Polish stranger wants me to write to him

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May 10, 07, 12:13 #1

Hi I'm Mojo. I'm English.I work part time in a supermarket and everytime I'm at work I see a group of young polish men come in to buy their breakfast.They are very polite and I always smile at them. I have seen them for several months but never really spoke to them cos I wasn't actually sure if they spoke any English. Needless to say last week one struck up a stilted conversation with me. Not much was said but the next day I was in work he handed me a letter, introducing himself and saying I make his day better when he sees me.It was a lovely letter written with a good grasp of English.He wants me to write back to him. What does this mean? Is there anything of deeper significance here

xXlisaXxThreads: 10 Posts: 233 Joined: Apr 11, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 12:22 #2
Mojo i wish that would happen to me. Question is was he good looking and are you single?

MojoThreads: 1 Posts: 12 Joined: May 10, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 12:24 #3
I think he is sexy but I really shouldn't cos I'm getting married soon.But I wear my engagement ring. Surely he must have seen this?

miranda	Edited by: miranda May 10, 07, 12:26 #4
[quote=Mojo] Surely he must have seen this? not really, besides in Poland engagement rings are not that popular yet, so he might be thinking that you are available

xXlisaXxThreads: 10 Posts: 233 Joined: Apr 11, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 12:27 #5
or wedding rings lol

MojoThreads: 1 Posts: 12 Joined: May 10, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 12:30 #6
Does that mean I've led him on by smiling at him?

miranda	May 10, 07, 12:38 #7
Quoting: xXlisaXx Does that mean I've led him on by smiling at him? well, I am not sure that you did, maybe he just likes you and since I don't know the details, I am not able to say anything constructive. tell him the truth and thank for the compliment:) Good luck:)

MojoThreads: 1 Posts: 12 Joined: May 10, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 12:46 #8
Well funnily enough I cant stop thinking about him. He basically wrote that if I write to him it will help him with his English.If this is the case then I don't mind writing back. I don't know what Polish guys are like. Would they think they were in with a chance?

LoneStrangerThreads: 3 Posts: 531 Joined: Jan 30, 07 ♂	May 10, 07, 12:49 #9
Quoting: Mojo Would they think they were in with a chance? Stop thinking what he can think or not... behave like a matured person, clear your position to him... and stick to your commitment. He'll find some single English girl for his English... dont worry.... or he might even find a good Polish girl who knows good English! Have a nice day!

xXlisaXxThreads: 10 Posts: 233 Joined: Apr 11, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 12:51 #10
Quoting: miranda Quoting: xXlisaXx Does that mean I've led him on by smiling at him? did that without movin my lips clever lol

MojoThreads: 1 Posts: 12 Joined: May 10, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 12:52 #11
So tell me Lonestranger why does a person have to be single to teach a polish guy a bit of English. Is it because they think that they will get some action?

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May 10, 07, 12:54 #12

Quoting: Mojo

Is it because they think that they will get some action?

And why are you so much interested? :D ...

Oh well... there can be so much in his mind!... why are you so bothered when all the things in your life is getting fit and settled!... HOWEVER.... if you are so liberal and easy...go ahead teach him, smile, laugh... etc etc... and then whatever you want in life!

However... I just gave my suggestion to you... and this is what this forum is all about!

Good Luck!

ChrisThreads: - Posts: 15 Joined: Feb 11, 07 ♂	May 10, 07, 12:57 #13
Funny enough that's what I done with a girl at my work, I wrote a note in Polish with the help of the fabulous members on here. Hasn't worked yet though :-(

MojoThreads: 1 Posts: 12 Joined: May 10, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 13:02 #14
I want to help him. I just don't want him to want anything else

LoneStrangerThreads: 3 Posts: 531 Joined: Jan 30, 07 ♂	May 10, 07, 13:06 #15
Quoting: Mojo I want to help him Then just be with the facts of life...

MojoThreads: 1 Posts: 12 Joined: May 10, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 13:09 #16
Basically should I write back or not?

sparrowThreads: 4 Posts: 307 Joined: Apr 24, 07 ♂	May 10, 07, 13:10 #17
Of course you can.. just make it clear you're enganged with someone. Or just tell him straight. Or if you want to have a flirt.. that's up to you.

xXlisaXxThreads: 10 Posts: 233 Joined: Apr 11, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 13:11 #18
i must admit i saw a Polish lad for a while but age diffrence got in the way. Anyway we still talk he now has a Polish girlfriend but we talk and he sort of teaches me Polish (swear words are easy) lol and i teach him english (well correct him). I'v now got a really good friend and we get on really well.

