PolishForums Maintenance. Please check back later.
What do Polish men think of foreign men stealing their women?

POLAND . The Unofficial Guide.	Unanswered \| Archives
POLAND . The Unofficial Guide.	Travel to Poland	Witamy, Guest \| PF Members \| Gold Members

Polish Forums / Relationships, Marriage /

What do Polish men think of foreign men stealing their women?

page 1 of 19: 1 2 3 4 5 ... 15 16 17 18 19 Next »

♂

Edited by: jarnowa Feb 8, 10, 15:21 #1

Many foreign men come to Poland for the women. I can imagine that not all Polish men like this. If i were a single Polish guy looking for a partner, i would be angry to see a foreign guy trying to get the same woman i'm after. And even more if he was from another culture.

In some countries local men seem to have much more problems with foreign men who are interested in their women, Romania for example. And even more in Turkey and Arab countries.

I wonder what's the reason that Polish men don't seem to care too much. Anyone?

time meansThreads: 9 Posts: 2,306 Joined: Apr 21, 08 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 15:24 #2
jarnowa: If i were a single Polish guy looking for a partner, i would be angry to see a foreign guy trying to get the same woman Wouldn't you feel the same if any guy was after the same women as you, be they Polish or not? Competition is afterall competition.

SeanBMThreads: 41 Posts: 8,644 Joined: Mar 10, 08 ♂	Edited by: SeanBM Feb 8, 10, 15:25 #3
jarnowa: Many foreign men come to Poland for the women. You are a foreigner in Poland. Do you have a relationship with a Polish woman? If so, how do you find you get treated?

frdThreads: 8 Posts: 1,956 Joined: Feb 3, 09 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 15:30 #4
I'm pretty sure it's all the same no matter what's the culture. People get equally frustrated whether it is foreign or local competition...

jarnowaThreads: 5 Posts: 797 Joined: Nov 21, 09 ♂	Edited by: jarnowa Feb 8, 10, 15:40 #5
time means: Wouldn't you feel the same if any guy was after the same women as you, be they Polish or not? Competition is afterall competition. there will always be competitors, that's life. but foreign men are much more annyoing, because it's extra competition. and even more if you realize that most of them didn't come to Poland for the high salaries or the quality of the roads.

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 15:43 #6
Now polish men are more careful about their women as I have noticed.Although this does not deter the latter since there are so many kurwas.

♂

Feb 8, 10, 15:58 #7

SeanBM:

You are a foreigner in Poland.
Do you have a relationship with a Polish woman?
If so, how do you find you get treated?

i had, but we broke up after i moved to Poland.
i stayed to find another girlfriend, but no luck so far because i'm not rich and don't look foreign.

i spoke to a few nice Polish guys who hated to see Polish girls dating negroes, but i'm not sure if this is the general opinion. that's why i ask here. :)

♂

Feb 8, 10, 16:13 #8

There is huge difference when stranger come from country considered higher on economical or cultural level than these from poorer or more backward ( in opinion of locals of course )
In case of Poland and Poles polish girls ( some of them ) would consider British, French or even our enemy Germans as a good catch however Romanians, Ukrainians or Russians are consider as levelling down in social status. Thats of course is more common among an ordinary stock of population.

Grzegorz_Threads: 80 Posts: 6,094 Joined: Nov 16, 06 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 16:15 #9
jarnowa: I wonder what's the reason that Polish men don't seem to care too much. Anyone? The ones that go after foreign men usually just aren't worth any care. Not all of course but most...

♂

Feb 8, 10, 16:33 #10

TIT:

i agree, but now you're talking about the women's opinion.

maybe you have any idea what Polish men are thinking about this?

do you think that the average lonely Polish guy thinks "the English guy who's dancing with this hot chick is a better catch than me, so i'm happy for her" or will he feel jealous/angry?

TITThreads: 9 Posts: 353 Joined: Jan 7, 10 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 16:44 #11
I don't give a flying fcuk about that sort of girls, actually I ve noticed that beautiful, smart, educated polish girls stick to us, most simple-mind money grabbers are after foreign folk

jedenThreads: - Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 30, 09 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 16:58 #12
I dont`t care... Probably I faster pick up english woman, than english man polish

♂

Feb 8, 10, 17:20 #13

TIT:

I don't give a flying fcuk about that sort of girls, actually I ve noticed that beautiful, smart, educated polish girls stick to us, most simple-mind money grabbers are after foreign folk

ok, i understand. that's quite a relaxed attitude.

but i doubt if you would think the same if you had a bit too many experiences of women rejecting you and then later reacting positively to a turk or black.

Grzegorz_Threads: 80 Posts: 6,094 Joined: Nov 16, 06 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 17:27 #14
jarnowa: maybe you have any idea what Polish men are thinking about this? We commit suicide, thousands each and every day.

TheOtherThreads: 4 Posts: 1,435 Joined: Jul 13, 09 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 17:28 #15
What do Polish men think of foreign men stealing their women? I didn't know that Polish men own their girlfriends or wifes. Do the chicks have a little number plate which says "Property of Pawel"? Your question doesn't make sense.

time meansThreads: 9 Posts: 2,306 Joined: Apr 21, 08 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 17:32 #16
TIT: I ve noticed that beautiful, smart, educated polish girls stick to us, most simple-mind money grabbers are after foreign folk So it's nothing to do with my charm, wit and devastatingly good looks?

