What do Polish men think of foreign men stealing their women?

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Edited by: z_darius Feb 8, 10, 21:02 #61

Amathyst:

Not really...depends on the man and his status...Polish men in England seem to have been heavily sterotyped and are, as far as I know, not that popular amongst the indiginous female population...Whereas Polish women in Poland seem quite keen on English men in Poland...And therein lies the difference.

Fair enough again.

So the conclusion the is that Polish women do not fall for foreigners for their worth, or lack thereof, but for the stereotypes the foreigners represent? Likewise, foreign women do no reject individual Polish men but rather the stereotypes they learn about, often second or third hand?

Seanus:

Well said Amathyst, you said what Dariusz didn't want to hear but what is essentially the truth.

You have no idea what you're talking about, Seanus. And that included British women too ;)

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Feb 8, 10, 21:16 #62

jarnowa:

Maybe, but does that help to ease the pain when every hot woman you see is only interested in foreign guys?

Any proof or statistics on that ;)

jarnowa:

you would think the same if you were 20 something, unhappy single and every time you go to a club the girls refuse to dance with you and dance with arabs and negroes instead?

Very simple mentality. My observation many polish people are more interested in having good family bounds.

esek:

I don't care.....why? why should I? All in all women in Poland can do whatever they want... it's free country so let them choose.

I don't know why he cares maybe he is eliminated many times ;)

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Feb 8, 10, 21:21 #63

z_darius:

Likewise, foreign women do no reject individual Polish men but rather the stereotypes they learn about, often second or third hand?

I think the fact is that most that are here and are married or are here for a short term to earn money to build / buy a house back home has more truth to it..so unless a person just wants a bit of fun then its okay, but if a woman is looking for a partner, they're not worth the effort...so therefore most English women are not interested in them...Also, there's the language thing, Polish women in general speak good English, Polish men dont...So to sum it up, there are many reasons why Polish men are not apealing to English women.

z_darius:

You have no idea what you're talking about, Seanus. And that included British women too ;)

I know exactly what Im talking about, as already stated, NONE of my friends would dream of dating a Polish man.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,160 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 21:21 #64
Dariusz, you are way out of touch in your closeted little existence in Canada. You know very little about the position in Europe and you show it all too often. Amathyst was right on the money! Keep fooling yourself though, you may get sth from it ;)

TITThreads: 9 Posts: 353 Joined: Jan 7, 10 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 21:26 #65
If you study Tacitus Germania you will find the German women would rather commit group suicide than be a wives of Romans, I know its a bit megalomaniacal but that how world was in those dark days. http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/style/longterm/books/chap1/litera turelost.htm

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Feb 8, 10, 21:33 #66

Amathyst:

I think the fact is that most that are here and are married or are here for a short term to earn money to build / buy a house back home has more truth to it..so unless a person just wants a bit of fun then its okay, but if a woman is looking for a partner, they're not worth the effort...so therefore most English women are not interested in them..

What does that have to do with someone being of a particular nationality. Married, building a house in his old country - it would take a crazy chick to go for it.

Amathyst:

NONE of my friends would dream of dating a Polish man.

Not once did I write anything about your friends' dreams.

Seanus:

Keep fooling yourself though, you may get sth from it ;)

Seanus, I have no reason whatsoever to either fool myself, or be jealous. I am married to a wonderful Polish woman and I am certainly out of that market.

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Feb 8, 10, 21:39 #67

Dariusz, I agree that we shouldn't overplay nationality and that we should judge on an individual basis but I don't think you are picking Amathyst up right. She is making some really good points and I guess English women just don't see them as a safe bet or perceive them as guys who won't just use them and return home.

Rather than get defensive, try to see what she is saying. She isn't flaming, she is observing!

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Feb 8, 10, 21:40 #68

jarnowa:

do you think that the average lonely Polish guy thinks "the English guy who's dancing with this hot chick is a better catch than me, so i'm happy for her" or will he feel jealous/angry?

