What are Polish Women like? Just started to date one.

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southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	Feb 8, 12, 11:44 #241
I have to admit polish craziness for pienadze is unparalleled.They bleed us dry in an extent I am sure IMF will have to declare bankruptcy.This black hole becomes bigger and bigger.Polki are keen to bring their relatives kolezanki etc into the equation so the burdens icrease.How much more weight for the Balkan power?

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Feb 9, 12, 18:51 #242

Just to give my opinion (if anyone's bothered) my polish 'girlfriend/affair) ended in tears just as i was warned and secretly knew. However, in contrast to everyones opinion, she did actually come clean with her partner about me and how she loved me and wanted to be with me, which ended up with me and him on the phone with me basically saying if she comes to me i'll never try to steel away your daughter but you'll have to accept it and if she decides to stay with you for the sake of your kid then i'll walk away. That night i had to call the police cause he tried killing himself and he was arrested then i suspect he tried it in the cell again cos they roughed him up a bit. Subsequently, he went back to Poland and i gave her some space to breeth and decide what she wanted, unfortubnately for us both she reluctantly decided to stay with him because of emotional black mail but i understood and walked away as promised then faced the worst emotional pain i've ever experienced (this was back in september 2011 and it still hurts now - i'd rather go 12 rounds with mike tyson than face that again)! !
Anyway, the reason i'm telling you all this is that after 1 month of her changing her number (his request which i agreed to so i didn't start texting her drunk) she strted to e-mail ne from a secret e-maIl he wasn't aware of. She wanted to see me but at the same time maintained she wouldn't leave him! ! ! ! ! WHAT THE FCUK! ! ! ! This obviously fcuked my head up just as i was starting to feel better and ripped open the delicately healing wound in my heart - i was back to sqare one. She obviously wanted to have her cake and eat it and although she must have had strong feelings for me to be thinking about me all the time she didn't love me enough to let me go and get on with my life so i did the only thing i could - i waited till she was out and confronted him face to face for the 1st time (at 1st he wouldn't answer the door cos he thought i was there to fight) but once i talked him round i explained my position about what i was told about him and i didn't know about him when i met her then when she came clean she made him out to be a monster. I apologised for the whole affair then dropped it on him that she was e-mailing me again and seeing as i was doing my part by keeping away it was up to him to sort his woman out cos i could't and wouldn't carry on like that. I showed him the e-mails and beleive it or not we actually shook hands when i left as he understood i only acted on what i knew and i wasn't a home wrecker and although devastated the little slag had started to try and re-start our affair he appreciated me bringing it to his attention (what goes around comes around! ! ! ! ! ! !).
Someone on this forum stated that once a Polish women gets settled down they start to look around and in my experience i beleive this to be the case with me 100% but you can't tarnish everyone with the same brush,
Also, i coincidentally bumped into one of his friends girl friends friends during my work and when it came out in conversation who i was and about the affair (small world), it was nice to give my side of the story to a neutral party who assured me in their circle of friends she was the villain not me - which was nice as she could have spun any amount of bull sh1t to make herself look like the guilty party so again - what goes around comes around.
My conclusion to all this is basically most women whether eastern or western think their sh1t don't stink anf they can just swan around with their nose in the air thinking they can do what they want without reprecussions, and when it comes to being unfathfull woman are just as bad as men if not worse - after all if men are so bad then who the fcuk is it we're fcuking?????
Be carefull boys you can't live with them and you can't live without them but living with some of them can be the death of you! ! ! !
Nuf said
Scotty

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	Feb 9, 12, 19:59 #243
Yes,polish women like to play with men.

weropimkieThreads: - Posts: 3 Joined: Feb 9, 12 ♀	Feb 9, 12, 20:08 #244
isn'tit like all polish women are different?Me personally I dont believe I got any of these features u can mark as "polish" and that's just strange to me how people can classify behaviors and personalities like that....

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	Edited by: southern Feb 9, 12, 20:34 #245
Polish have some specific traits although they generally display the typical slavic approach.With Polki you feel alive for some reason.They can be shocking when they appear so natural but it is part of the lure.

scotty19

Feb 20, 12, 14:20 #246

So are you saying i shouldn't give up on Polish women altogether? I did actually say in my message i wouldn't tarnish all Polish women with the same brush and i am still very much attracted to polish over western women as they seem to be more down to earth and value relationships and loyalty more (i have a polish couple who rent a property from me and they seem so happy and in love) BUT after going what i've been through over the last 18 months i'm scared to death to trust any women ever again let alone a Polish woman! ! ! Obviosly i'm still hurting and i know that time heals all wounds (apparently), but is there light at the end of the tunnel cos right now i can't see it!
P.S What makes it harder to accept is that the kids Father is a lazy thick ugly labourer, whereas i keep fit, and am very succesfull with my various businesses and could have provided a much better, secure and loving future for her - do you think she chose him purely cos of the suicide attempt and having a kid together (emotional black mail) or could it be she wants that kind of man cos he's easier to control, plus she always used to worry that i would cheat on her if she chose me cos she said i was attractive and she'd be constantly worried about other pretty girls in my gym whereas with her partner she doesn't need to worry about this! !
Your advice would be appreciated as part of getting over someone is understanding, why?

