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Polish girls and the national sport: COMPLAINING HARD all the time


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Geraldo1  Apr 10, 11, 22:14    #1
Hi

As you may have noticed, and as everybody else told you,
the first characteristic of polish people is
THEY COMPLAIN ABOUT ALMOST EVERYTHING:
the girls tell about their big diseases, about them
having fever 39 degrees, about how poor they are
and how hard they have to work... etc

The problem is that if you try to help them,
the reactions are terrible.

One very beautiful girl who is always complaining
that she has to work very hard for only
1700 PLN per month,
I showed her very easy way in which
she can work 3 times less and earn 10 times more.

Of course completely legal.

The reaction?

Was awful, she accused me of insulting her,
and told me to leave her alone.

I tested afterwards on other people,
and the reaction is similar: when they hear
they can really just change their job and earn 10 times
more, their reaction is terrible,
they say I am arrogant and I don't understand polish realities...

Must be the weirdest thing that happens here generally in PL...

:/

Why and how to solve this?
southernThreads: 116
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		Edited by: southern  Apr 10, 11, 22:16    #2
Geraldo1:
THEY COMPLAIN ABOUT ALMOST EVERYTHING:
the girls tell about their big diseases, about them
having fever 39 degrees, about how poor they are
and how hard they have to work... etc

Geraldo1:
and how to solve this?


I have found the best cure.Pienadze.
Geraldo1  Apr 10, 11, 22:21    #3
they usually say that only criminals are rich, politicians and mafia people...

they keep on complaining that they are poor and good and llife is hard
but they reallly do not lift a finger to change anything...
SeanBMThreads: 41
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Joined: Mar 10, 08 ♂ 		 Apr 10, 11, 22:36    #4
Geraldo1:
THEY COMPLAIN ABOUT ALMOST EVERYTHING:

The only one I see complaining is you.

Geraldo1:
I showed her very easy way in which
she can work 3 times less and earn 10 times more.

Of course completely legal.

Go on then, tell us what you told her.
NrthPznnDvsnThreads: 1
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Joined: Apr 8, 11 ♂ 		 Apr 10, 11, 22:40    #5
Geraldo1:
THEY COMPLAIN ABOUT ALMOST EVERYTHING:

You probably have been in the east.
It's so called communist attitude. During comunist times everybody had work and they did nothing and got paid for nothing and now most of people in poland still want this to maintain, so they do nothing and like it.
And complain complain, gimme gimme gimme it's what i hate in this nation frustration frustration .. .
MidasThreads: 2
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Joined: Jul 19, 10 ♂ 		 Apr 10, 11, 22:40    #6
Go on then, tell us what you told her. - great, now he'll tell us all about how to make money off the internet :-)

One very beautiful girl who is always complaining
that she has to work very hard for only
1700 PLN per month,
I showed her very easy way in which
she can work 3 times less and earn 10 times more.

Of course completely legal.

The reaction?

Was awful, she accused me of insulting her,
and told me to leave her alone.


If You told her what I think You told her she had every reason to be insulted, Polish or no Polish.
Geraldo1  Apr 10, 11, 23:13    #7
what do you think Midas, what I told her?:))
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Geraldo1:
The problem is that if you try to help them,
the reactions are terrible.


Because Men are from Mars, and Women from Venus. Simple.
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Joined: Dec 9, 09  Pictures: 1 ♀ 		Edited by: f stop  Apr 10, 11, 23:32    #9
You need to reposition the bar between the praise and complaining.
When's she's complaining, she's simply making conversation, or commenting on state of current affairs. You're not supposed to give her advice, your part of the conversation is to find something to complain about as well, like your job, or your state of affairs.
And remember, when she's not complaining, that's her high praise.
;)
Geraldo1  Apr 10, 11, 23:34    #10
but if I also complain, she will feel more connected with me?
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Geraldo1:
but if I also complain, she will feel more connected with me?

Yes.
It's an art of Polish conversation. ;)
Geraldo1  Apr 10, 11, 23:47    #12
and what is ok to complain about, and what would destroy my image?
rybnikThreads: 29
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Joined: Jan 16, 11  Pictures: 4 ♂ 		 Apr 10, 11, 23:47    #13
Geraldo1:
they keep on complaining that they are poor and good and llife is hard
but they reallly do not lift a finger to change anything...

Buy some books about the PRL-days; show her some food-coupons and remind her that not too long ago people could only buy vinegar and canned peas in the store. "Things are not THAT bad pobrecita".
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Joined: Dec 9, 09  Pictures: 1 ♀ 		Edited by: f stop  Apr 10, 11, 23:52    #14
whatever she's complaing about, follow her lead, but don't try to top her. If she complains about how hard she works, tell her that you work so much, you wish you had more free time. Or if she complains about her family, you tell her that at least she is surrounded by people who love her, while you feel so lonely sometimes. That kind of thing. Soon, she'll be going:"my poor baby, I can make it better..."
:)
For Polish women bragging is much worse of a crime than complaing.
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		 Apr 10, 11, 23:54    #15
Yes,I usually complain about non-polish girls.Just kidding.Anyway you have always to complain.About colored,narcomans,Albanians,thieves,black cats,gays and taxi drivers.
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f stop:
whatever she's complaing about, follow her lead, but don't try to top her. If she complains about how hard she works, tell her that you work so much, you wish you had more free time. Or if she complains about her family, you tell her that at least she is surrounded by people who love her, while you feel so lonely sometimes. That kind of thing. Soon, she'll be going:"my poor baby, I can make it better..."
:)

Really? :)
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rybnik:
Really? :)

works like a charm. Another good one is to complain about food you're eating. That will usually get you a home-cooked meal.
;)
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Joined: Jan 4, 11 ♂ 		 Apr 11, 11, 00:20    #18
Geraldo1:
Why and how to solve this?


Forget about solving it. Just don't date polish women.
JustysiaSThreads: 15
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Joined: Oct 14, 07  Pictures: 2  Gold Member MEMBER ♀ 		 Apr 11, 11, 01:31    #19
Geraldo1:
they can really just change their job and earn 10 times
more, their reaction is terrible,


i suppose sucking you off or 'prace chałupnicze' is not as appealing to many, even if it does pay so well

:)
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Justysia!
Although, I do wonder what that job that pays 10 times more was.
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Joined: Aug 19, 10 ♂ 		 Apr 11, 11, 02:24    #21
f stop:
Although, I do wonder what that job that pays 10 times more was


...simple really, 10 blow jobs in a row...
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FlaglessPole:
...simple really, 10 blow jobs in a row...

Blow jobs are legal in PL? Must be the exchange of cash that trips up the authorities....
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Joined: Aug 19, 10 ♂ 		 Apr 11, 11, 02:42    #23
ShawnH:
Blow jobs are legal in PL? Must be the exchange of cash that trips up the authorities....

either that or that gurgling slobbery sound echoing nation-wide…
Geraldo2  Apr 11, 11, 09:30    #24
The job that pays 10 times more is to be a real estate agent.

And it was a field correlated exactly with what she does now. So it wasn't even a big change...
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		 Apr 11, 11, 09:38    #25
Geraldo2:
be a real estate agent.


If the real estate was my body I woukd gladly contribute.
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Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂ 		 May 26, 11, 23:23    #26
They always have some disease or illness, that's weird. Gibbering seems to be a form of therapy here.


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