MojoThreads: 1 Posts: 12 Joined: May 10, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 13:13 #19
I want to know about his life, his culture, his family. I suppose being a foreigner to me he has that element of mystique. I only know British guys

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Edited by: Moderator May 10, 07, 13:16 #20

Quoting: Mojo

Basically should I write back or not?

Why do you want to help him, because you want to be sure the marriage you are
about to commit to might not be what you wanted in the first place?

that is what I am getting out of you, love is something that no one can interfere
with, and being that this simple note made your mind confused tells me that you
are not committed to this soon to be union.

your going astray.. not good sign.

what if he is only wanting to get to know you in one way, maybe that he has
no intentions of anything other then that.. why would you want to know about
a stranger who hands you a note , yes this could be a love story, or could be
disaster..

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May 10, 07, 13:22 #21

The bloke I'm marrying, he is the father of my son. I must do the right thing for my son. My son wasn't planned. I got pregnant in the first month of being with my fiance and he acted like a monster though he has other children from previous marriages. My parents are strict christians so that didn't help.It was the saddest pregnancy. I only had joy at the end when I had my beautiful boy. Now 3 years on we are happier. If I am thinking about this other bloke what does that mean

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May 10, 07, 13:24 #22

Quoting: LoneStranger

Stop thinking what he can think or not... behave like a matured person, clear your position to him... and stick to your commitment.

He'll find some single English girl for his English... dont worry.... or he might even find a good Polish girl who knows good English!

Have a nice day!

I've just marked this day in my calendar.

LS has written something that I agree with word for word.

espanaThreads: 40 Posts: 2,233 Joined: Feb 28, 07 ♂	May 10, 07, 13:26 #23
Quoting: Mojo The bloke I'm marrying, he is the father of my son. I must do the right thing for my son i m not watching eastenders tonight ,,,,this is better!!!!!!!

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May 10, 07, 13:28 #24

Quoting: Mojo

If I am thinking about this other bloke what does that mean

well, your not in love thats for sure..

why marry because its the right thing to do for whom?? you child? no, you will be
fighting , hating each other, you already show that you are angry with him, and
marry because your parents are strict? are they going to carry the burdens you do?
will they ever know how heavy your heart will feel?

I could tell you have other things going on. just dont let this guy have so much
trust.. be wary, keep composer, and take things slow, dont invite him over
without company, kinda find out why he picked you first.. ask him that in the note.

ask alot of questions. and give the ring back, even if he isnt the man you want,
least you will feel better that you did the right thing by saving /sparing your children
from all the sadness. sometimes its better that way till you find the right person..

ok, got to head out to work,,, keep me posted..and be careful!!

MojoThreads: 1 Posts: 12 Joined: May 10, 07 ♀	Edited by: Moderator May 10, 07, 13:29 #25
Yeah and my son calls eastenders 'shout' for obvious reasons I think about the other bloke but not in sexual terms. Yes he's sexy but all those polish guys seem to be my type of man.

Angry DuckThreads: - Posts: 29 Joined: May 9, 07 ♂	May 10, 07, 13:42 #26
Quoting: Mojo Yes he's sexy but all those polish guys seem to be my type of man. I'm not polish but damn 'm pretty sure that can be your nightmare. or something like that. so, decided to stay away from you (good for you) (where are "#$%&/=?* smilieeeeeees ,,, )

MojoThreads: 1 Posts: 12 Joined: May 10, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 13:48 #27
Aren't Polish people supposed to be catholics? Meaning no sex before marriage

espanaThreads: 40 Posts: 2,233 Joined: Feb 28, 07 ♂	May 10, 07, 13:50 #28
Quoting: Mojo Aren't Polish people supposed to be catholics? Meaning no sex before marriage come on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we are in the 2007

sparrowThreads: 4 Posts: 307 Joined: Apr 24, 07 ♂	May 10, 07, 13:51 #29
Quoting: Mojo Aren't Polish people supposed to be catholics? Meaning no sex before marriage Do you seriously think that people who label themselves as catholic don't have pre-marital sex? It's not the 1950's anymore ;)

MojoThreads: 1 Posts: 12 Joined: May 10, 07 ♀	May 10, 07, 13:53 #30
Wondered if any nationality considered it sacred anymore

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