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Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands?

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Evelina	Nov 2, 07, 22:27 #91
Quoting: Willy You want a date with me Evelina? Sorry I got someone special thanks anyways ;)

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Nov 14, 07, 02:34 #92

6 - Polish men don't shower as often

I have to say , that this is sadly TRUE. I'm dating a Polish guy who might not have all those bad characteristics listed above BUT he definitely doesn't shower as often and it really irritates me. I personally like to shower once or even twice a day, but I think he does it once or twice a week. Actually I don't know what to do about it, we've just started dating and it was the first thing I didn't like, I don't know what to do, specially because is the beginning of the relation and I don't feel comfortable neither suggesting nor standing it. Other thing I don't enjoy is his poor sense of fashion. I don't want a fashionable man, but he doesn't care much about his appearance (things like black pants, black shoes and WHITE SOCKS!!!!!!), also his entire wardrobe is from the early 90's!!!!!!. I could stand the clothing but the every day shower?????...... I don't know what to do. If anyone has any suggestions, please help me!!! I really like him, he is nice, he treats me well, pays for everything, he is not stupid, he is an intelligent man, he is got a profession back from Poland, he is a man with feelings and good sense of humour. I really can see a lot of potential and good things I really like from him; but the poor interest on his appearance turn me off, specially because it's one of the most important aspects from myself I always take care of . WHAT SHOULD I DO???? I don't want to let him go because of that but I can't stand it either and I don't feel like saying or suggesting anything that is just common sense on any human being and also it's just the beginning of the relationship. He was a Doctor in Poland that's why I just can't get it. I thought all Polish were like that because to me, doesn't make sense being a doctor and not take care of your appearance, but after I read what you said I don't know what to think. PLEASE HEEEEEEELP

tomekcatkinsThreads: 13 Posts: 173 Joined: Oct 9, 07 ♂	Nov 14, 07, 02:51 #93
Quoting: Maati but i would not like to raise our children there... and i think catholic pl is not the best place too, so it's the time to move somewhere again... In that case look for The Netherlands. Quite liberal but not as capitalistic as England or the States. And not as "stiff" as Germany. :-)

ShelleySThreads: 18 Posts: 3,647 Joined: Jun 26, 07 ♀	Nov 14, 07, 02:53 #94
Buy him some nice smelly stuff, thats about the biggest hint you can give Failing the above, tell him you have a shower fettish and love doing it in there - that should solve the problem :) as for the clothes aspect - say "hey lets go shopping" and guide him towards the mens stores - and pic up things you think will suit him :)

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Nov 14, 07, 03:59 #95

personally i have several reason :-
1 - Life is more interesting with someone who has different experiences and background to your own.
2 - Polish men drink too much.
3 - Westerners work harder and earn more money than Polish men.
4 - Polish men are less refined.
5 - Polish men are less intelligent.
6 - Polish men don't shower as often
7 - Polish women want something more than Polish men and Poland can offer.
8 - Polish women realise that you only live once so why settle for second best.

9 - Their children will have the advantage of knowing two languages and having two nationalities.
10 - Their friends will be envious.

For what i know on Polish guys they are different from what u are describing... i was impressed by them. But i agree that someone from a different background and culture makes life more exciting and interesting, moreover its an advantage for children.

MacduffThreads: 13 Posts: 86 Joined: Oct 30, 07 ♂	Nov 14, 07, 04:52 #96
I thinkits just becuase we are bigger and better in bed than the Polish men :-))

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06 ♀	Nov 14, 07, 04:56 #97
I dont think nationality has anything to do with how often you shower. My partner showers twice a day normally.. he told me that when he was growing up they only had a tin bath in front of the fire and you were only allowed in it once a week cos of water shortages.. so guess hes making up for that now

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	Nov 14, 07, 05:01 #98
Polish women prefer polish men.The ones who cannot easily get a polish boyfriend find a foreigner to marry them.This is the most common.Or the foreigner maybe rather good looking. I do not regard polish men as dirty,less intelligent,less mannered or less hardworking.I regard them as real competition.