Polish men, dear oh dear. Such a jealous, spiteful lot and in their eyes any Polish woman who dates foreign/coloured men is a traitor or a kurwa. Because we are not allowed, Polish should stick to Polish. They will seek out any opportunity to mock foreign men just to make themselves look better. They are prepared to fight them too. That's the impression i'm getting. If a guy can't take competition then too bad, and if you feel inferior about wealthy foreigners stealing 'your' women then it's quite sad. Try and make yourself look like more of a catch rather than being a dirty, p*ssed off drunk in a tracksuit using swearwords instead of punctuation, it might help. Polish men have a special talent of making themselves very unnatractive to the opposite sex, be it Polish or not. I spot them on the street cos they are the least appealing ones. Raise the standards a bit, or stop whingeing.

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Edited by: pawian Feb 8, 10, 21:52 #69

jarnowa:

Many foreign men come to Poland for the women. I can imagine that not all Polish men like this. If i were a single Polish guy looking for a partner, i would be angry to see a foreign guy trying to get the same woman i'm after. And even more if he was from another culture.
In some countries local men seem to have much more problems with foreign men who are interested in their women, Romania for example. And even more in Turkey and Arab countries.
I wonder what's the reason that Polish men don't seem to care too much. Anyone?

I believe in free market and competition. Women are goods like others, you can`t get them for free, you must offer sth first. If Polish men can`t offer sth attractive enough to win Polish women, then it is only their fault.

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Feb 8, 10, 21:53 #70

if polish girls treat foreign guys as a safe bet ( from better part of the world ) and advise to polish guys to be more physical attractive its still bad advise, Poles can't compare in wealth resources and girls in England know that. Polish boy toy is only for nice ride, that's it. If we don't respect our own people we are lost. Most polish ( in UK and some unfortunately in Poland ) girls know it as well and thats why they are traitors to its own nation.

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,868 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER ♀	Feb 8, 10, 21:56 #71
Seanus: Rather than get defensive, try to see what she is saying. She isn't flaming, she is observing! how dare a woman talk back?!?! what's this world coming to?! just can't take critisism with a pinch of salt.

SteveramsfanThreads: 2 Posts: 400 Joined: Nov 22, 09 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 21:57 #72
TIT: Most polish ( in UK and some unfortunately in Poland ) girls know it as well and thats why they are traitors to its own nation. Tit is quite an apt name.

jedenThreads: - Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 30, 09 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 21:58 #73
As far as english women`s appearance is concerned this statmant should read as follows : NONE of my friends can dream of dating a Polish man

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,868 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER ♀	Feb 8, 10, 21:59 #74
TIT: girls know it as well and thats why they are traitors to its own nation. typical response :). if you know you have nothing good to offer then why are you trying to put Polish women on a guilt trip? how desperate is that?

jarnowaThreads: 5 Posts: 797 Joined: Nov 21, 09 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 21:59 #75
many people here have a problem with the word 'stealing'. i agree that women have the right to choose if they want someone of their own kind or not. they are not owned by anyone. the women are not the problem. but from the point of view of Polish single men who see foreign guys having more success in getting Polish girls, it's very natural to see these foreigners as filthy thieves.

TITThreads: 9 Posts: 353 Joined: Jan 7, 10 ♂	Edited by: TIT Feb 8, 10, 22:00 #76
Steveramsfan: Tit is quite an apt name. Never heard of Trotter's Independent Traders? something about stereotyping do you know how Romanians are stereotyped in UK? beggars, or mafia who rob cash points guys, but Romanians are nice looking white people of Latin descent here some song sing by Romanian fella

beckskiThreads: 19 Posts: 2,105 Joined: May 15, 07 MEMBER ♀	Feb 8, 10, 22:06 #77
TheOther: There is no "ownership". TheOther is correct, women are not possessions. We're free-willed. Honk if you love PF :)

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Edited by: jeden Feb 8, 10, 22:08 #78

As and English women and I can say you are completely wrong, none of my English female friends have any kind of an opinion whatsoever of Polish men...And our Polish secondee couldnt score with an English woman after many attempts..

