactly chinese.
and ,ausasian,your words give me a feeling that as if you feel that it is a ....ignominious thing to be a chinese.what makes you think so?ALL MEN ARE EQUAL,BE THEY WHITES,YELLOWS,OR BLACKS.

AusAsianThreads: 1 Posts: 2 Joined: Jan 31, 09 ♂	Feb 1, 09, 05:36 #5
I guess I was mistaken. I was just getting the feeling that polish girls rather go with a white guy, whos tall and better looking. Not that I am short though, I am around 180cm. Thanks for replying though.

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Feb 2, 09, 03:48 #6

AusAsian:

I am not too sure about the general attitude of polish girls towards an australian-malaysian chinese guy like me.

I have been talking online to a polish girl, but I don't know how she will react if I tell her my background?

I want to tell her, but I don't know if I should.

I live in Australia ( my wife is Chinese) ,and we had ( we moved to different city) few mixed couples where wife was Polish and other half was Chinese. All our close friends are mixture of Asian and European.
If one loves - race does not matter. You marry person that you love and admire, and that is what you see looking at one. With time you do not even notice that the other person is of different race. So if you impress her she may be yours.

McCoyThreads: 46 Posts: 1,756 Joined: Jul 3, 08 ♂	Edited by: McCoy Feb 2, 09, 05:07 #7
chinczyk: ALL MEN ARE EQUAL,BE THEY WHITES,YELLOWS,OR BLACKS. unless they all take the pants off.

Cardno85Threads: 33 Posts: 858 Joined: Jul 11, 08 MEMBER ♂	Feb 2, 09, 07:56 #8
If she says anything then just affect an irish accent and say: "Ach, the chinese...great bunch o lads!"

giovannile07Threads: 6 Posts: 41 Joined: Dec 25, 08 ♂	Feb 3, 09, 01:14 #9
I'm Vietnamese... I don't know any Polish girls, but I wouldn't mind telling them I'm Vietnamese...

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Feb 5, 09, 02:58 #10

Okay..AusAsian....first of all, I have to say its guys like you that make it difficult for yourself....and in turn give all Asians a bad reputation by putting such a silly title in your thread. Maybe 'would polish girls mind someone who is insecure about their own race?' would be a better title....

AusAsian:

I am not too sure about the general attitude of polish girls towards an australian-malaysian chinese guy like me.

Australian-malaysian-chinese guy like you...okay, that sounds pretty exotic, so you know what....use it to your advantage instead of putting the blame on your culture and race.

AusAsian:

I have been talking online to a polish girl, but I don't know how she will react if I tell her my background?

I want to tell her, but I don't know if I should.

Well..how long do you think you can keep a lie? Again...keep it real.

AusAsian:

I was just getting the feeling that polish girls rather go with a white guy, whos tall and better looking.

Please don't generalize, its offensive. Build up some confidence, because you are definitely not going to be sweeping anyone off their feets with your ideology..

ciao

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Feb 5, 09, 04:14 #11

AusAsian:

I am not too sure about the general attitude of polish girls towards an australian-malaysian chinese guy like me.

I have been talking online to a polish girl, but I don't know how she will react if I tell her my background?

I want to tell her, but I don't know if I should.

is this girl in australia?

you should be aware that every girl is different, regardless of ethnicity, and have varying tastes in what they desire in men.

David_18Threads: 111 Posts: 1,212 Joined: Jan 4, 07 ♂	Feb 5, 09, 07:05 #12
Well you should tell her about your background. If she doesn't accept you for just as you are. Then you should't waste anymore time on her.

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Feb 6, 09, 09:43 #13

jackedt:

Yesterday, 02:58 #10

Okay..AusAsian....first of all, I have to say its guys like you that make it difficult for yourself....and in turn give all Asians a bad reputation by putting such a silly title in your thread. Maybe 'would polish girls mind someone who is insecure about their own race?' would be a better title....

Excuse me mate, all I asked was a question. I didn't know much about Europe and how the girls who came here especially. I wanted to know how their views were on say someone asian. Is that a bad question to ask? It's as if you were grinding me out in a bad way.

jackedt:

Please don't generalize, its offensive. Build up some confidence, because you are definitely not going to be sweeping anyone off their feets with your ideology..

Seriously mate, you're taking things a bit far. I have australian girl pals, so don't go assuming I am generalizing. I haven't been to Europe nor know much about it, I just asked, and all you had to say was this >>>

jackedt:

Well..how long do you think you can keep a lie? Again...keep it real.

Compared to the other replies, you're angry at me of some sorts.

Anyhow for the others thank you for your helpful replies. I told her already and she doesn't care. Yes she is in my university, and we have been talking a lot to each other for last few days.

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Feb 6, 09, 10:09 #14

AusAsian:

polish girls rather go with a white guy

There is a point in that. I've heard many Polish chicks say they prefer white guys. But that fits in the general kind of conservative way of thinking which I find within most Polish ppl I know. But for the rest: girls are girls, no matter where they come from; they like you or they don't like you. And they all don't know what they want :)))

M-G (nah)

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Feb 7, 09, 02:50 #15

Hey AusAsian,

If you care to know. I'm Chinese and have visited Poland a couple of times. Perhaps my opinion and experience is relative to you and your situation. My replies may be a bit direct, but you can take the advice or leave it.

Its fine to ask questions, but please review the questions you have asked...and tell me that none of it had to do with you generalizing your background and how it 'might' be a disadvantage that you are asian...because that is exactly how you positioned your question. We know nothing about your qualities or characteristics as a person to offer you an opinion that is based outside of your ethnic background.