scotty19	Feb 20, 12, 14:23 #247
P.S My last post was directed at weropimkie - i assume you are a polish woman?

grverg	Feb 20, 12, 17:32 #248
she chose him because your are too self conceited

ChrisMac	Feb 20, 12, 21:19 #249
grverg: she chose him because your are too self conceited I second this. You just displayed a fondness for talking about how much girls want to pick you up in the gym. Even if she's the one who said it, you're remembering it and telling others as a reason why you're "the better choice". Thick neck or no, I'm liking the other guy more.

thebadmonkeyThreads: 2 Posts: 80 Joined: Feb 20, 12 ♂	Feb 20, 12, 22:38 #250
Have never really noticed too much more different about Polish women to be fair. Very good looking but by and large women the world over are the same...completely alien to us men :D I guess the one thing that stood out for me was the different attitudes to alcohol but that was pretty much it.

AlligatorThreads: - Posts: 350 Joined: Dec 15, 10 ♂	Feb 20, 12, 22:45 #251
thebadmonkey: I guess the one thing that stood out for me was the different attitudes to alcohol but that was pretty much it. Interesting, what kind of different attitudes? Honestly asking, so don't worry I am not being sarcastic or anything.

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Feb 20, 12, 23:07 #252

It's something my Polish friends noticed when here when came here first (ended up marrying one of them, still not sure how it happened but worked out ok!)

A large percentage of younger women can get pretty messy when out in club (drink that little bit too much, fall around etc). It's far from being the majority but still a large enough percentage to be visible in comparison to most other nationalities. Never really notced myself, was only when it was pointed out that kinda looked at it objectively. Not that I really cared either way!

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Feb 20, 12, 23:14 #253

Shawn_H:

midgeure wrote: English Girls Sorry, never met one.

I have. Yes, there are some differences. Polish women are more about health and outdoors and exercise. Idk how English women are about cleaning or family relationships. But Polish grammar in regards to politeness is very different than English. Also, Polish women don't drink as much as English women. And Catholicism is ingrained in our many holidays...

Scotty19

Feb 25, 12, 10:25 #254

I'm not self conceited and take offence at that comment, people always tell me I'm good looking but 1 - I don't see it, 2 - I'm very shy, 3 - yes I may have repeated what she said BUT she said it not me! 4 - I don't play away from home unlike her and finally 5 - self conceited!!!!!! She is extremely beautifull and always getting attention from men as do most women which makes women the self conceited ones even the ugly ones!!!!! So fcuk you - you're sh1t smells just like everyone else's - self conceited my arse you cheeky tw@t. She just wanted to have her cake and eat it as you all do!!! Thanks for the advice, you don't get me at all, and I am certainly not self concerted! P.S I hate posing knob heads in my gym and they are self conceited, I go to the gym to keep healthy and mainly relieve stress, getting a nice body is a bi product I couldn't give a fcuk if I was 20 stone and looked like sloth out of the goonies but that wouldn't stop me having a heart attack would it??????? Real beauty lies on the inside - so who's the one who's self conceited? P.P.S I actually met the other bloke and he is a nice feller but he is fat and more to the point very lazy. Think before you judge

Scotty19

Feb 25, 12, 14:21 #255

P.S I never displayed a fondness of other women trying to pick me up in the gym, if you read my text I said that SHE was paranoid that I'd cheat on her because SHE thought I was attractive NOT me. The girls in my gym love them selves more than any man ever could so if you still think I'm conceited then fair enough everybody's entitled to their opinion but if I have hopefully convinced you both otherwise then perhaps you could still try and offer me an explanation as to why he chose him?

scotty19	Feb 25, 12, 15:15 #256
P.P.S Apologies for my initial response to being called conceited it was uncalled for, every one who knows me will tell you i am one of the least conceited and down to earth people on the planet, sadly however, quite often people do get that opinion of me if they don't know me which is why i get so infuriated by it cos it's simply not true. Hope i didn't offend anyone

OmegaSupremeThreads: 1 Posts: 4 Joined: Jun 4, 11 ♂	Mar 4, 12, 00:39 #257
Scotty19: offer me an explanation as to why he chose him? He has a bigger p**** than you.

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