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I know how english girls are attracted to my Polish friends.
It wasn`t a question. This is a fact...

BTW. I don`t know maybe it will be rude, but imho english girls are rather easy.

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Feb 8, 10, 22:11 #79

TIT, that sounds about right. I love the emphasis with upper case. Look, there are plenty Polish women to go around. It's not like there was a mass 1 million movement across to Poland to prise away the women here.

Filthy thieves, LOL. What a buffoon you must be!

Exactly, Justy! It is often the women that choose and a relationship is like a contract. My wife is right, she says that many Polish men aren't like that at all. They are happy so long as the foreign guy doesn't trespass on his ground, e.g with his wife. However, she said to say 'spie*dalaj' to TIT and jarnowa for being so childish.

jarnowaThreads: 5 Posts: 797 Joined: Nov 21, 09 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 22:33 #80
Seanus: They are happy so long as the foreign guy doesn't trespass on his ground, e.g with his wife. it would be naural if they also didn't like foreign guys trespassing on their hunting ground (if they are single).

f stopThreads: 28 Posts: 2,682 Joined: Dec 9, 09 ♀	Feb 8, 10, 23:21 #81
1jola: Hot Pani Doctor might prefer boring men. Just an educated opinion, f stop. Possibly. We're aiming for that sweet spot between boring and throwing up in bed.

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,160 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 23:25 #82
Jarnowa, quit the crap. I didn't come here to get a wife at all but ended up with a very nice one :) The best one :) :) My wife's life has a different dimension now, she can learn about Scotland and so many other things. We have travelled a lot together and see that life goes beyond cabbage, vodka and potatoes. So, when are you gonna take me to court for theft?

SeanBMThreads: 41 Posts: 8,647 Joined: Mar 10, 08 ♂	Edited by: Moderator Feb 8, 10, 23:25 #83
pawian: I believe in free market and competition. Women are goods like others, you can`t get them for free, you must offer sth first. If Polish men can`t offer sth attractive enough to win Polish women, then it is only their fault. Do you trade on the stock market? ;)

TITThreads: 9 Posts: 353 Joined: Jan 7, 10 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 23:27 #84
sorry Seanus but Poland not consist a cabbage, vodka and potatoes, are your wife a peasant background by chance?

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,868 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER ♀	Feb 8, 10, 23:32 #85
jarnowa: trespassing on their hunting ground ooga booga my woman you not touch!! ;D

TITThreads: 9 Posts: 353 Joined: Jan 7, 10 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 23:35 #86
here we have a prime example of polish girl who don't wanna be polish :)

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,868 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER ♀	Feb 8, 10, 23:38 #87
TIT: here we have a prime example of polish girl who don't wanna be polish :) i am very much Polish and don't wanna be anything else, i just don't want a smelly backward Polish bf :)

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Feb 8, 10, 23:38 #88

jarnowa:

After you've seen the average woman from Belgium, you will understand! ;)

Do you suggest that what's inside doesn't count? :)
I find it as lack of character. What about these poor average women from Belgium? ;)

I feel like discover of Polish women and Polish pierogi in XXI century is equal to landing on the Moon in XX. Polish women are such wonderful, smart and lovely but Polish electrician no way man. Oh my Gosh. Hey people he is able to repair wall socket ;)

TITThreads: 9 Posts: 353 Joined: Jan 7, 10 ♂	Edited by: TIT Feb 8, 10, 23:40 #89
JustysiaS: i am very much Polish and don't wanna be anything else, i just don't want a smelly backward Polish bf :) can you say you a proud to be Polish? the Polish lass who never put down Polish brave man in UK?

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Feb 8, 10, 23:46 #90
I concur that there are so many kurwas in Poland that if I were a polish man I would beat without regrets.(in this regard Russians seem more unhibited).It is extreme humiliation if you want my opinion and once you sense that you realize how right the polish men are.

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