All I'm trying to say is take pride in who you are, and sell the positives of yourself, and be assertive. This is the approach you should be taking regardless of whether its the girl is polish, or asian, or russian..etc.

chinczykThreads: - Posts: 41 Joined: Oct 23, 08 ♂	Feb 10, 09, 06:48 #16
jackedt: All I'm trying to say is take pride in who you are, and sell the positives of yourself, and be assertive. This is the approach you should be taking regardless of whether its the girl is polish, or asian, or russian..etc. well said!!!

k98_man	Feb 15, 09, 06:08 #17
You are who you are and as far as ethnicity goes, you cannot change it. There will be racist people and those whose preference do not include Asians, but that is nothing you can change. Have a good heart and do what is right and in the end someone very special will love you in return; whether it be a Polish, Chinese, or Australian woman. Good luck with your Polish friend.

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Feb 15, 09, 20:01 #18

Dont bite off more than you can chew. More than race if you are reasonable looking and have a good heart and most importantly have confidence then it shouldnt be a problem. Then again I know some women who are exclusively turned on by non white men and also some who would never sleep with a non white so on and so forth. Good luck mate(ps-if you arent good to her it may be that she may never again go for a chinese man in the future)

MaxChinThreads: - Posts: 15 Joined: Apr 26, 09 ♂	May 4, 09, 17:37 #19
Im a chinese as well, I love polish girl alot. I used to had one but not anymore because she said that im not a polish thats why she dates with another polish guy and dunp me. im pretty sad. I miss her so much........

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Edited by: SzwedwPolsce May 4, 09, 18:46 #20

David_18:

Well you should tell her about your background. If she doesn't accept you for just as you are. Then you should't waste anymore time on her.

The best answer so far!

MaxChin:

Im a chinese as well, I love polish girl alot. I used to had one but not anymore because she said that im not a polish thats why she dates with another polish guy and dunp me.

Then she wasn't the right one for you. Different persons have different preferences. Good for you that she is gone so you don't waste more time on her.

MysteryThreads: 1 Posts: 4 Joined: Jun 7, 09 ♂	Jun 7, 09, 19:55 #21
AusAsian are going to live the rest of your life running from you are ? Take your chances. If she doesnt like your background or whatsoever then she can go **** herself, and she's not the right person for you.

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Jan 15, 10, 23:33 #22

AusAsian:

I was just getting the feeling that polish girls rather go with a white guy, whos tall and better looking ...

While this may be true, the demographic situation slaps the Polish female across the face in a big way, jarring her into settling for something which, in an idealized scenario, would be considerably less than acceptable. This is good news for those who are fixated on Polish womenfolk.

Also, as the Polish female reflects on the stock of Polish gentlemen, the possibilities for the foreign dabbler in Polish delicacies increase dramatically.

Smacznego!

EnglishpoznanThreads: 14 Posts: 152 Joined: Apr 21, 09 ♂	Jan 15, 10, 23:36 #23
Would a Polish guy mind that I am a Chinese girl? Stupid question horses for courses!!!!!

BrutalButcherThreads: 1 Posts: 623 Joined: Nov 10, 09 ♂	Jan 15, 10, 23:38 #24
Polish girls don´t mind cultural backgrounds. Just pretend you are richer than her. G-dspeed!

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Edited by: PolishNutjob Jan 15, 10, 23:57 #25

Englishpoznan:

Would a Polish guy mind that I am a Chinese girl?

Not at all. Having been rejected by their fellow countrywomen in favor of superior non-Polish paragons of virility, decorum, and intellect, the Polish males would welcome the attention of even a Chinese girl.

Remember, overall there tends to be a long-term equilibrium in human coupling. The short-run narcissistic hand-wringing vis a vis whatever tribalistic stratifications tickle one's myopic fancy at any given moment are irrelevent over the course of a typical human life span.

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Edited by: SeanBM Jan 16, 10, 00:37 #26

Englishpoznan, you are wasting your time.
I don't think Brutalbutcher knows anything about Poland, adds nothing to these forums and is just on this forum to irritate people, which, as you now know, he is very good at.
We are all better off redirecting our energies elsewhere, unless you are enjoying yourself, then by all means proceed.

would polish girls mind that i am a chinese guy?
It all comes down to the individual, who she is and who you are and that relationship.
You have to find out for yourself.

Honest GeorgeThreads: 2 Posts: 121 Joined: Nov 12, 09 ♂	Jan 16, 10, 00:49 #27
Try corresponding with chinese, aussie or chinese/aussie women. I think you,ll have more luck that way.

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Edited by: skysoulmate Jan 16, 10, 08:37 #28

AusAsian:

I am not too sure about the general attitude of polish girls towards an australian-malaysian chinese guy like me.

I have been talking online to a polish girl, but I don't know how she will react if I tell her my background?

I want to tell her, but I don't know if I should.

Ooops, should've read the entire post.

You'll never know unless you ask.

What does your friend do?

You're an Australian-Malaysian-Chinese so I'm not sure where you live.

I'm certain there are plenty of Polish women in Australia; I've met several customer rep managers at different hotels in China, especially in Shanghai (over million foreigners live in Shanghai alone!). In Malaysia I've met quite a few nurses and English teachers (yes, Polish women teaching English) in Penang for example.

So yes go and do your "research" and you will certainly like what you find... :)

...hopefully she'll like you, if not - it's her loss, move on to the next Polish lady ;)

OgienThreads: 15 Posts: 420 Joined: Jul 22, 09 ♂	Jan 16, 10, 08:43 #29
Maybe you should stop trying to meet girls online. What's wrong with real life? :-\

king polkakamonThreads: 1 Posts: 1,018 Joined: Dec 30, 09 ♂	Jan 16, 10, 11:37 #30
AusAsian: towards an australian-malaysian chinese guy like me. I have been talking online to a polish girl, but I don't know how she will react if I tell her my background? Dump her and tell her you are pakistani.

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