TITThreads: 9 Posts: 353 Joined: Jan 7, 10 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 17:35 #17
time means: So it's nothing to do with my charm, wit and devastatingly good looks? Nope

♂

Feb 8, 10, 17:50 #18

TheOther:

I didn't know that Polish men own their girlfriends or wifes. Do the chicks have a little number plate which says "Property of Pawel"? Your question doesn't make sense.

mankind evolved in separate ethnic groups/tribes that almost didn't mix.
men from one tribe wouldn't allow men from other tribes to see their women.

so it's very natural to talk about women belonging to men of the same group (nationality in this case), or vice versa.

would you also complain if Polish women talk about Polish men as "our men"?

panormanThreads: - Posts: 4 Joined: Feb 8, 10 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 17:59 #19
I wonder what Polish men think of the guys from Mongolia "stealing" their woman back in Poland, whilst the Poles are busy working here in the UK ? :)

SeanBMThreads: 41 Posts: 8,644 Joined: Mar 10, 08 ♂	Edited by: SeanBM Feb 8, 10, 17:59 #20
jarnowa: mankind evolved in separate ethnic groups/tribes that almost didn't mix. men from one tribe wouldn't allow men from other tribes to see their women. Prove it.

time meansThreads: 9 Posts: 2,306 Joined: Apr 21, 08 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 18:00 #21
TIT: time means: So it's nothing to do with my charm, wit and devastatingly good looks? TIT: Nope Come on i'm not buying that! :-)

TheOtherThreads: 4 Posts: 1,435 Joined: Jul 13, 09 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 18:01 #22
jarnowa: would you also complain if Polish women talk about Polish men as "our men"? If your question would've been "What do Polish women think of foreign women stealing their men?", I would've reacted the same. There is no "ownership".

♂

Feb 8, 10, 18:21 #23

jarnowa:

Many foreign men come to Poland for the women.

I admire that. Relocate to another country for such an insignificant reason like woman and struggle with all that obstacles. I'm here for learning English mostly 99% and also to understand what special can you see in Polish women that we Poles can't ;)

jarnowa:

I wonder what's the reason that Polish men don't seem to care too much. Anyone?

It is simple. We love money. Have you ever tried to pick up a sack of euros? :)

MEMBER ♂

Feb 8, 10, 18:26 #24

This question comes as a result of a common prejudice. Even there are foreigners Polish men already had advantage on the competition. Cultural differences may be a big negative in relations, but couples may overcome it if they really love each other. Any of you has statistics about marriage rates with foreigners for countries?

I don't think Poland is at top 5 on that list. Even it is, I admire that since it can only show they are capable of understanding people regardless of their culture.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,160 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 18:42 #25
To steal means to take sth that doesn't belong to you. Belong to means that you own sth. Sorry but Polish guys don't own Polish women at all, they are free agents with contracting capacity and life is a contract after all. Most Polish guys say nothing when they see me with my wife and they are wise to!!

rtzThreads: 1 Posts: 61 Joined: Jan 3, 10 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 18:43 #26
I always thought it's the women who choose ...

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,160 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 18:45 #27
It often is the woman that chooses. I know of many situations where a Polish woman has chosen a foreign guy but of NO cases of the opposite.

♀

Feb 8, 10, 18:56 #28

jarnowa:

i stayed to find another girlfriend, but no luck so far because i'm not rich and don't look foreign.

ouch!

Grzegorz_:

The ones that go after foreign men usually just aren't worth any care.

ouch again!

TIT:

actually I ve noticed that beautiful, smart, educated polish girls stick to us, most simple-mind money grabbers are after foreign folk

and again!
There was a similar thread a while ago somewhere on this forum. And I reckon nobody could solve the problem of: why do girls/women(not necessairly Polish) choose somebody else over me? And typical answer to this question (when a guy has no luck with girls) is that he has no money! But if he had, then all of them would pick him! It's never been the case of one's attitude, behaviour, views, etc. but always of the money! Look how stupid and funny it sounds.
Dear Grzegorz, I', with a foreigner myself, he's English, but I can assure you that I haven't chosen to be with him because of his nationality. Believe me, if I could find somebody like him in Poland (not because of his money, since he doesn't have much lol) I probably would, since you save time and energy when having a boyfriend in the same country, let alone same city. But I love him because of who he is, because of how he's treating me and because we think alike. Not because he's from the UK.

♂

Feb 8, 10, 18:57 #29

TheOther:

I didn't know that Polish men own their girlfriends or wifes.

They don't.
Much like Brits don't own the jobs Poles allegedly steal from them. It is a metaphor (in both cases) and should be read as one.

Seanus:

I know of many situations where a Polish woman has chosen a foreign guy but of NO cases of the opposite.

Wow, so many years in Poland and you never heard about Polish women married to Polish men?
My wife is Polish. So are both my parents. Heck, I know of no single woman in my extended family (literally hundreds) who is married to a foreigner. Oh, my daughter chose a Polish fella.

You need to go out more, Seanus.

TheOtherThreads: 4 Posts: 1,435 Joined: Jul 13, 09 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 19:05 #30
z_darius: It is a metaphor (in both cases) and should be read as one. Next time I put a big fat smiley at the end of my posting... :)

page 1 of 19: 1 2 3 4 5 ... 15 16 17 18 19 Next »

Home / Relationships, Marriage /

Unanswered [this forum] | Similar

Similar discussions:

This thread is closed. You may not post a reply.

How real is your international (Polish-other) relationship ?

What do foreign women think of Polish men?

Random: Looking for Redwanz, Redwanc, Radwanc, or Radwaniec surname

35 [Guests - 27 / Members - 8] users on live forums now

Time in Poland - 10:53