AvJoeUK	Nov 14, 07, 05:02 #99
Works both ways, I've seen on this board a fair few Brit women looking for a Polish guy.

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Edited by: ebdpp Nov 14, 07, 06:27 #100

Quoting: ShelleyS

as for the clothes aspect - say "hey lets go shopping" and guide him towards the mens stores - and pic up things you think will suit him :)

I haven't met a man who thinks it's a great idea going shopping on the third date. Most men hate shopping malls, and he certainly is not really into that. Also, I don't want to seem to bossy by suggesting a new wardrobe. He may think I 'm one of those who want to change him right away, and men don't like that. Shelley you and me are women that's why, going shopping might seem the solution, but from a man point's of view....(specially at the beginning of the relationship) . Also it's not the right time to start buying things for him like clothing.

Quoting: ShelleyS

Buy him some nice smelly stuff, thats about the biggest hint you can give

Then again it's not the right time to buy a perfume , and actually that won't solve the problem, I don't want him to be covered by perfume, I want him to shower everyday!!!

How can I tell him guys? I really like him but.... remember we been out for only 2 or 3 times.

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Nov 14, 07, 07:16 #101

Quoting: ebdpp

How can I tell him guys? I really like him but.... remember we been out for only 2 or 3 times

I dont think you can at this early stage without hurting his feelings and possibly putting him off you.. I would suggest taking a shower together before you sleep with him..

As far as the clothes thing goes, remember its whats underneath that counts. I do remember my bf having a pair of jeans that were horrible and I just used to look at them in disgust til he asked me what was wrong and I said that I was sorry but I didnt think they suited him and he looked much better in another pair. At first he was adamant that he liked them, but after one more wear I never saw them again. When I asked him why, he said that he appreciated my fashion advice. I then started buying him clothes that I liked or pointing out other guys who looked good in certain things, either on TV or friends or even in the street. However, be careful what you wish for as in my case he is now even more obsessed with clothes than me and is wardrobe is constantly expanding.

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Nov 14, 07, 07:33 #102

Quoting: ebdpp

Then again it's not the right time to buy a perfume , and actually that won't solve the problem, I don't want him to be covered by perfume, I want him to shower everyday!!!

I meant some shower gell type stuff, not aftershave - but agreed it is a bit too soon to be buying him personal things like that - its a bit of a no brainer because he might just be one of those people who doesnt really care about his appearance - if you really like him as you say, stick with it and in time you can tell him he's a bit of a stinker :)

Quoting: sapphire

I do remember my bf having a pair of jeans that were horrible

Hmm I know where you are coming from my b/f brought a pair of white jeans up one weekend - I offered to iron then and accidently got a rather large black mark on them, they havent seen the light of day again!

sapphireThreads: 28 Posts: 1,418 Joined: Dec 7, 06 ♀	Nov 14, 07, 07:47 #103
Quoting: ShelleyS my b/f brought a pair of white jeans up one weekend - I offered to iron then and accidently got a rather large black mark on them, they havent seen the light of day again! nice tactic.. if I didnt hate ironing I would try it. Theres always the charity shop when you live together.. you just say you have no idea what happened to that particular item of clothing :)

Grzegorz_Threads: 81 Posts: 6,213 Joined: Nov 16, 06 ♂	Nov 14, 07, 08:15 #104
Quoting: cavalier_101 cavalier_101 Dude, you must have a small dick complex to start a topic like this one.

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Nov 14, 07, 12:12 #105

Shelley and Sapphire !!!!

You two are terrible. You really made me laugh. How could you dare to do that to those lovely jeans. Next time I see him I'm gonna start to think about your tactics and if I start laughing for no reason (apparently) , it's gonna be all your fault!!!! (I'm gonna keep the iron in mind anyway)

Any other suggestions guys?

