A Polish womans relationship with her mother in law.

Patrycja19Threads: 79 Posts: 3,974 Joined: Oct 31, 06 ♀	Oct 18, 10, 18:43 #31
SLASKMILLER: your son is an arse sorry agree. he sounds like he is having mental issues.. people just dont do things like this without good reasons and hes making this one up sounds like.

ningyou_lvThreads: 1 Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 17, 10 ♀	Oct 18, 10, 21:44 #32
I hope that was a joke..Since I imagine that most if not all Poles have mod cons..which generally include time saving devices like the good old microwave! yes that was a joke ^^ but it came from real life conversation when i first came to live in england i was asked if i know what microwave is

litho

Mar 1, 12, 12:40 #33

I think the reason the polish wife said to her english husband that people don't talk with their mother in laws is because polish mother in laws most often treat their daughter in law horrible, like chattle, the daughter in law doesn't want to get close enough to get in a position to set herself up to be hurt by a jealous mother in law. Obviously this case is about an English mother in law, not polish, so the new polish wife is stupid not to understand the difference of respect for people between cultures. Any mother in law can be bad, but it's particularly true of places like Poland where there was once communism and much suffering. The Polish people usually deal with their own suffering by tormenting others. The familiarity of pain makes them create a situation for more pain, because it is what they are most intimate with. I am a daughter in law with a Polish mother in law. After 11 years of marriage and having lived in Poland, this truth about motive behind this phenomenon is very clear, especially science I have the educationa and research to back it up. I did a study on this and won an award for it. Not exactly on in laws but culture and relationships, and why Polish and other eastern people behave so opposite to their desired results. It's because, they never before attained them. They don't know what true success of happiness and freedom feels like. So they do the only thing they know, which is to create unhappiness and infest with others. Very sad. Like children but grown.

f stopThreads: 33 Posts: 2,861 Joined: Dec 9, 09 ♀	Mar 2, 12, 04:39 #34
litho: The Polish people usually deal with their own suffering by tormenting others Bull. That's how they test your strength. You can cry uncle or take the reins from her. They'll only torment you if you choose to play the victim.

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