Quoting: Grzegorz_

Dude, you must have a small dick complex to start a topic like this one

Grzegorz!! Cavalier is not here anymore!! Why you dont give me an advise. I want to know a man's point of view in regards my situation. You are a man so you can give me some advice.

a1makji

Nov 14, 07, 12:40 #106

survival of the fittest smartest leanest meanest whith the best geanome and polish men come last after least

1st we rule your women then we rule your country then we take over the world ha ha ha ha all white woman are going out whith brwon plack forign men the west has nothing to offer them exept an outdated bible sex drink and one night stands

we have a new world a new order more money bigger houses bigger faster cars curry dumplins tortillas ha ha ha ha did i get you thinking did i **** you of did i make you angry truth hurts tut tut tut.

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	Edited by: Administrator Nov 14, 07, 13:13 #107
Maybe because they can easier recognize the darker skin through icecream. youtube.com/watch?v=qfHwX2t3oOQ

AvJoeUK	Nov 14, 07, 13:18 #108
Quoting: a1makji brwon plack forign men Not them Brwon plack Forign men, anyone but them!

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Nov 14, 07, 14:08 #109

Quoting: a1makji

all white woman are going out whith brwon plack forign men

ha ha with who? say that in english? are you a brown plack forgin man? you said you were british, make your mind up! ha ha

Quoting: a1makji

the west has nothing to offer them exept an outdated bible sex drink and one night stands

and your koran or whatever is so up do date, its so great to be a woman in a muslim society isnt it...

Quoting: a1makji

we have a new world a new order more money bigger houses bigger faster cars

really? i thought you still rode in little carriages or on donkeys

Quoting: a1makji

curry dumplins tortillas

yes thats true, but not so sure about tortillas, thought they were mexican

Quoting: a1makji

truth hurts

it does doesnt it

AvJoeUK	Edited by: AvJoeUK Nov 14, 07, 14:16 #110
Quoting: JustysiaS ha ha with who? say that in english? are you a brown plack forgin man? you said you were british, make your mind up! ha ha I think their some kind of umper-lumper mexican munchkin mix or something, either way their lucky their not A1makji thats for sure.

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,869 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER ♀	Nov 14, 07, 14:18 #111
Quoting: AvJoeUK umper-lumper munchkin mexican mix hmmm this is very puzzling...

AvJoeUK	Nov 14, 07, 14:19 #112
This is, but im sure they must be more British then A1makji, I've got more British in my little finger then him, although he trys hard to convince himself...jealous much?

Grzegorz_Threads: 81 Posts: 6,213 Joined: Nov 16, 06 ♂	Edited by: Grzegorz_ Nov 14, 07, 14:21 #113
Quoting: a1makji Here is a pedophile you worship.

AvJoeUK	Edited by: AvJoeUK Nov 14, 07, 14:22 #114
EDIT you did it anyways lol

Grzegorz_Threads: 81 Posts: 6,213 Joined: Nov 16, 06 ♂	Nov 14, 07, 14:36 #115
I edited because wasn't sure how this crap is called.

polishgirltx	Nov 14, 07, 15:02 #116
Quoting: cavalier_101 Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence :):P

miranda	Nov 14, 07, 15:03 #117
Quoting: Grzegorz_ crap is called. crap

sledzThreads: 29 Posts: 3,202 Joined: Sep 19, 06 ♂	Nov 14, 07, 15:06 #118
Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? Thats all you see in the States Polish women with American guys, I guess we just treat them better:)

polishgirltx	Nov 14, 07, 15:07 #119
Quoting: sledz I guess we just treat them better:) yes, as long as cheese in a fridge, it's all great! lol

sledzThreads: 29 Posts: 3,202 Joined: Sep 19, 06 ♂	Nov 14, 07, 15:09 #120
Quoting: polishgirltx as long as cheese in a fridge Well I have plenty of that:)

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